MyCaptainsPet -> RE: Removing a collar as punishment.... (4/2/2006 1:03:19 PM)
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ORIGINAL: QuietDom I haven't yet had the privilege of owning my very own sub -- only temporary play partners. (Now accepting applications!!!) But I already have this element planned out, and I think my take on collars is somewhat different from the majority view here. I would want my sub to suitable for public display at any form of venue, from a fetish party to a night at the opera. Appropriate and fashionable dress is an essential part of that. No one collar really serves all purposes. A 'stealth' collar that won't attract attention wouldn't be sturdy enough for play. I intend to resolve this dilemma by requiring my (eventual) sub to wear a collar, but not any one particular collar. She will be provided with a suitable variety. Since no one collar carries as much symbolic weight that way, she will also be provided with a very unobtrusive token (I'm inclined towards a thin ankle bracelet) that is permanently soldered together and can only be removed by cutting it. Under a regime of this sort, forbidding the sub to wear collars for a period - on the premise that "if you're not going to act like a slave, you don't get to wear the acoutrements of a slave," - would be a harsh punishment, but wouldn't signify an end to the relationship. At least, not to me. Personally, i wear a thin silver chain with a small charm. The charm is a symbol that means something to us. i wear it 24/7 and it has never been taken off for any reason.. i also have a "play" collar.. a chrome dog choker that is worn when he deems it proper and necessary. The play collar was my first 'collar' with him. The day he put it on me was a day i'll remember for a very long time. The collar is always with me and i will put it on when ever he tells me to. The thin chain came about a month later. To US, it's a symbol that i'm his to the outside world. i've worn it to every occasion and won't take it off. Both collars mean something to US, but the thin chain is the most precious to me.. Its a constant reminder that i'm part of him and him of me. To remove it, to me, is to break the link, or unlock the lock. i really like the idea of the anklet that you have. Good luck in your search for "the one"
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