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RE: The Myth Debunking Thread - 3/22/2009 8:59:23 PM

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Dominant women never do their own housework, instead they all have oooodles of nekkid s-types over to do it in exchange for spankie wankies. (I think that was the term I saw for it the other day on the boards.)

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RE: The Myth Debunking Thread - 3/22/2009 9:00:23 PM

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You guys aren't fooling me. You're only throwing out all these red herrings to distract us from the fact that you're really in it only for our money.

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RE: The Myth Debunking Thread - 3/22/2009 9:16:55 PM

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I've just gotten through the first page of responses, and have to say that IMO many of the so-called myths aren't myths at all, because they really aren't commonly believed. Only complete idiots would believe some of the stuff written here. I didn't get beyond the first page, because I don't think I can stomach this thread, supposedly about "myths", being turned into merely another venue for dominas to ceaselessly gripe about the attitudes of wankers and do-me subs.

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RE: The Myth Debunking Thread - 3/22/2009 9:22:08 PM

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Actually, hardbodysub, these are things both Fox and I have encountered many times that people in and out of the lifestyle BELIEVE to be TRUE about dominant women and their relationships. Wankers and do-me subs contribute to it, yes, but these beliefs are held by new comers, vanilla curious, and a lot of the intolerant. The reason that there are people who are against the lifestyle as a whole is becasue they believe some of these myths and see them as reprehensible and assume they are universal truths.

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RE: The Myth Debunking Thread - 3/22/2009 9:32:48 PM

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RE: The Myth Debunking Thread - 3/22/2009 9:40:39 PM

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I can agree with you, VampiresLair, on SOME of the things listed, but definitely not on a lot of them. I think that there is a negativity bias at work here, leading to an overestimation of the proportion of people who believe such ridiculous things.

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RE: The Myth Debunking Thread - 3/22/2009 9:40:54 PM

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I've just gotten through the first page of responses, and have to say that IMO many of the so-called myths aren't myths at all, because they really aren't commonly believed. Only complete idiots would believe some of the stuff written here. I didn't get beyond the first page, because I don't think I can stomach this thread, supposedly about "myths", being turned into merely another venue for dominas to ceaselessly gripe about the attitudes of wankers and do-me subs.

Oh, hbs, lighten up. A way to laugh about these things is much better than just bitching about them. The pre-conceived notions about Dominant women really are encountered by many of us. Every once in a while, we need to laugh it off.

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RE: The Myth Debunking Thread - 3/22/2009 9:45:50 PM

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Dominant women never negotiate and they always get what they want, even if this is to the determent of their s-types. Because, after all, everyone knows dominant women live by the mantra "it's all about me".

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RE: The Myth Debunking Thread - 3/22/2009 9:57:01 PM

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Oh, hbs, lighten up. A way to laugh about these things is much better than just bitching about them. ... Every once in a while, we need to laugh it off.

Oh, LP, don't be so condescending. My knickers aren't in a twist. You should know by now that I just comment on things as I see them, and don't really care much what it looks like.

Perhaps presenting it as "laughing about it" is better than an obvious bitch-and-whine-fest, but it seems like pretty much the same thing. If it was just "every once in a while", instead of almost all the time, it wouldn't be so mindnumbing.

In the future, I'll just ignore such threads instead of posting, and everyone will win.

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RE: The Myth Debunking Thread - 3/22/2009 10:09:54 PM

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Hmm let's see...most have been covered...

Dominant women only live to inflict pain and humiliation on their subs
Dominant women can't ever be tender
Dominant women never use the L word (love)
Dominant women are insatiable (in truth, we only seem that way LOL)
Dominant women never do any tasks themselves..that's why they have minions to hold the bon bons and martinis tray
Dominant women just can't resist a handsome/pretty sub on their knees
Dominant women always want to be called Ma'am, Mistress, Goddess or whatever other title is suitable
Dominant women only consider other Dominant women to be their social circle

ad infinitum...

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RE: The Myth Debunking Thread - 3/22/2009 10:13:01 PM

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ORIGINAL: hardbodysub

In the future, I'll just ignore such threads instead of posting, and everyone will win.

Yes, please do. Here's a thought: how about you retreat from reality again and return to watching "hot" fictional femdoms in porn and on television? Real women with real feelings and real experiences obviously just annoy you with their "fake", "artificial", "trumped up" opinions.

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RE: The Myth Debunking Thread - 3/22/2009 10:42:04 PM

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Actually, after reading all the posts, I do not think there are any of them here that have not been real. Granted the newbies who have their heads filled with the porn queen images are the worst offenders, but we get the myths from somewhere.

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RE: The Myth Debunking Thread - 3/22/2009 11:42:27 PM

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Oh, hbs, lighten up. A way to laugh about these things is much better than just bitching about them. ... Every once in a while, we need to laugh it off.

Oh, LP, don't be so condescending. My knickers aren't in a twist. You should know by now that I just comment on things as I see them, and don't really care much what it looks like.

Perhaps presenting it as "laughing about it" is better than an obvious bitch-and-whine-fest, but it seems like pretty much the same thing. If it was just "every once in a while", instead of almost all the time, it wouldn't be so mindnumbing.

In the future, I'll just ignore such threads instead of posting, and everyone will win.

I do find it a bit amusing that you would use the term "knickers" to be honest. I'm sure you'll find that condescending, too.

I'm also sure that it might seem like we complain about this all of the time. Yet, from our perspective, we experience it a lot more than we complain about it. We get it from a lot of different fronts, most of which are more important in our lives than what we run across here on CM. From the outside looking in, it might seem like it's constant. Instead, it's more the case of, at any given time, one or the other of us has had their fill, and just need to vent. Where you saw bitching about the subject, I found some much needed relief in the form of laughter.

So, another myth busted. That being the one that Dominant women never need to vent just to feel better.

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RE: The Myth Debunking Thread - 3/23/2009 1:35:37 AM

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"Dominant women will welcome married men who lie and deceive their wives with open arms and open legs and slap a collar on their necks and a strap-on up their ass.

Since dominant women are kinky they have no sense of ethics or morals."

We have a few regulars who believe that bullshit.

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RE: The Myth Debunking Thread - 3/23/2009 2:43:33 AM

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Dominant Women wouldn't dream of looking after their subs if they were sick ... that would be too demeaning. And the sub shouldn't let Her do it either! That's unsubby!

If the Dominant Woman dares to have sex with Her sub, the only appropriate position is with Her on top, however, Her plugging his arse with a strap-on is far more Dommly. (Somehow they seem to miss the obvious fact that the One on top is doing all the work!!)

I'm enjoying this thread and I think I've heard all of these at one time or another!

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RE: The Myth Debunking Thread - 3/23/2009 3:01:59 AM

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Dominant women are best of friends with a group of other dominant women.

We arent. Most are egotistical, shallow, jealous bitches on a power trip, lol.
Hey, at least I'm willing to admit it. :)

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RE: The Myth Debunking Thread - 3/23/2009 3:46:17 AM

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LadyPact,

    Dominant Women Do Not Really Seduce and Abandon every man they encounter in the vanilla world.

    You may not believe this but They actually do have to pay real money for damned near everything they are supposed to have to pay for.

    Not All Dominant Women Are Professional Dommes.

    Not All Dominant Women Own Their Own Companies that have an Entire Staff chocked full of submissive men working for no salary to increase the profitability of Her company.

    Hope these curled a lip, brought a smile, or maybe even a slight chuckle.

    Hope All Are Well,

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RE: The Myth Debunking Thread - 3/23/2009 3:53:37 AM

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Myth #1: Dominant women are always right and always perfect. If they make mistakes, they are no longer dominant.

Myth #2: Dominant women are NEVER cute and fluffy.

Myth #3: Real dominant women never knit.

Myth #4: Dominant women are ALL about the [subs] fetish.

Myth #5: A female dominant can only be dominant in the bedroom. Female doms who exhibit dominance outside of the bedroom are demanding nags and expect too much.

Myth #6: Dominant women under 30 are all money grubbing whores. Dominant women over 30 are dominant cause they can't get a 'real' guy.

Myth #7: Dominant women are easy, and welcome explicit mail, regardless of whether they are in a relationship or not.

Myth #8: A dominant woman will welcome graphic descriptions of a subs toilet fetish, because, they are like....uhh... dominant, innit.

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RE: The Myth Debunking Thread - 3/23/2009 4:08:59 AM

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Dominant women are best of friends with a group of other dominant women.

We arent. Most are egotistical, shallow, jealous bitches on a power trip, lol.
Hey, at least I'm willing to admit it. :)

This is one of my pet peeves. Whether I was pro domming or simply playing with a male sub for fun, the question would inevitably come up: Would you consider having a party and passing me around to your other domme friends? Dommes are a very independent type and I find that we don't always get along in a group. Add that to the fact that there just aren't many dommes out there looking for anyone. We're waaaay outnumbered by the male submissives. I find that a lot of them are like me - they have one submissive they are very content with and even (gasp! dare I day it?) very close friends with.

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RE: The Myth Debunking Thread - 3/23/2009 4:20:31 AM

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Myth: If a sub introduces himself to a dominant woman with words like “Goddess”, “Mistress”, “real”, “oral service for hours”, “no limits”, “I'm into” and “here's my yahoo” - she will love it, his chances of contact and conversation with her are increased, and he can bypass the reading of profile stage.

Myth: Dominant women who are attached, not looking for more subs and state so in their profile, want to be approached by other male subs with propositions of “are you sure you don't want more subs? I'll make you cum for hours”.

Myth: If a dominant woman displays a pic of herself with jeans, tee, and a nice smile, she is not real or serious about this lifestyle. Dominant women have to prove they are dominant with fetish pics; that naturally they are only too happy to share with anyone who asks.

Myth: Dominant woman are more receptive and sympathetic to guys looking to cheat on their spouse.

Myth: Dominant women are into everything that's kinky.

Myth: A dominant woman is the same as a dominatrix.

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