LadyLou
Posts: 110
Joined: 7/10/2006 Status: offline
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Female submission as a singular entity; then as has been said here, to each their own. Assuming all is consensual and is what the woman wants, then more power to 'em. I would hope that I would look beyond someones orientation, and not judge them as a whole person, by one innocuous aspect of who they are. What would be tragic, is someone denying themselves, and ultimately screwing themselves over, by trying to be something they are not, due to peer pressure or social expectation. I find some woman attractive, particularly, strong, confident submissive women who embrace their nature, makes no difference to which gender they choose to submit. I certainly don't see male dominants who dominate women as threatening in any way. Nor do I see the women who choose submit to them as 'lesser' in any way. We are what we are, we do what we do, it is what it is. Sometimes, it seems as if our society is gender obsessed, over-analysing, and inadvertently attributing all kinds of crazy notions and standards in doing so. That said, (with some exceptions) I can sometimes find it a turn off watching the act a woman submitting to a man. I can be aroused by, and enjoy the energy involved, but it's just not my cup of tea – along with face masks, carob bars, and instant decaf coffee. But I like to think I am intelligent enough not let my 'kink ick factor' dictate how I relate to a person.
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