From: Warm Springs, GA but i live in San Francisco.
Though i love suspension (and i can't wait till the day Ma'am decides to hang me by my hair), i don't even want to consider being hung directly by those very close friends of mine.
On the other hand, i have had a nice suspension harness, which allows for hangingin a number of different positions without being directly weighed down by my body weight. There is a ring attached to a cock-ring, which can be used along with other rings to allow the weight to be more evenly distributed; including a quick release set up that can be placed in the submissive's hand and also available for the careful and observant dominant because, as Ma'am likes to say: "there is no consent in space" (in this case it means that, while in subspace, the submissive simply won't get the impulses that tell you that that you can't take this anymore). Remember, this set up is meant more for the illusion of suspension by the testicles, but can still be very dangerous if both parties are not highly observant; Also, the cock-ring itself is not tight but instead is pulled against the phreneum by the weight of the submissive
Any type of suspension should first be tested at low height, no more than a few inches off the ground; and always be done with a third party at hand who is not in danger of falling into Dom/sub space. Even with proper equipment and knowledge, suspension borders on edgeplay due to the very immediate and inherent dangers and should not ever be done lightly
This is how i first got introduced to the idea myself: my first "mistress" had a fantasy about hanging me by the balls. We talked it over and did our research to find that it is not possible to do the actual act without an unreasonable risk of harm. So we did some more research, and had a suspension harness made that allowed for quick release, and was flesh toned; so we could have the fantasy but perform only the illusion of the act. The was some physical discomfort, but not even enough to complain about; but i got the sensation of helplessness that i enjoy from suspension and she got the visual illusion of me hanging by my balls (and the crowd also had a great show, especially the latecomers who didn't see the set-up).
But for every couple that do the research about an act, there are many many who will not go to any trouble... information is always valuable.
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