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RE: Deep throating - 3/29/2008 4:37:22 PM   
lusciouslips19


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 I heard learned some techique by watching www.sexandsubmission.com by www.kink.com. I learned alot from those. But then I read a post on a similar thread by lucytastic. Thanks lucy. That was a "how to" manual by a gay man. WOW.. my skills improved 100 percent and my dom was a very Happy man! Now he says I am the best he ever had. I say, "but good enough to be a pricey call girl?" He says "yes" and I beam proudly.

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RE: Deep throating - 3/29/2008 4:41:24 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: TheLoneliestDame

My problem is I get embarassed about the amount of saliva produced during extened blow jobs... I can't swallow it when my throat is otherwise occupied, I was once advised to just let it naturally slide out of my mouth onto his penis... for some reason I can't do it, I'm worried he'll think it's "gross" even though these are the same fluids exchanged when we kiss... hmm what shall I do?


They love it when you drool and spit all over them and yourself so get over it. Drool soaked face smeared lipstick and smudged mascara gets them off!

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RE: Deep throating - 3/29/2008 8:00:17 PM   
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ah shit, and all this time I thought gagging was good! LOL

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RE: Deep throating - 3/29/2008 10:38:05 PM   
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One of the biggest things inhibiting the act itself is tension/fear.  Relaxation is key.  One of the biggest fears is the 'oh fuck I'm gonna puke on him' fear.  One way to eliminate that fear is to take her into the shower, have her deep throat you, and don't stop as she almost pukes.  Let her puke on your dick, clean up the mess a little with warm water from the shower head, kiss her, and go back to it.

A couple of long sessions where she learns that the two of you are going to work beyond her gagging, where you establish trust that she's okay having lost it on you, and where you are patient, loving and tireless in praise... and she'll make rapid progress.

I've never lost one yet.



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RE: Deep throating - 3/30/2008 10:45:25 AM   
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quote:

:( 's a skill I'd love to have.



perverse,

It is a skill you do not need, just stick with the head and shaft, he does enjoy that more.

CP

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RE: Deep throating - 3/30/2008 2:00:27 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MastersBabieGirl

i have a strong gag reflex and cant get past it
i try and try but unless he wants a roman shower i have to stop after a few attempts
although i suppose im lucky since my master prefers the gagging anyway


Yep, i have the same problem. Well, i didn't used to which is very frustrating for me. After the birth of my third child, i somehow developed this dreadful gag reflex. Sometimes i even gag when eating a banana... go figure. It's so frustrating it upsets me actually, because i LOVE LOVE LOVE to suck cock. Can't stand the taste of cum, but hell, it's worth it for the enjoyment of playing with "my toy" *grin*

Anyway, i learned a few tricks that i thought i'd pass along, because they've really helped me.

1) Start out using a soft dildo. Might wanna get some flavored lube as the things taste aweful. i'd do this when i was taking a shower, just in case. And i'd open my mouth like i was going to sing "OOOOO" so that the roof of my mouth was soft and the back of my throat was open. Very slowly, i'd ease the dildo in, to just before my gag point. Which when i first started was an inch. How pathetic, huh? Very slowly ease it in and out, slightly pushing it in farther. Do this gently, and when you feel the urge to gag, stop. Don't move. Don't pull it out. Again, open your mouth like you're going to sing and the back of your throat. Take deep breaths through your nose, slow and calm until the urge to gag stops. Then, resume going in and out slowly. Again, stop when you feel the urge to gag. Don't go too deep that you're actually gagging though. Day after day, i found i could go furth and furth. Now, i can take most of my Owner's cock without gagging. Yay!

2) For those times when my Owner wants to deep throat me... i lay on my back on the bed, with my head hanging over the edge. It opens up my throat more since it's a straighter shot. i tried various other positions, but i just couldn't force his head deep. It was like hitting a somewhat painful wall back there, but i'm kinda small all around. Anyway, i put my hands on high thighs, so if my gagging becomes bad enough, i push against him. He'll thrust one more time to push my gag reflex, then pull back far enough that i can still suck on his head but i'm not gagging.

It takes time, and alot of work. It can be frustrating, but it's working for me. When he lets me, which is often since he knows how much i want to be able to do this, i can play with him all i want. And i'll do the same with him that i used to do with my dildo in the shower. i was quite proud of myself the other day cause i was able to take him all the way all on my own, and held it for a few moments before the gag made me pull away.

Now if i could just figure out how to swallow cum without the texture of that making me gag!

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RE: Deep throating - 3/30/2008 2:44:48 PM   
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arrr, the thread necromancers are at it again, arrrrr!  it's from 2005....

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RE: Deep throating - 4/1/2008 5:49:18 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkVictory

One of the biggest things inhibiting the act itself is tension/fear.  Relaxation is key.  One of the biggest fears is the 'oh fuck I'm gonna puke on him' fear.  One way to eliminate that fear is to take her into the shower, have her deep throat you, and don't stop as she almost pukes.  Let her puke on your dick, clean up the mess a little with warm water from the shower head, kiss her, and go back to it.

A couple of long sessions where she learns that the two of you are going to work beyond her gagging, where you establish trust that she's okay having lost it on you, and where you are patient, loving and tireless in praise... and she'll make rapid progress.

I've never lost one yet.





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