Aynne88
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Counting to ten...... Okay, I am going to try and tackle this nicely, since I am not in my playground here, so thank you ladies for allowing the transgression. Tantriqu, I have no daughters to teach, as a lifelong feminist I chose to not procreate, and when I did marry, I retained my matriachal name. I do hate the term maiden. I am divorced. I would in all honesty be willing to wager that you have not met many women that have invested as much blood sweat tears and volunteer hours in the cause for equal rights as I have. When my friends were attending cheer camp, I was marching in pro-choice rallies and reading feminist literature, and I don't mean Naomi Wolf, I am talking Andrea Dworkin's "Woman Hating" and "Women against Pornography." My first real job was selling automobiles with a bunch of chauvanist pigs. I made it a point to top them every month just to prove a point. I will confront sexism and woman abuse in the face, and the same goes for the good old white male network. They can kiss my ass.I now as an adult am the VP of a construction company and I tell hard bodied men what to do, and when to do it. I don't spend my days lamenting the arrival of my Master, getting flogged, and blowing him. Somedays sure.....but I love that too. Yes, I have a man I call Master that I submit to eagerly, willingly, and with love and devotion. He is amazing, and yes it is definitely a power exchange relationship and I crave it, after years of struggling internally in an unhappy marriage. So? The rest of the male species are my peers, to be dealt with on an individual basis. Most men I don't have a huge regard for, years of being in a male dominated business maybe, I don't know. I do know that not one men that I have done business with has the tiniest inkling of my true nature, I am sure of that. Your comment on feeling sorry for us? Sorry for me? Not by a long shot. I don't mean to sound like a bitch, but I have one Master, not the entire male species and many many many female friends of mine that claim the title slave or submissive are feminists as well. Maybe not as vigilant as I can be, but to each their own. Thank you for letting me vent, I really don't mean any disrespect, it just irked me and I wanted to clarify what my little piece of this whole thing is about. Oh, and don't assume we slaves and subs haven't tried domination either, I like to taste all the menu items before I choose dinner.I am content now in knowing what fulfills me. Simple. edited to add in case of curious georges...my parents are both college educated, happily married for 44 years and fairly traditional, both work and contribute, and I never saw my father even raise his voice to my mother, nor was she very submissive to him, it was and is a partnership. quote:
ORIGINAL: Tantriqu Saddened, with a hope that they've at least had a chance to try Domination, and a wish they teach their daughters they always have a choice. Sadists posing as doms who are threatened by Dommes, and passive-aggressive masochists with zilch self-esteem are big reasons I eschew most meetings. And I'm repulsed by the sadistic banner ads in CM; I have to alter my browser to keep 'em out.
< Message edited by Aynne88 -- 1/4/2009 10:28:06 AM >
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As long as people will shed the blood of innocent creatures there can be no peace, no liberty, no harmony between people. Slaughter and justice cannot dwell together. —Isaac Bashevis Singer, writer and Nobel laureate (1902–1991)
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