LadyHibiscus
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Joined: 8/15/2005 From: Island Of Misfit Toys Status: offline
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Kali. If you treated your dying father with grace and dignity, YOU DID THE RIGHT THING. Good on ya, girlfriend!! Taking the high road often sucks, but when it comes down to it, we all have to live with the decisions we make. Being kind, being a good daughter, being a good PERSON, those are the things that make you hold your head higher because you did NOT give in to the bad stuff. The past can come and kick us in the teeth unexpectedly. I think it's all some kind of big circle, or set of circles, and we keep coming back to issues at different points in our lives, and deal with them in different ways based on changes we've made. The thing to rememeber is that you are surrounded by people that love and care about you. I know I am, and even as I am typing just that thought is making me cry again. Because yeah, it doesn't really HELP... but keep reminding yourself that you are not alone, and that you are strong enough to weather this and come through on he other side with new scar tissue, and a new perspective. (seriously HATING that I can't just wave my magic riding crop and fix it!)
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