VampiresLair -> RE: Tributes and Genuine Dommes (1/12/2009 8:41:37 AM)
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ORIGINAL: bisubboy1 I am very skeptical when after one or maybe two emails a woman that knows nothing about me or me about her is asking for a tribute. How do you separate the real people on this site from the scammers? You give it a few emails and if after one or two they are asking for tribute, they are likely scammers. Seems like you have it pretty well nailed already. My rule of thumb that I tell those submissives I have mentored is that if tribute comes up before common interests, there is a problem. If you do not even know IF you want to meet, knowing how much that meeting will cost you is premature. There are many genuine dommes who do ask for tribute, more for the commitment to the meeting and to them than because they really care what they are getting. It can prove something, its like a test early on that someone isnt all talk. However, I always raise an eyebrow when anyone asks for tribute before meeting, just for the priveledge of continued contact. Anyone can email, but when you ask someone to pay for the pleasure of your messages then you make yourself look fake, or inexperieced, or both. And definately self absorbed and vain. You are likely not all that, and putting someone in that position is more likely going to run them off than draw them in. If it feels wrong, it probably is, so step backa and think about what you are in. If you dont like it, then move on. If it feels good, run with it. Good luck DV
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