lronitulstahp
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ORIGINAL: BlackPhx Simple to understand Linea..Really. We are extremely prone due to past relationships ( and yes this can go back to parents as well) to expect criticism. You and I are of a similar age, which means that we were raised on the Good Housekeeping Standard. Livingrooms were for company or Sunday gatherings , dishes were done right after dinner and the house was never ready for company unless everything sparkled. It took a long time for me to accept good enough and I missed part of my kids early years trying to have the perfectly clean home. We still hear that criticism and high expectation, that when HE came over or Home, everything would be perfect, kids fed, bathed and in bed, martini waiting and the house spotless, dinner on the table and you in pearls and heels. Damn June cleaver and Donna Reed. Heck even when She had a career (Mary Tyler Moore Show) everything was spotless not even a stocking in sight or a towel in the wrong place. Now Master is coming home or over and we channel those critical voices instead of the happy ones that say..he ain't seeing the house, he's seeing me. poenkitten ( giving Linea and Christine a roll of Duct Tape to silence those voices) i can't possibly be the ONLY one that got a bit wet at that imagery......(the stuff in red) ~slut in pearls i hate it when i have something to hate again....i was on a steady diet of "i love it when's"
< Message edited by lronitulstahp -- 10/8/2008 3:40:45 PM >
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