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RE: Guilt - does it feel good to you? - 4/4/2008 1:42:51 AM

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I personally think a sub would feel guilty if you showed that you felt it.Now when you get to the point where all that emotion has built and is ready ro spill over(dom space if you will)i would suggest that you srop the flogger or whatever it is that you are using and embrace your boy like he has never been embraced before.You still get to feel that quirky sensation and your boy is happy that you reached it.Just a suggestion.

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RE: Guilt - does it feel good to you? - 4/4/2008 4:05:18 AM

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It sounds like a sort of cathartic emotional release - like when someone says "I need a good cry". Crying is generally seen as a negative thing, but sometimes it just feels really good, you know? I think everyone has something they do to get that release, because it's almost a sort of high. I don't think it's just Dom/mes. This place of "guilt" sounds like your release... (I get mine from watching the last 10 minutes of DragonHeart, lol :P) and, as someone else said earlier, it IS nice to know that Dommes (or least some Dommes) feel that way sometimes. It makes submitting even more fulfilling if you know how much your submission is being enjoyed and appreciated. :)

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RE: Guilt - does it feel good to you? - 4/4/2008 10:27:43 AM

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Thanks for this post. I think you're on the right track. Whatever you call the feeling--guilt, conflict, whatever--for a lot of us scening leaves a clear sense of having transgressed. I think that's pretty normal for most people, and I doubt that the unconscious makes much use of rationales such as, "He liked it, so it's OK." (Apologies to those who don't think the unconscious has anything to do with it.)

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RE: Guilt - does it feel good to you? - 4/5/2008 7:00:33 PM

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I don't feel guilty. What I feel when I do get to that place is Gratefulness and exhilaration. I am grateful to my sub for allowing me to use him in the way that makes me happy, and in turn makes him happy as well. I am exhilarated because I have this vast amount of power, that he has given to me. When I see him lying there, looking so innocent and pure, so much like a boy, but responding to me as only a man can do, I am also filled with love for him. I want to hurt him in such a good way, that he just can't distinguish between the pain and pleasure. When he is gagged, and he sees me light a candle, or get a knife out, his eyes grow huge, but the trust is there and he knows that no matter what implement I use, I would never damage him. I took his virginity, I do not feel guilty about that, because he offered it to me. I had a choice. I could have said no, come back when you have at least had sex with someone. But I didn't want to. I was proud to be his first. I didn't "play" with him the first time we had sex, it was very vanilla. I didn't want his first time to be anything that involved wiitwd. No regrets, no guilt. Just love and respect to a boy, who became a man in my loving embrace.

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RE: Guilt - does it feel good to you? - 4/6/2008 12:01:39 PM

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guilt and sadistic pleasure are not to Me one in the same---sadistic pleasure is what I feel when I take a virgin boy across the road, or a sub to a new place---guilt is what I feel when that 50 saved for new tires buys a flogger.

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RE: Guilt - does it feel good to you? - 6/6/2008 10:11:56 AM

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As the one who is willing to go "there" for Mistress Faye, I can tell you that she need not feel guilt or even humbleness. I have chosen to suffer for her erotic pleasure. She has graciously accepted me for this. The heights to which we soar are a product of her ability ot totally dominate me and take everything I have to give and then some more. I give it freely as any sub does. It is her ability to go beyond the simpleness of vanilla and be unafraid to feed her lust. I feed from her evil at those moments and derive the exact same amount of pleasure from her domination that she feels for my submission. We have perfect balance.
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RE: Guilt - does it feel good to you? - 6/6/2008 11:16:09 AM

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Ma'am, the fact that You interpret the feeling as 'guilt' just shows how much You care. You ought not to feel any guilt. Two mature adults doing what makes them happy.

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RE: Guilt - does it feel good to you? - 6/6/2008 8:14:19 PM

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Ma'am, the fact that You interpret the feeling as 'guilt' just shows how much You care. You ought not to feel any guilt. Two mature adults doing what makes them happy.

but I *like* to feel that emotion that I label as "guilt" (even thought it's not a totally true interpretation) -- it's when a moment is so intense that even I can't believe what I am doing and he's enduring for me. That's incredibly passionate, hot, erotic. It's simply difficult to explain...
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RE: Guilt - does it feel good to you? - 6/6/2008 9:13:36 PM

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I can only imagine, but I think it would be very humbling and awe-inspiring.

Is it possible that his abject submission raises makes you question if you are worthy of his "sacrifice." To be darn-near deified would be a heady responsibility, I'd imagine.

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