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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/9/2008 4:50:17 AM

badlilthang

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ORIGINAL: bluefireroses

Thanks Greedy

**hugs from me too - tried therapy twice - but was told since i word my feelings/emotions so well - and know why i feel like i do...i am strong - and do not need therapy...duh....meaning - you are on your own.....so i hope your therapist is a good one - that can truly help...my therapist is my best friend..we both have kids with special needs - so we can truly relate - and cry/scream/laugh at each others shoulder...s...and it is free...winks...good luck!**

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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/9/2008 4:52:50 AM

Dnomyar

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Who knew all along that I was a therapist. I give advice for free.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/9/2008 4:53:00 AM

badlilthang

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

I hate it that I'm having to use reading glasses now, at least until I can get an eye exam and new contacts *sigh*

**but you look soooo smart!**

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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/9/2008 5:39:34 AM

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Bad ..may I make two suggestions to you?

The first is simple, if he ignores the email you sent him telling him NOT to contact you further (which is what I hope you said instead of giving him more ammunition and affirmation that he is getting to you) contact him with the following statement : You have ended our relationship and I have agreed to said end . If you continue to contact me from multiple nicks in email, contact me by phone or regular mail or in person I will be forced to consider your actions stalking and harassment and have to resort to legal methods to end your actions. After that Do NOT contact him again, notify the Moderators, and your local legal authorities, if he continues.

The second is also simple: SHOP for a therapist. They are not one size fits all. IF you feel that you need to talk with someone, you need to talk with someone. No therapist worth their salt is going to tell you no matter how well you articulate or access your feelings that you do not need a support person or someone to help you frame the questions so you can find the answers. Your insomnia, the crash and burn of this last relationship and I am sure other things we are unaware of, are more than enough reason for you to seek help and get it. Don't let someone discourage you from doing exactly that. That therapist was a twit.

good luck and stay strong

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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/9/2008 5:50:34 AM

Dnomyar

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Greedy if you want new contacts then write to more people on here.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/9/2008 5:57:02 AM

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ORIGINAL: badlilthang

**hugs from me too - tried therapy twice - but was told since i word my feelings/emotions so well - and know why i feel like i do...i am strong - and do not need therapy...

Bad...the therapist was a bozo. The fact that you walked into their office means you have issues that you need help with. Please, as Poen said, shop around until you find a therapist you are comfortable with.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/9/2008 6:13:38 AM

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I hate that I dont feel that I knew my emotions were contrived.
I hate it when I dont know my asss from a hole in the ground.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/9/2008 6:41:31 AM

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Contrived? If they are emotions they are not contrived (artificial) though they may be contrived (labored). Emotions are emotions and while you may not identify where they are coming from they are not false or artificial though you can display emotions you are not really feeling...E.G. Happy to see someone you would rather avoid at the moment.

Now as for your other problem..the Ass is the rather padded anterior section of your body generally used for sitting on, falling on and being spanked on. The hole in the ground is where you would plant a car tire, a plant, or your head when not wanting to see the trouble your smart ass has gotten you into.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/9/2008 6:48:41 AM

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*plants a rosemary bush outside poen's door and puts an *out for torture* sign on her doorknob*

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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/9/2008 7:04:13 AM

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Lush send me a pic of it and I will tell you which it is. Holly learn the difference between a clown and a therapist.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/9/2008 7:21:01 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Lush send me a pic of it and I will tell you which it is. Holly learn the difference between a clown and a therapist.

*SNORT

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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/9/2008 7:25:58 AM

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I hate it when I see things differently than someone and they and say "I dont get it" and insult me. Am I so stupid? Or maybe you need to be clearer and not lose your patience explaining your points?

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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/9/2008 7:59:18 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BlackPhx

Contrived? If they are emotions they are not contrived (artificial) though they may be contrived (labored). Emotions are emotions and while you may not identify where they are coming from they are not false or artificial though you can display emotions you are not really feeling...E.G. Happy to see someone you would rather avoid at the moment.

Now as for your other problem..the Ass is the rather padded anterior section of your body generally used for sitting on, falling on and being spanked on. The hole in the ground is where you would plant a car tire, a plant, or your head when not wanting to see the trouble your smart ass has gotten you into.

poenkitten (off for flu shot and gym workout)

Well I love the way you boil things down to the nitty gritty. I wish it was that easy.
It would take pages to explain my tailspin.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/9/2008 8:20:24 AM

Kalista07

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We got pages and pages and pages available for ya Lushy..........

i hate when i am sick and can not go into work. i hate it when i am so sleepy that i fall asleep making phone calls....

Kali

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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/9/2008 8:23:09 AM

Dnomyar

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Lushy to get in practice for reading that many pages try reading War and Peace first.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/9/2008 9:20:34 AM

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Sorry Lushy..doesn't fly with me..I am..a...BIBLIOPHILE..I Love pages and pages and your right I am good at boiling things down to the nitty gritty and pointing out where you are thinking someone elses thoughts or bogged down in their baggage and need to charge them for being a porter.

poenkitten ( saying you gots Mail)

P.S. Angel thanks for the Rosemary it will go with the Rosemary plant already by my walkway. Flu Shot Nurses moonlight as Whalers..I swear it, they are way too good with harpoons.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/9/2008 9:31:35 AM

sirsholly

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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

Or maybe you need to be clearer and not lose your patience explaining your points?

screw the patience...smack 'em a good one!

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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/9/2008 9:32:56 AM

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I hate it when I wake up & realize the due date on a bill was yesterday & I had the money to pay it, I just spaced it. So now I have another late payment plus a late fee.

I hate that I had to tell Daddy that I'm short on funds & ask for his help.

I hate that they get to keep my 401k till the 19th & I need to be at my daughter's by the 21st.

I hate that I have a sister who's a multimillionaire & gets weird if I ask for help. (Although I love her & love the fact that she ended up so wealthy in her life)

I hate having to beg.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/9/2008 9:44:46 AM

BlackPhx

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Hey Linea....

I love that you have the money to pay it and that often if you explain companies will wave a late fee for 1 day late.
I love that your Daddy is there for you and can help.
I love that you have the ability to swallow your pride and reach out for help BEFORE you have crashed and burned.
I HATE that your sister has had so many hurtful, greedy, lazy people in her life that she gets weird about helping her Sister even though she knows you would be there for her.
I LOVE that you can ask...and only Beg Daddy for the really fun things.

poenkitten

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RE: I hate it when........ - 10/9/2008 10:03:12 AM

LadyHibiscus

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I hate that I am not back to 100%, that I underestimated my vulnerability, that I just can't cut my losses.

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