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RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? - 5/8/2006 4:03:21 PM

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I still think people have taboos or maybe a hard limit or two when it comes to certain acts in play. One , for many males. is the idea of pleasing another man. It might be seen by a dom as a level of trust between the two of them , if he will do it for her just because she knows he would not do it on his own. And it is true that some woman do enjoy watching men service each other---I gather its for similar reasons why Men enjoy watching woman on woman sex. Woman can be stimulated as visually as any man.

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RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? - 5/9/2006 6:39:30 AM

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I was once asked, in a chatroom, if my Mistress asked me to *uck would I oblige. This being a yes or no question, I had to answer yes. The reality is that it is not that simple. First, in order to submit to Her will, I need to reach a level of mutual understanding wit Her, where She would know that “serving” other men is a no-no for me. Therefore, ideally, She would not request this, and the question does not apply. On the other hand, me being Her slave, by definition, I have already agreed to her whims, and trust Her judgment, so…

To get back to the subject, I find *ucking a strap on humiliating, but not essential, or terribly exciting. However, I found myself being “attracted” to that idea, as well as anal play, btw, in some kind of a surrendering gift to my eventual Mistress. In other –and milder- words, I am neutral to the idea, but would consider it for the right person. As for the “real” thing, it’s still way off, and I’m simply repulsed.

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RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? - 5/11/2006 7:09:59 PM

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I am a straight male who at one time had a mistress .It was our first time trying this dom sub thing ...It started out pretty slow, me just being naked all evening,washing and kissing her feet...Shaving my body hair ...masterbating for her ...then masterbating for her and her girl friend....Then they decided they liked me to wear pantyhose or stockings at all times .....It ended up with me sucking a guys cock for them while wearing lipstick as they watched and giggled .I just could not say no to this even though I felt so vulnerable and insecure....He came on top of my stockinged cock ...I was gutted and had to leave ...Have thought about it ever since and hope to get the courage to try it again sometime.

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RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? - 5/20/2006 3:33:23 AM

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After following this thread it became aware and wonder if in a Fem/sub relationship theer is a point in time when a Domme realizes that the sub is totally Her property. Is it just a feeling?? Does the sub have to prove him or herself to limits set forth by the Mistress?? It seems that there has to be a point in time when the Domme is certain that the bond between both is assured????

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RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? - 5/20/2006 5:09:06 PM

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I think when there is a complete trust between two people, almost anything is possiable...In fact...I would ask any one who might read this, "How rare has it been in your life to meet and trust a person so much there would be very little you would deny them?? You can called it what you will, LOVE, BEST FRIENDS, or MASTER/MISTRESS, whatever ..

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RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? - 5/29/2006 12:18:15 PM

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you need to make sure that he understands that a relationship is about compromise. maybe he thinks that sucking your toy is a compromise between other play with you and play with another man, but you need to make sure that he knows that sucking another man is the compromise between sucking your toy and performing for you with the entire hockey team...

or maybe you just need to move slower and break one wall at a time (play with others present, play with other men present, play with other men)

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RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? - 6/7/2006 10:06:22 AM

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I have no problem at all sucking whatever they want me to, but I prefer the REAL thing! But I would hope that after doing a real good job of sucking they would reward me with a real good stuffing of my sissy behind!!!

sublace

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RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? - 8/5/2006 2:54:57 PM

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I'm a sub that prefers a Domme who plays with the gender roles. I'm drawn to the idea of being dressed partially or completely as a part of my submission and my humiliation. I definitely do fantasize that during a session I have my Domme surpirse me with that act of submission. To be "forced" to suck a BIG cock while she insults me and tells me that's my place as a sissy. In my everyday life outside of my time with a Domme, I do not look at men and think I want to suck his cock. I've always felt the need to serve a woman. When I meet beautiful strong women I'm nervous. When I meet guys it like I hey so what. No attractions No emotional connections with men. Safetly is always an issue though. Once a real sexual exchange happens there are those STDs to worry about.

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RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? - 8/5/2006 5:42:43 PM

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I was going thru a phase awhile back once I found out that I like to wear womens undies once in awhile. Thought I might really be a sissy or maybe bi curious even? No action from the ladies so I hooked up with a X dresser (at least I knew we both liked underwear). We agreed on oral only and being a man of my word....I met him and he went down on me...I stopped him real quick.....then went down on him for awhile and didn't like it at all. It just wasn't right. It was an experience and I learned something about myself....I don't like sucking cock or men. Would I do it again? Probably not. If my woman REALLY wanted me to do this....I'd most likely do it for her if in the heat of the moment and everything was just right? And that's a real slim maybe. OK..Flame on...I admitted it....sucked one little ol cock and now everyones callin me a cocksucker!
LMFAO!

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RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? - 8/5/2006 6:43:37 PM

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ORIGINAL: stockingluvr54

I was going thru a phase awhile back once I found out that I like to wear womens undies once in awhile. Thought I might really be a sissy or maybe bi curious even? No action from the ladies so I hooked up with a X dresser (at least I knew we both liked underwear). We agreed on oral only and being a man of my word....I met him and he went down on me...I stopped him real quick.....then went down on him for awhile and didn't like it at all. It just wasn't right. It was an experience and I learned something about myself....I don't like sucking cock or men. Would I do it again? Probably not. If my woman REALLY wanted me to do this....I'd most likely do it for her if in the heat of the moment and everything was just right? And that's a real slim maybe. OK..Flame on...I admitted it....sucked one little ol cock and now everyones callin me a cocksucker!
LMFAO!

I know a lot of men that would never suck cock unless they were with me and it was part of the scenario I had set up and led them into. A whole lot of things have to take place to get to that point - like him being humiliated, incredibly turned on, in chastity for a long period of time, hot from sucking my strap on for a half hour, in front of a girlfriend or two, etc. The scenario of public humiliation and turning a man into a "whore" for others to use is what often can get them into the right frame of mind to not only suck a REAL male cock, but to beg for it.

Yum!

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RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? - 8/5/2006 8:21:40 PM

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

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ORIGINAL: stockingluvr54

I was going thru a phase awhile back once I found out that I like to wear womens undies once in awhile. Thought I might really be a sissy or maybe bi curious even? No action from the ladies so I hooked up with a X dresser (at least I knew we both liked underwear). We agreed on oral only and being a man of my word....I met him and he went down on me...I stopped him real quick.....then went down on him for awhile and didn't like it at all. It just wasn't right. It was an experience and I learned something about myself....I don't like sucking cock or men. Would I do it again? Probably not. If my woman REALLY wanted me to do this....I'd most likely do it for her if in the heat of the moment and everything was just right? And that's a real slim maybe. OK..Flame on...I admitted it....sucked one little ol cock and now everyones callin me a cocksucker!
LMFAO!

I know a lot of men that would never suck cock unless they were with me and it was part of the scenario I had set up and led them into. A whole lot of things have to take place to get to that point - like him being humiliated, incredibly turned on, in chastity for a long period of time, hot from sucking my strap on for a half hour, in front of a girlfriend or two, etc. The scenario of public humiliation and turning a man into a "whore" for others to use is what often can get them into the right frame of mind to not only suck a REAL male cock, but to beg for it.

Yum!

Akasha

I'd like to say that I'd never do it again as I surely don't desire to....ever again! But I'll never say never like you mentioned in your post because you never know?. One thing is for sure....in my case...it removed any doubts or curiosities for me as to which side of the fence I'm on! Some will argue that I suppose...but I'm convinced...and that's what counts. I left there with all the thoughts like...am I gay now?...I sucked a cock....homophobic stuff,etc. Those thoughts were gone in about 2 days. The guy even said..."Hope you aren't traumatized" after I told him it just wasn't for me. Anyways....I didn't get traumatized.....don't need a shrink....didn't turn gay....still love women (probably more now?)...no nightmares...haven't gone blind,etc. In fact I'd almost forgot about it until this thread popped up....

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RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? - 8/6/2006 8:14:11 AM

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I would have to agree with subrob and do not have more to add to to it. Except and I don't know why it hit me (thats funny) but us men love to watch two women so I can see why women like to see two men.

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RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? - 8/6/2006 9:16:05 AM

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Why is it that if someone says, "I'm homosexual" that most everyone in this community seems to accept that (wether they actually condone it or not). But if someone say's "I'm not homosexual" then there is an immediate desire to diminish that fact or negotiate it away or nibble at the edges of what it means? I mean, why not get a gay male sub and see if you can manipulate him into "servicing" a woman? Tell him that he might even like it, if he gives it a try. Maybe he could even become heterosexual eventually or at least transition into being bisexual with the proper taining? I mean come on, what are you, heterophobic???

I just think that hetero men's sexual choices deserve as much respect an understanding as gay men's sexual choices.

LAsub

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RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? - 8/6/2006 5:47:33 PM

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i've never looked at a man and thought they looked good. At best, they look meh, and at worst they look blah or eww. However, most women i see do have some degree of beauty to them. That would be the basis for why i'd prefer a woman with a strapon over a man, and why i believe i'm straight even though i try not to make a distinction based on sex. i suspect i would please a man if i knew the One i was submitting to would be pleased; i certainly wouldn't ask for it though.

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RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? - 8/6/2006 9:12:28 PM

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ORIGINAL: LASub4Real

Why is it that if someone says, "I'm homosexual" that most everyone in this community seems to accept that (wether they actually condone it or not). But if someone say's "I'm not homosexual" then there is an immediate desire to diminish that fact or negotiate it away or nibble at the edges of what it means? I mean, why not get a gay male sub and see if you can manipulate him into "servicing" a woman? Tell him that he might even like it, if he gives it a try. Maybe he could even become heterosexual eventually or at least transition into being bisexual with the proper taining? I mean come on, what are you, heterophobic???

I just think that hetero men's sexual choices deserve as much respect an understanding as gay men's sexual choices.

LAsub

It isn't about homophobia or heterophobia. It's about motivating a man to surrender to things he never thought he would do. For a straight guy, it's suck dick. To your other point, yeah, I find it incredibly hot to imagine seducing a gay male sub to make out with woman or submit to a woman. Sign me up!

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RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? - 8/6/2006 10:27:08 PM

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

quote:

ORIGINAL: LASub4Real

Why is it that if someone says, "I'm homosexual" that most everyone in this community seems to accept that (wether they actually condone it or not). But if someone say's "I'm not homosexual" then there is an immediate desire to diminish that fact or negotiate it away or nibble at the edges of what it means? I mean, why not get a gay male sub and see if you can manipulate him into "servicing" a woman? Tell him that he might even like it, if he gives it a try. Maybe he could even become heterosexual eventually or at least transition into being bisexual with the proper taining? I mean come on, what are you, heterophobic???

I just think that hetero men's sexual choices deserve as much respect an understanding as gay men's sexual choices.

LAsub

It isn't about homophobia or heterophobia. It's about motivating a man to surrender to things he never thought he would do. For a straight guy, it's suck dick. To your other point, yeah, I find it incredibly hot to imagine seducing a gay male sub to make out with woman or submit to a woman. Sign me up!

Akasha

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RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? - 8/7/2006 12:03:12 PM

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Ok so i'm deviant and weird but ...
i like ass play, but not a lot of the dildo stuff. i couldn't get into 'realistic' strap-on's either. i like Women to be Women, and if i gotta suck something, i'd certainly prefer it to be a natural part of a Domme's body! Any takers??? lol!

althalus

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RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? - 8/7/2006 1:30:02 PM

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Male subs who are very into dildo play and cock sucking but consider sucking a real dick to be a hard limit, why?

Maybe because they don't play with guys, and are straight. Plus, its risky behavior, you can't get an STD off of a dildo.

< Message edited by rick19 -- 8/7/2006 1:32:16 PM >

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RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? - 8/7/2006 1:58:12 PM

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Plus they really need to submit to a woman.

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ORIGINAL: rick19

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

Male subs who are very into dildo play and cock sucking but consider sucking a real dick to be a hard limit, why?

Maybe because they don't play with guys, and are straight. Plus, its risky behavior, you can't get an STD off of a dildo.

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RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? - 8/8/2006 3:33:23 AM

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The answer is simple...
Everyone has a limit.

And as i understood (from Ms AAkashas thread) submen have generally the limit for real cock plays.

i think it is absolutly normal because they are men and they are affraiding to be submissive to a man. thats why they are looking for Femdomes. If they would like to have a DOM they should look for them?? .. and afterwards (maybe) they wont like to be submissive to a woman//??? and at that time (perhaps) a Dom would like to force them to submit to fems.

in brief:
there would be always a limit for everyone.. and men ego is generally  stopping the submales from Maledoms. (but there are always exceptions, who are submitting to males... but think about , if a submale doesnt have any limits for real cocks , his Domme would probably be looking for his another limits.. :)))

I think that,  playing on the edge should be the FUN and the best play... I can not think someone, who doesnt have any limits..If he doesnt have any , where is the fun then??..

And the fear of the most submissive is passing it
because passing the limit is not an easy thing.. (IMO)

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