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RE: online gone wrong - 2/11/2009 5:28:36 PM

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Time out for me. this turned out to be a pretty popular thread. That is way cool.

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RE: online gone wrong - 2/11/2009 5:37:30 PM

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Well it's easy to see why someone would stop conversing with you and continue looking....
so glad you are getting over this and remain positive.

Online gone wrong - who'da thunk it??

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RE: online gone wrong - 2/11/2009 5:41:13 PM

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hmmm, guess that proves my point, if it doesn't cause drama you're not interested.

Hope you don't get depressed again when the thread dies along with all of the attention

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RE: online gone wrong - 2/11/2009 5:41:21 PM

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ORIGINAL: Celene

Well it's easy to see why someone would stop conversing with you and continue looking....
so glad you are getting over this and remain positive. Online gone wrong - who'da thunk it??

really???I guess you were there and know all about it.

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RE: online gone wrong - 2/11/2009 5:47:19 PM

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Drkjourney,

Absolutely... Finally...What is the point of this if we don't get dramatic?
And no worry I'll be fine once the limelight had died on my little thread.

I said it earlier, I'll say it again, I am grateful for the well meaning advice here. I do not appreciate being called names like "Controlling whack job".

Truly if I were that, would I have come here to try and figure out what went wrong.

I mean really...

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RE: online gone wrong - 2/11/2009 5:47:43 PM

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ORIGINAL: rastermanblu

Time out for me. this turned out to be a pretty popular thread. That is way cool.

Actually, this is the direction I see this thread taking..... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KbdH-J6UoYI&feature=related

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RE: online gone wrong - 2/11/2009 5:50:20 PM

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RE: online gone wrong - 2/11/2009 5:51:34 PM

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Time out for me. this turned out to be a pretty popular thread. That is way cool.

Actually, this is the direction I see this thread taking..... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KbdH-J6UoYI&feature=related

ouch...

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RE: online gone wrong - 2/11/2009 5:52:05 PM

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Truly if I were that, would I have come here to try and figure out what went wrong.

No. And you didn't. I misjudged you, and thought you did.

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RE: online gone wrong - 2/11/2009 5:52:40 PM

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Been here, seen this. Grow up, move on... take a clue from 'your sub' and those who have tried for pages to tell you. Stamping your feet and trolling in the forums is NOT dominant behavior.

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RE: online gone wrong - 2/11/2009 5:56:00 PM

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Been here, seen this. Grow up, move on... take a clue from 'your sub' and those who have tried for pages to tell you. Stamping your feet and trolling in the forums is NOT dominant behavior.

I'm not trolling. Nor stamping my feet at her, if you would read what I've said then you might have seen that. I have never said a bad thing about her...

By just be sure I'm not trolling, what is it?

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RE: online gone wrong - 2/11/2009 6:01:27 PM

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By just be sure I'm not trolling, what is it?

Trying to find a sympathetic chick who won't mind being e-stalked at cm.

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RE: online gone wrong - 2/11/2009 6:03:15 PM

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Truly if I were that, would I have come here to try and figure out what went wrong.

No. And you didn't. I misjudged you, and thought you did.

Oh for crying out loud, now you go sensitive on me.
Dude. Come on I know what your about, as well as you know what I'm about.
Which is not at all. I don't know you or you anything about me.

But I am sorry I called you names and hurt your feelings.

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RE: online gone wrong - 2/11/2009 6:10:10 PM

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By just be sure I'm not trolling, what is it?

Trying to find a sympathetic chick who won't mind being e-stalked at cm.

Thanks for the definition. I take it that you think that's what I did. And you maybe right. What I have learned is that nothing good can come from it.

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RE: online gone wrong - 2/11/2009 6:10:31 PM

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I can't imagine anyone walking away from you... seriously...

I talked to someone... for four days... then ordered him to leave me alone... he comes and starts three threads... admits to falling in love with a domina in one of the threads... the one who called him out... gets asked to leave me alone by a friend of mine... he does, he just cries the blues in threads... I do a background check... whoa... not only charged, but convicted of stalking, domestic abuse and the like. He had never posted here at CM until me.

You remind me of someone.

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RE: online gone wrong - 2/11/2009 6:12:34 PM

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Drkjourney,

Absolutely... Finally...What is the point of this if we don't get dramatic?
And no worry I'll be fine once the limelight had died on my little thread.

I said it earlier, I'll say it again, I am grateful for the well meaning advice here. I do not appreciate being called names like "Controlling whack job".

Truly if I were that, would I have come here to try and figure out what went wrong.

I mean really...

um, I thought you said the point of the thread was to get help on what went wrong, not be a part of a soap, but now your last line again, says you came here to figure out what went wrong...kind of confusing.

If you honestly came here for help, and you see post that are so "insulting" all you had to do was skip over the insulting post and focus on the ones that were helpful, oh well, guess it actually is the drama then, silly me and some others for wasting your time trying to be supportive.

One thing about posting here is getting the good with the bad....you handle both with grace and not resort to tirades and name calling.

Red is a good guy, you should trying reading between the lines to see what he's actually trying to say. And if you notice, he posted that after you started going off a bit, and not from your original post.

Never a need to get nasty, you don't like it ignore it, and if you can't take the heat, don't post.

None of this is meant to be negative, which I'm sure you will take it that way, but it isn't...just saying, bring it down a little and focus on the help you claim to have wanted all along

good luck to you

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RE: online gone wrong - 2/11/2009 6:14:08 PM

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I have a decent sense what you're about. And my feelings would have been profoundly hurt, except -- true story -- over the weekend two female dominants inducted me as an Honorary Paranoid Bitch. So, like Lockit, your TOSable namecalling was something I already owned.

As I recall, you've insulted at least one femdom, several female submissives, and perhaps everyone with an active CollarMe profile. Apologizing to me doesn't seem like your top priority. I'm not trying to date you, and, to the best of my knowledge, you're straight.

The internet is a funny place. People think it is "anonymous," but it's not. You can actually get a better read on a person's character than you can in real life, because people act the way they would act if no one was watching them. So you often get to see who people really are, faster. In person, people put up fronts, and they fool others, for a while.

I think sexycelticlady wrote a great post. You might consider rereading it once you've cooled down some.

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RE: online gone wrong - 2/11/2009 6:21:27 PM

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I can't imagine anyone walking away from you... seriously...

I talked to someone... for four days... then ordered him to leave me alone... he comes and starts three threads... admits to falling in love with a domina in one of the threads... the one who called him out... gets asked to leave me alone by a friend of mine... he does, he just cries the blues in threads... I do a background check... whoa... not only charged, but convicted of stalking, domestic abuse and the like. He had never posted here at CM until me.

You remind me of someone.

Well sorry for that. I'm not crying any blues I'm fine. I'm enjoying the joust now. And nothing that drastic happened. I've made absolutely no attempt to contact her, I respect her choice. I was sad when I started this thread but that is gone, some of the comments here have beaten that out of me. I know this is not a forgiving environment nor believeing for that matter, notice a lot of people here assume the worst about me. That's cool because it does, if one has a shred of sensitivity to look within, I didn't like all of my decisions either but I made them and I 'll just have to live with them. And that means leaving her alone.

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RE: online gone wrong - 2/11/2009 6:29:28 PM

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Well it's easy to see why someone would stop conversing with you and continue looking....
so glad you are getting over this and remain positive. Online gone wrong - who'da thunk it??

really...

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RE: online gone wrong - 2/11/2009 6:30:14 PM

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Time out for me. this turned out to be a pretty popular thread. That is way cool.

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