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RE: Most Submissive Thing - 2/24/2008 8:13:07 PM

juliaoceania

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I do not know if my Daddy would answer this way or not, but I can tell you that the most submissive thing I have ever done was to drive him home from surgery yesterday because he insisted that he wanted me and no one else to do so. You see, I have a phobia of driving that I have been working on... so I drove for over an hour through traffic along the three lane PCH to get him home. It was extremely stressful, and if anyone else would have asked me to do this I would have told them to go fuck themselves and maybe thrown up at the thought of it. There are things I do for him I would never do for anyone else.

I was stuck between worrying over how he was while he was being operated on, and how I was going to get us home in one piece. I was even unsure he would be in any sort of shape to be any sort of guide to help me figure out how to get him home... thankfully he was...

He joked with me that soon I would be driving with a cell phone in one hand and a burger in the other... I told him he was fucking crazy (which because I was driving he just laughed at)

Hey chica, I wish I could say this goes away- but I'm at about 80k miles and 6 years of driving and I still get anxious driving 10 minutes by myself to a new place and try and get my partner to drive if I can.

I DO it, if I have to, and I somehow have always gotten where I'm going and come back. But it's always there and always a factor. Part of what keeps me going is that my worry over becoming agoraphobic or letting my driving fear control me overrides the fear of driving and getting lost itself.

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RE: Most Submissive Thing - 2/24/2008 8:19:56 PM

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I asked my Master this and His reply was..."Your obedience." He said the way I obey Him, especially when I very strongly do not want to. I don't make it "obvious" that I am unhappy because that would kinda defeat the suppose of obeying.

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RE: Most Submissive Thing - 2/24/2008 9:03:31 PM

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I asked Sir and he said, the way I wake up early just to wake him up when he needs to be up and gone early (he has a tendency to just hit snooze on the alarm otherwise). And that I stay up late or even will wake in the middle of the night to talk to him if he calls even though I would normally be asleep way earlier. He works funny hours and is sometimes coming home at 3am and needs someone to keep him awake. And then if he starts work by 8am the next day he needs his wake up call.

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RE: Most Submissive Thing - 2/24/2008 9:49:24 PM

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He joked with me that soon I would be driving with a cell phone in one hand and a burger in the other... I told him he was fucking crazy (which because I was driving he just laughed at)

LOL well unless I have other people in the car or are in a parking lot, I DO that actually. I'm a pretty darn good driver and I can enjoy it if it's not complicated or I've done it ton of times before.

But somewhere new? On my own? My mind just does NOT react positively to that.

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RE: Most Submissive Thing - 2/24/2008 10:22:40 PM

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania
I do not know if my Daddy would answer this way or not, but I can tell you that the most submissive thing I have ever done was to drive him home from surgery yesterday because he insisted that he wanted me and no one else to do so. You see, I have a phobia of driving that I have been working on... so I drove for over an hour through traffic along the three lane PCH to get him home. It was extremely stressful, and if anyone else would have asked me to do this I would have told them to go fuck themselves and maybe thrown up at the thought of it. There are things I do for him I would never do for anyone else.

Hey chica, I wish I could say this goes away- but I'm at about 80k miles and 6 years of driving and I still get anxious driving 10 minutes by myself to a new place and try and get my partner to drive if I can.

I DO it, if I have to, and I somehow have always gotten where I'm going and come back. But it's always there and always a factor. Part of what keeps me going is that my worry over becoming agoraphobic or letting my driving fear control me overrides the fear of driving and getting lost itself.

Mini hijack:

I have the exact same problem. I love driving, I just can't handle going places where I've never been and don't know my way. It's a paralyzing fear that has kept me from going places that I wanted to get to, including things like job interviews. I got a GPS system a few months ago. It's absolutley changed my life. Now, I just punch in the address and go wherever I want. No fear, no stress, no worries. Gets me there and back again without fail.

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RE: Most Submissive Thing - 2/25/2008 6:37:21 AM

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I was talking to Master the other day, and he said the most submissive thing to him that a sub could do is offer her butt for anal.

There are no right or wrong answers just looking for: What does your Dom/me see as the most submissive thing you do for them.

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I asked SJ about this last night and he said it was that I suffer for him.

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RE: Most Submissive Thing - 2/25/2008 11:14:42 AM

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania
He joked with me that soon I would be driving with a cell phone in one hand and a burger in the other... I told him he was fucking crazy (which because I was driving he just laughed at)

LOL well unless I have other people in the car or are in a parking lot, I DO that actually. I'm a pretty darn good driver and I can enjoy it if it's not complicated or I've done it ton of times before.

But somewhere new? On my own? My mind just does NOT react positively to that.

Greetings LA,

I have someone who can work on that with you...a great hypnotist ...let me know if you are interested!

love you ~ fairer

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RE: Most Submissive Thing - 2/25/2008 4:09:07 PM

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LOL I think I'm racking up too many thousands of dollars in hypno therapy with my list :)

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RE: Most Submissive Thing - 2/26/2008 1:25:36 AM

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I didn't need to ask him i know that kneeling for him to shave off my hairs the ultimate submission to him.

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RE: Most Submissive Thing - 2/26/2008 4:04:06 AM

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i asked Sir what the most submissive thing is that i do for Him. i expected to hear an echo of many of the posts here, but what i heard instead was the little things that i do for Him are his favorite. At night or in the mornings when i place all of His meds in a cup so He can take them all at once; when i bring Him a glass of juice each night at bedtime and i taste it first to me sure it's cold; when i place His fork on the left side of his plate on the dinner table because He's left handed. It's not that i do these things for Him, but rather that He has not asked me and i do them to be of service to Him.

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RE: Most Submissive Thing - 2/26/2008 1:04:27 PM

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wetting myself in public was pretty submissive but i have to say the cherry on top was being bent over the hood of my own car in my Domme's drive way. i didnt sit down for a week...lol

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RE: Most Submissive Thing - 2/26/2008 5:29:10 PM

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I think Giz would say the my most submissive acts are trusting and therefore obeying him without questioning his reasons. He knows that trust for me was difficult but because he has my trust I will do anything for him. I will be sure to ask anyway though.

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RE: Most Submissive Thing - 2/26/2008 5:58:20 PM

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Littlepita, a good dominant would help you deal with your body image issues. Sounds like Yours appreciates how much strength it takes to be naked. Being naked can make one vulnerable. I know that I also have some image issues to work out, and the Man that I've started to see is helping me change from the outside-in. His logic is that working on and bettering your appearance makes you feel better about yourself, in general. By loving what you see in the mirror, you have a greater respect for yourself. And also, taking care of yourself and loving yourself is important for submissives because it proves that you are capable of being responsible for yourself and it shows that you are willing to improve for Him (or Her). I am still learning this lesson (right, Sir?

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RE: Most Submissive Thing - 2/26/2008 6:07:50 PM

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I want to respond to you, FRSguy. First of all, anal sex was a soft limit of mine that the Man I was with a few years ago gently pushed until I gave in. This was an act of submission. Since I've learned to enjoy anal sex very much, this is not a very submissive act for me because I am not 'sacrificing' anything. Secondly, I am upset at Your "suck it up bitch and take it" attitude. When a submissive is hesitant but trusts her dominant enough to obey anyway, this is submission. Forcing a girl (or boy) to force them to "take it" is taking something away from them, the willingness to be submit.

Ahem... *climbs off the soapbox*

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RE: Most Submissive Thing - 2/26/2008 6:10:48 PM

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I like your response, squeaker. I agree that submission is not always about obeying, but about pleasing... and anticipating the needs of your dominant. Very glad that Yours appreciates the little things.

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RE: Most Submissive Thing - 2/28/2008 8:40:10 PM

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Watching my Domme have sex with a Dom, and then licking his cum from her.

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RE: Most Submissive Thing - 2/28/2008 9:58:48 PM

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I thought about this post and decided to respond. Most of the little things people mentioned build a relationship, which for me only helped the sub/dom parts of the relationship. they could/should be part of any relationship.

the most submissive thing was to both humor her and show my submission. thus, she one time told me to straddle her, which I did. I lost it on her, gladly. then I licked her clean,- at her command, which was darn tough. At that point she said she knew she truly owned me.

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RE: Most Submissive Thing - 2/29/2008 8:23:36 PM

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The most beautiful sight has to be a sub lady on her knees, naked with her hands restrained behind her back eagerly servicing her master orally and consuming his essence.

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RE: Most Submissive Thing - 3/1/2008 4:13:01 PM

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Oops,i think i hit report,so very sorryyyyy.If you spend the money on the Chantix hun,it will be the best 100.00 you could have ever spent,it is amazing how well it works,wish they had that 20 yrs ago....Good luck!

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RE: Most Submissive Thing - 3/1/2008 4:29:50 PM

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Hmm, I havent asked him yet, but from our play last night I think it was the whole scene. We connected again at a party (after alot of bullshit drama from people who are no longer in town, a divorce for him, me comeing back home from traveling the country, and lots of other crap) and we finally got to play after almot a year and a half of being apart. The scene was a long one and very emotional. And at the end he said "I missed you more then I can tell you tonight, Im glad I have you again"

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