CallaFirestormBW
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ORIGINAL: xoxkittenxox I eat a lot of olive oil. We eat tons of veggies, seeing as I am mostly vegetarian. I eat SOME meat, chicken, turkey, salmon, a little shrimp. LITTLE shrimp, since it has so much cholesterol. And I eat TONS of avocado, which is rich in cholesterol but the good kind, which I was low on with my last blood test. I eat some sugar, but very little. None in my daily morning Starbucks run, because its just an iced coffee, with no milk or sugar. I have a little something sweet at lunch but never more than 50-100 calories. 50 if I eat half, 100 if I want the whole thing. I eat small lunches, if any lunch at all. Usually a quick sandwich from Walgreens, which cannot be more than 350 calories AT MOST. And then I barely eat dinner if I eat lunch. If I don't eat lunch, I eat a homemade sandwich, usually with turkey, one slice of swiss, and its usually more spinich than turkey or swiss or bread alone. I don't eat mayo anymore, I use a tiny bit of onion or garlic to season only. So, I probably don't even eat 1000 calories a day.... But even so, I still should be losing something. My last weight was 177.7 at the doctors. I'm 4'9''. I do lose some weight but its like, crazy little. I also don't have a period. I haven't had one in 11 months, which, I KNOW I NEED TO GO TO AN OBGYN. But, it could be hereditary, because my mom had the same issue when she was my age. And she also ate the same way I do now. We are both so busy in our day that we forget to eat, eat small when we have time and run again. The difference is, she was like, 100 lbs. I'm 177.7. So, what am I missing? If what you were saying were accurate, you would be missing -food-... however, with the erratic meal behavior and poor meal planning, what you are doing is completely screwing up your metabolism. Start listening to -barelyanangel- and start eating -real- meals, several of them a day... at least 3 full, healthy meals and 2 snacks. Vegetarian is fine, but make sure you're getting enough fat and protein, and spraying fake olive oil spray on the bottom of the pan while you're sauteeing your veggies is NOT enough fat in your diet. Cut your exercise to 3 days a week, no more than 45 minutes for aerobic exercise, and add 2 days a week of weight-training and a day of stretching, yoga, etc.. Also, if you're weighing yourself to the tenth of a pound, you are -obsessing-... Only weigh once a week, and then just round it to the nearest pound. If you are 4' 9" and weigh 177 lbs, you are -significantly- overweight... in fact, you are obese, with a BMI of almost 39 (obesity starts at a BMI of 30, and even though BMI is not always the sole significator of obesity, when it calls as "obese" there is a significant issue, not just a "tiny" one. Clearly, there is some food in your diet that you aren't "counting", so start logging everything. Also, add water to your diet -- lots of it. Replace every other beverage in your day with water, and then add extra. You should be getting at least a half-gallon of water a day... not soda, juice, diet drinks... -water-. If you write me on the other side, I can give you the program that, even without being able to do heavy exercise because of my multiple sclerosis, and even though I am on beta-blockers, alpha blockers, steroids and interferon, I have been able to lose weight with -- at least 1/2 lb a week, even on -bad- weeks. It's tough, and you're going to need to be able and willing to track your behaviors. If I can do it, after having been told by physicians that it was hopeless to think about losing weight because of my meds and that even surgery wouldn't work for me, you can too. Get yourself to a gyno ASAP, to see what part hormone imbalances are having--but the fact is, at your BMI, it is not unexpected to have your period be erratic or even disappear entirely. Many women who are obese struggle with PCOS (polycystic ovarian disease) and failure to ovulate. Last but not least, get honest with yourself, because clearly, if you're in the position you're in, you are soft-peddling to yourself... obsessing on one end and completely ignoring the behaviors to resolve your situation on the other. As long as you are deceiving yourself, you are never going to be able to make the lifestyle changes you need to make to lose the weight you need to lose. Dame Calla
< Message edited by CallaFirestormBW -- 9/3/2009 2:53:13 PM >
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