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[b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/16/2010 1:29:40 PM

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Lately thoughts about this topic have been on my mind. And I am wondering what other submissives feel about giving Oral sex to their Dominant.

As my questions revolve around the mental and emotional aspects of giving, I feel it is appropriate to throw them out to the entire community for discussion.

Questions:

Do you experience mental and emotional satisfaction, giving oral sex to Your Dominant?

Do you love to do it at the snap of the fingers, even when knowing you yourself will not cum until given permission, perhaps even days later?

Do you feel you are giving it, in a pure unselfish act of giving, without any expectation of something in return?

Can you become addicted to giving oral sex? Do you feel a deep need to give oral to your Dominant?

For purposes of background, I am a man who categorizes himself as a heterosexual male. And when I become mentally and, well, even a little emotionally involved with a Lady, have normal male reactions. I want intercourse, now, and frequently; until I am bored. Moreover, in all walks of life, even when vanilla dating, I am quite accustomed to, and expect to, get my way.

But occasionally in my life, I have encountered a Lady who seems to defy all expectations.

A Lady so brilliant, accomplished, talented, poised and polished; yet firm in Her convictions, that I cannot resist Her charms!

And of course then, I never get my way! <chuckles>

So when I find myself becoming enraptured with Her; rather than the resolve the emotional conflict though fight or flight, I begin to submit to Her will. Naturally!

Once the process starts, I begin to dream of giving oral pleasure! Smelling Her scent, licking Her wetness!

Of dropping to my knees at the snap of Her fingers … of giving and giving … Her pleasure!
Without even thinking of my own self!

And the oddest part about this all … is I feel so mentally and emotionally happy about the concept of doing this! It is like I NEED Her approval, Her desire, Her attention … AND I feel I can be very happy with that! It seems like such an odd contrast …

Of course, as I mentioned earlier, this is all about the mental and emotional aspects … which we all share a common appreciation for. So regardless of your personal inclinations, preferences and choices, I am interested in discussing your thoughts and experiences.

Oh, and Dominants, how do you feel about receiving such pleasure from one that is yours? Have you ever gotten your subs … addicted?

RE: [b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/16/2010 1:37:39 PM

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WOW, a straight guy who likes to eat pussy. Who da thunk it?

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RE: [b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/16/2010 1:45:43 PM

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lol @ the boi ;)

Dunno know about everyone else,
but I can cum from giving my honey oral sex
without never being touched.

But then Im a freak ;)

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RE: [b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/16/2010 1:46:08 PM

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I feel better knowing there is another out there who shares my kink! I spent so many years.....feeling alone

Jeff

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RE: [b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/16/2010 1:50:06 PM

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Hell, I am orally addicted and I am a Domme... What does that mean? LOL (gonna go search for a therapist number) :)

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RE: [b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/16/2010 1:55:52 PM

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Tell me when you get the scar under your tongue.

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RE: [b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/16/2010 1:59:03 PM

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ORIGINAL: thishereboi
WOW, a straight guy who likes to eat pussy. Who da thunk it?

I swear to god, I hear Stewie's voice reading your posts. Makes me want to kick back and enjoy a can of "Crack me the fuck up" every time.

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RE: [b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/16/2010 2:01:17 PM

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

I feel better knowing there is another out there who shares my kink! I spent so many years.....feeling alone

Jeff

Yes, but few have the Snout you do.. fracking Ant eaters.. with your nose's so damn deep into things.

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RE: [b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/16/2010 2:06:13 PM

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ORIGINAL: seekingOwnertoo

Oh, and Dominants, how do you feel about receiving such pleasure from one that is yours? Have you ever gotten your subs … addicted?

They all were previously addicted, being the beautiful true good little cock sucking whores that they were. Yes, It Feels Oh So Good too, else I'd be playing the MC Hammer game of "Can't touch this".

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RE: [b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/16/2010 3:44:58 PM

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ORIGINAL: thishereboi

WOW, a straight guy who likes to eat pussy. Who da thunk it?

Actually, there are many who don't. I was talking with a friend of mine the other day who, when the subject came out, he categorically said "I don't do that". Later, when he and I were alone, I asked him why not. He actually confessed to me that he never had and because he didn't know how, he was actually afraid to do it and mess up. Of course, there are also guys who get squicked by it.

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Oh, and Dominants, how do you feel about receiving such pleasure from one that is yours? Have you ever gotten your subs … addicted?

I would never date a man who didn't love it to the point that he would get addicted to it. Luckily for him, I very much like to reciprocate on my terms ;-)

- LA

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RE: [b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/16/2010 4:56:20 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

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ORIGINAL: thishereboi

WOW, a straight guy who likes to eat pussy. Who da thunk it?

Actually, there are many who don't. I was talking with a friend of mine the other day who, when the subject came out, he categorically said "I don't do that". Later, when he and I were alone, I asked him why not. He actually confessed to me that he never had and because he didn't know how, he was actually afraid to do it and mess up. Of course, there are also guys who get squicked by it.

quote:

Oh, and Dominants, how do you feel about receiving such pleasure from one that is yours? Have you ever gotten your subs … addicted?

I would never date a man who didn't love it to the point that he would get addicted to it. Luckily for him, I very much like to reciprocate on my terms ;-)

- LA

How old was your friend, seven?

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RE: [b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/16/2010 7:10:26 PM

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Who does not love oral of any type?

I love performing it and receiving it. I never encountered anyone who did not want to do it. However, I have encountered a few, very few men who did not care about receiving it.

Shocking. And they never got to experience my talents. But since they wanted to do me, I was fine with it. Just not for a long term thing, I need someone who is addicted to both.

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RE: [b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/16/2010 7:16:19 PM

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There are times I enjoy doing it and times I don't want to. Part of life.

But I'm just as happy not receiving it. Especially because every so often he just gets a desire to bite and there goes any chance of an orgasm for me for the next several times he does it.

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RE: [b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/16/2010 7:17:05 PM

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Oooooh...no biting allowed in oral sex for me either!! Ouch.

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RE: [b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/16/2010 8:26:03 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

quote:

ORIGINAL: thishereboi

WOW, a straight guy who likes to eat pussy. Who da thunk it?

Actually, there are many who don't. I was talking with a friend of mine the other day who, when the subject came out, he categorically said "I don't do that". Later, when he and I were alone, I asked him why not. He actually confessed to me that he never had and because he didn't know how, he was actually afraid to do it and mess up. Of course, there are also guys who get squicked by it.

quote:

Oh, and Dominants, how do you feel about receiving such pleasure from one that is yours? Have you ever gotten your subs … addicted?

I would never date a man who didn't love it to the point that he would get addicted to it. Luckily for him, I very much like to reciprocate on my terms ;-)

- LA

Lady A ... thank You for sharing Your thoughts! They are appreciated! ;-)

While there isn't anything i can add to what You have written .... i do love Your thought that You would not date a guy who could not get addicted!

i say this because what red blooded man could turn down the opportunity to be between the beautiful legs displayed on Your avatar! ;-)

<smiles>

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RE: [b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/16/2010 8:29:33 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy and the rest of you jokers who responded so inanely to this post ....

How old was your friend, seven?

Are You Guys Seven ????

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RE: [b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/16/2010 8:35:27 PM

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

Who does not love oral of any type?

I love performing it and receiving it. I never encountered anyone who did not want to do it. However, I have encountered a few, very few men who did not care about receiving it.

Shocking. And they never got to experience my talents. But since they wanted to do me, I was fine with it. Just not for a long term thing, I need someone who is addicted to both.

sexyred1 ... thank you for sharing. And i appreciate your thoughts ...

But i would like to ask you ... are there times you feel you have to give Oral to your Dominant? That it is important to your ... psyche ... to your ... self?

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RE: [b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/16/2010 8:37:20 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

There are times I enjoy doing it and times I don't want to. Part of life.

But I'm just as happy not receiving it. Especially because every so often he just gets a desire to bite and there goes any chance of an orgasm for me for the next several times he does it.

DesFIP ... thank you also for your thoughts ... i am asking you ... as i did sexyred ... are there times you feel you need to give?

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RE: [b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/17/2010 1:38:56 AM

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i love giving and receiving oral ... not always at the same time as that can be distracting... when i give i love riding His orgasm

there was a time when we were still vanilla when all he seemed to be interested in when we had sexy time was giving me oral... and to be honest... it started to bore the shit out of me... at times i felt like pulling him up by his ears to change the dynamic a bit... for ages i was stuck with the situation as i did not know how to ask for a change without embarrassing either of us...
Now i am very glad we managed to change things and His repertoire has confidently expanded... still is...

i like oral but if it comes to a toss up between having my pussy or my mouth eaten out... my mouth is usually wanting most attention...

... sometimes i felt lonely receiving oral sex from Him...

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RE: [b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/17/2010 5:55:45 AM

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well, if any of you girls are orally addicted, pop by the house.

Ron

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