lusciouslips19
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse "Oh you do what I tell you, I think you're hot and you give good oral/blowjobs, now I want to collar you so you cannot get away! I want to stake my claim, so to speak" on the flip side the slave thinks "They treat me like property, they give good paddle/flogger/insert favourite method of play, we both like lots of the same things, he/she likes the way I do xxx, and now they are offering a collar! I can strut around feeling all cool, owned and safe in front of the other slaves, I am taking it!!" That's entirely it. And part of the slave mindset is i believe an inability to get out once they are in (the collar so to speak). I've had private mail from slaves who are in the most abusive of relationships (according to my judgement at least0. Why would they write to me and ask me if wha they are being required to do is acceptable or not/ it's almost like becoming a member of a cult and not knowing how to get out. Now if as a slave you don't feel you have a right, or know the protocol of how to get released, coupled with a Dom who believes literally that any demand, at any time, of any sort, is their right....then you have an equation for potential abuse. that's what is so profound about staing one has no limits consensually and handing those limits over. The collar might fall but the chaos left behind takes a great deal longer to clean up. it's the same in vanilla marriages. I was once asked to write a testimony for a friend who wanted to be officially anulled...she is a catholic...an adult caticombmini...forgive spelling...she is a n adult catholic convert. My testimony to their abusive marriage took up 48 pages of A4 paper. The decision 'went to Rome' as it is called and she was blissfully freed of a spiritual bond. Does not a collar represent the same magnitude? Or could it ? These points are why this submissive will never be a slave.
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