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RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/16/2009 4:51:17 PM

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At least she's blessed with that 1 inch unlike...(sigh) others I know...

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RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/16/2009 5:04:51 PM

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of course his next g/f was 5'10" and he barely could look her in the tits.

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I'm 5'7 with more than a modest rack and have never been really attracted to man who was tit height. Taller is good.

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RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/16/2009 5:08:07 PM

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I am only 5' 2" so most men are taller than me. I dated someone who was 6' 5". Physical height doesn't really play into whether or not I like someone.

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RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/16/2009 5:08:41 PM

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In short (no pun intended), yes. Size does matter to me. I find it very hard (though not completely impossible) to be attracted to a man shorter than me. As a tall woman, I often feel instantly in awe and somewhat sub-spacy when I come in contact with a very tall attractive man.

When I'm scanning a crowd for attractive men, the 6'2"+ range is pretty much all that makes my radar. I'm 6'4" when I'm wearing 5" heels, which I often do when I go out, and I'm usually taller than almost everyone I meet, male or female.

All that said, I have had encounters and even "short"-lived relationships with guys shorter than me. My partner now is just a hair taller than me, and I still feel sexy and proud and submissive when I'm in my heels and stand taller than him. But I think I'd have trouble feeling submissive to someone significantly shorter than me unless they were built like a tank. I'm very athletic and tall, so if I feel like I could take them down, it isn't going to work for me.

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RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/16/2009 5:34:42 PM

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Yes, it matters to me. I feel safe with big guys, 6'. I also don't like skinny guys. And I need him to be handy as I equate being able to fix small problems, and diagnose the large ones for the repairman as someone who can take care of me. I have all kinds of things that I need in a partner. Luckily I found all of it and more.

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RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/16/2009 6:07:22 PM

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I never considered it as a preference of submissives as a group. I just know that I have always been attracted to tall men. But since I'm pretty short most men are taller than I am, so I don't think I've ever turned one down just because of (lack of) height.

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RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/16/2009 6:07:35 PM

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since a few other people have said what else is important i guess i will to.. hands.. hand size is important as well. they dont have to be big.. or have long fingers, thou that helps, but they have to be strong hands. i loved my 1st bfs hands.. he was a mechanic.. *drool* he had nice hands. a shoulder width is important as well.. broad shoulders r good in a guy. someone i cant break to easily. of course intelegence humor and such r important as well.. but thats for a different conversation.

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RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/16/2009 6:10:08 PM

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ORIGINAL: pompeii

Specifically, does a submissive woman tend to gravitate and yearn more for a taller Dom or Top than the lesser height-endowed men?

Not this one. I prefer a man to be just a few inches taller than me (I'm 5'6"). Anything over 6'2" or so, and I'm usually not attracted to them at all.

ETA: But you'd never find me with a 5'9" man who weighed 140 lbs. I like built men, even if they ARE short in most womens' eyes.

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RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/16/2009 6:53:13 PM

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Yup, size matters. Jeez, I'm turning into quite the size queen. Lol

If someone is shorter than me, it's a no go, I am 5'2 (5'3 on a good day) after all. I don't want someone who I can't look up at. There's something just so awesome about when I'm hugging someone and have to tilt my head upwards in order to see them.

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RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/16/2009 7:00:05 PM

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RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/16/2009 7:04:13 PM

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RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/16/2009 7:11:03 PM

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My late husband was 5'8 and i am 5'3 plus he was small in body built. I thought it was great more of his clothes to wear.

Sir is 6'2 and i still stay awake at night staring at his legs. How does anyone sleep with nothing but legs? That has always been a fascination with me.

Height dont matter to me as long as i can feel their bones. Am a bone person.

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RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/16/2009 8:02:13 PM

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at five foot one, everyone is taller then me

Umm....not me.

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RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/16/2009 10:58:04 PM

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Wow ! I used to make shirts for a guy your size. Easier to find a shirt than a partner, huh?

Only mildly. Even the shirts that I find that fit don't fit well. I can't even wear button down shirts, at all, since they all shrink after the first wash to be too short to tuck in. :( It kinda sucks.

At least partner wise (well, not long-term I guess) I can at least throw a stone into the craigslist pond and find someone who wants some temporary companionship... granted they're usually over 50 and married, sneaking around... but the point still stands. Long-term relationships are wildly different. There are very few men who are even interested in one (of any age) around my location... the local gay community is actually fairly hostile to the idea.

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RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/16/2009 11:07:32 PM

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It doesn;'t really for me either, but it can be sexy, and comforting.

Daddy is 6 feet, maybe even 6'3. I at 5 five in a half, fit just perfectly against Daddies chest and tummy, that when we hug standing up I can lay my head on the beginning swell of his tummy, I can also if I wish pull his shirt over my head and hide in there. Not that I do it often at all if much really, but I did do it once as a joke, and it was quite soothing.

If he's taller than me I also equate him with being more powerful pysically, and he can over power me. Now I know short guys could too, But there's just something so primal about him being taller.

Also since Daddy is a fairly big man, People just don't fuck with me when I am out with him. I can handle myself I don't need to hide behind Daddy, but it's nice sometimes, that people just plain don't want to start shit with a big man most the time, when they'd feel comfy starting shit with a scrawny or short man.

Not saying all scrawny men can be whooped though either. My dad's scrawny, but you wouldn't want to dare start shit, He's gone through the Marines, and knows quite a bit about self defense, and could have most men who don't know what they're doing on their ass before they knew it.

I found out the hard way just how quick he is, the one time and last time I ever took a swing at him and he blocked my swing.

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ORIGINAL: califsue

I am only 5' 2" so most men are taller than me. I dated someone who was 6' 5". Physical height doesn't really play into whether or not I like someone.

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RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/16/2009 11:23:50 PM

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I'm happy with guys at least 5'7. That makes us the same height when I'm in my heels.

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RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/17/2009 12:03:37 AM

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ORIGINAL: pompeii

Does a man's physical HEIGHT matter?

I know the question is meant for submissive women, but I'm answering anyway.

Yes, it does matter. I am tall, and in heels I'm really tall. My preference is 6 feet or taller, and even at 6 feet I am usually taller than they are when I'm wearing heels. I am just not physically attracted to a man who is shorter than I. And before anyone calls me shallow, my exhusband was 5'8", I was not physically attracted to him, but I married him anyway.

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RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/17/2009 4:39:11 AM

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I'm a tad shorter and went out with a jockey and even HE was taller than me!!!!

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ORIGINAL: MsFlutter
(I'm 5'2" so 'tall' is subjective.)

I am not too fussed about height, 5ft 8 seems like a giant to me!! I dislike men who have short mans syndrome though (they try to overcompensate in everything else to make up for their lack of height)

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RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/17/2009 5:50:44 AM

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I find this thread bothersome.

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RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/17/2009 5:57:42 AM

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