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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

I'm interested to know how soon in the relationship the cuckolding thing started...

{I have this thing where I say, OH, I am not into XYZ, then I remember that I have actually DONE it...yanno... I am guessing that the thing where I was fucking M while H was tied to a chair next to the bed is a cuck scene, huh? AND double duty since M was so hot to have an audience!} {Yes, I am a Very Considerate Dom}

Anyway. As one of those poly type folks, I make it clear that I will be beating ass whenever it takes my fancy, and being with ONE playmate forever is not my thing. The same goes for well... everything else. I am violently loyal, just not monogamous. Still, when I am in the new parts of a relationship with a person, I am not the butterfly going from flower to flower, if you will. (Sorry, Yul) What do you do if you hook up with someone and find that you are just not all that INTERESTED in finding some strange for awhile? Is there some kind of time limit involved, where the cuck is saying "Um, honey? That nice mortgage broker in the office next door to yours? Why don't you set up a nooner?" How soon before the lady would feel like she pretty much HAD to go hook up?

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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

I'm interested to know how soon in the relationship the cuckolding thing started...

{I have this thing where I say, OH, I am not into XYZ, then I remember that I have actually DONE it...yanno... I am guessing that the thing where I was fucking M while H was tied to a chair next to the bed is a cuck scene, huh? AND double duty since M was so hot to have an audience!} {Yes, I am a Very Considerate Dom}

Anyway. As one of those poly type folks, I make it clear that I will be beating ass whenever it takes my fancy, and being with ONE playmate forever is not my thing. The same goes for well... everything else. I am violently loyal, just not monogamous. Still, when I am in the new parts of a relationship with a person, I am not the butterfly going from flower to flower, if you will. (Sorry, Yul) What do you do if you hook up with someone and find that you are just not all that INTERESTED in finding some strange for awhile? Is there some kind of time limit involved, where the cuck is saying "Um, honey? That nice mortgage broker in the office next door to yours? Why don't you set up a nooner?" How soon before the lady would feel like she pretty much HAD to go hook up?

Hahahahahahahaha....great questions!

In order:

1) Punt
2) Yes. Generally 1 - 2 hours.
3) Excellent idea! :)

Seriously....no one can answer those questions for someone else, truly it's an individual thing, but for me....it'd come with time, like anything else, just getting to know each other.

As a guy, I fantasise about all this stuff every 12 seconds, and in my mind (what's left of it), I'm absolutely confident I could handle it all every 37 seconds or so. (Still haven't gotten to the "every month" frequency yet....so...I could be wr....wr.....wr....wr....wr....uhmmmmm....misinformed).

If you're asking what would I do in that scenario ("just not that into it at that particular time"), I'd certainly understand. Honestly, it's something I can't ever do for myself (missing some rather key plumbing for it all), so, a smart cuck will keep his mouth shut and say "tank ewe velly much" as often as possible, waiting (like vanilla men often do) for her to get in the mood.

Frankly, at least for me....it's fun to watch, as fun to hear about it....but to be entirely honest....it could all happen in my head (with my wife's / gf's theatrical assistance), manufactured right there for me as I listened.

It's all in the hayud anyway :)

In my mind, as an aside...(of course, she still first, has to enjoy the concept), I honestly can't imagine a better relationship type for a woman....any woman, vanilla or not. Consider all the times you all hear from your girlfriends about some guy who left so and so for another woman....cheated on her.....wasn't responsive...etc.

Take a quick look on Google for "craigslist + cuckold", or even on this website, collarme....the number of men seeking this outnumbers women easily 300 to 1, probably even more.

Imagine you find one of these guys that appeals to you. I can tell you from experience, he's been sitting in a corner for about the last 8 years trying to figure out how to find a Domme (not into cuckolding) to become interested in it, because well....it's not exactly the type of conversation you can bring up with the girl your secretary recommended you go out with...."hey, listen...uhmmm....I know you and my secretary are close....so, well....I'd like to talk about some common interests....now, uhmmmm.....I have some rather unusual ones....promise you won't mention them to anyone that may want to start all kinds of delicious rumors about me in my office?"

Uh huh.

So, you can see....you've kind of got the cuckold guy over a barrel.....he just spent 8 years looking for you, and now he found you!

I can almost certainly guarentee you....unless there's an emotional rift between the two of you equivalent to a 9.0 earthquake on the Richter scale....he's not only going to do everything in his power not to fuck things up.....you pretty much own this guy, far more than any Domme who simply has a generally submissive male.

(And.....you get to fuck anyone you like, anywhere....and at any time :) ).

(Kinda seems like a win/win to me :) )

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ORIGINAL: SDFemDom4cuck

That it is...but it's the gift part that makes the curse of it so well worth while. 

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ORIGINAL: SDFemDom4cuck

She's a lucky woman!

Then again you're a lucky guy as well.

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ORIGINAL: sissyshoefetish

 

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ORIGINAL: SDFemDom4cuck
Cuckolding is Female Led Relationship based. Although I know of cuck couples in which the husband pays for the dates, clothes, even trips for his wife and her lovers. This is not uncommon at all, however, it is not his only purpose in her life.