darchChylde
Posts: 5279
Joined: 9/28/2006 From: Warm Springs, GA but i live in San Francisco. Status: offline
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This is not about the "unworthy worm" being the ideal for male submission, but something of a far more personal issue for me. Basically, though faced with frequent obvious and subtle reassurances to the contrary; why do i so often come back to the perspective that i'm not worth serving my Owner? Even more so, how do one get past this self-conditioning so that the question either does not arise or will not effect me negatively when it does? I can't imagine that i'm the only person that this troubles; if i were to guess, i'd say it's probably all too common among both female and male submissives. When the thought process comes from some mistake i've made, i can of course be more careful in the future to not make that mistake again. But seriously, i am both a dork and a bit of a clutz; i will always make mistakes and there's no getting around it. I'm not perfect, if i were i doubt that i would ever have thought i needed a dominant. Now, i don't place Ma'am on too high of a pedastal; She's not some unreachable star. She is very human with her own quirks and imperfections and She is, as much as anything else, my beloved friend. But still, for one reason or the other; i all too often come back to thoughts "i don't deserve Her" and "She would be so much happier if She dropped me and found some other, better submissive". I am frequently told, without provocation (or fishing), that She loves me and that i am very important to Her. So, why can't i simply accept it; balls to bone, without any reservations? Please let me add, that in most other situations i am generally confident, if not cocky or arrogant.
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I'm the man your mother warned you about... if only to keep me to herself. I'm a male dominant switch whose experienced as a poly sub to a dominant woman . Where the fuck do I post? Proud Owner and Protector of chyldeschylde.
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