BeachBear
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Joined: 10/31/2005 Status: offline
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Good Morning all, hope everyone is well today, My new Domina and I have made tremendous progress in both my training, as well as our relationship, and we wish to make a public expression that the aforementioned relationship has gone to a new level of commitment at our next BDSM group meeting. For reasons that are too long to go into, we cannot enter into a formal collar at this time. Where I came from, some people in the lifestyle recognized two submissive collars (they did not count the utilitarian collar used for training, which carried no significance... except that one was being trained). The collar of consideration, which was a shade of blue (for males) or red (females). The Collar of Consideration covered all aspects of a serious relationship up until it was superseded by the (formal) Collar (usually black, silver, or gold). A smaller group held that the Collar of Consideration was blue, which was then replaced by a collar representing a higher level of commitment, that of the training stage (here "Training" was held to be a symbolic stage, as well as a practical one, the color used was red), finally being replaced by the Formal Collar (see colors above). I was hoping that some members of this fine group might be able to advise as to what is considered appropriate for a submissive, at different stages of the relationship, based on your understanding. respectfully, bear Pet to the Domina Selaene
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