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ORIGINAL: LadyHathor I have spent time with subs who have come to the realization who and that they are--then, the fear strikes terror and they cannot follow through with a real life encounter---have you faced this? Did you overcome? Did you retreat? i had difficulty making the transition from Vanilla real life, where submission was an abberation, to meeting someone who found that to be a worthwhile trait. i did a lot of exploration on line, talked on the internet with a lot of Lifestyle people but got cold feet on my first couple of meetings. i did excuse myself on line for my own fears. i have, subsequently, always been to meetings that have been set up, but will still hesitate from time to time if the person that i am supposed to meet does not seem real via the internet. i will, at this point, not set up a meeting time under those circumstances. i have had several occasions where the meeting has not gone any further, but that, to me, is part of the reason behind meeting someone the first time.
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live hard, die young and leave a good looking corpse when you die. Love ya, but, when the zombies start chasing us, i am tripping you. The glass is always full, the question is, "with what?"
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