CarrieO
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ORIGINAL: readytoserveher Well I ask an honest question the straightest answer I get is go check a faq. Did you? I have looked for info in several places, such as here, the frugaldomme, sexuality.org, and any other place I can find. However I can not find a single reference to how to help a novice Domme along especially a nervous novice. If you had used the search feature to look for "new domme" or something to that effect, you would have found atleast a few threads on the topic. I, personally, have posted links to a couple of my favorite "new domme" threads. Your original question never mentioned her being a novice. Instead, it was all about your desire for information on "forced femme" to share with her. She did not post because I am the one with the account here, not her. Maybe you could have suggested to her that she open an account and come here herself. All I was asking for was a little guidance in how to help her get over her nervousness about things. No, what you asked was "my keyholder is wanting to do some forced femme stuff. however she is not sure how to start doing or what should be done so I am here to ask any Mistress that is willing to give suggestions to please do so."....see the difference? She has loved our tease and denial games and chastity has been great for her so far (bit rough on me though lol but that is to be expected). so I appreciate the not one helpful or not even nice answer. You asked a question and were given answers. They may not have been the answers you wanted but you were given them just the same. Exactly what is the point of having the ask a Mistress forum, if when you ask a question everyone takes you for a stupid wanker and will not give you even the benefit of a doubt. Not everyone. I asked a question of you...had you checked the FAQ thread or done any searching before posting? Sorry I asked anything to anyone here as no one seems to be a good enough human being to simply try to help. So to all of you...... Thank you very little. You know what's really funny, OP? I've given this thread some thought, off and on, throughout the day because I DID look over the links/advice posted in the FAQ thread on this topic and found them somewhat wanting. That being said...I don't care for the idea of "forced femme" mainly because I don't see having a man explore his "girly" side as a humiliating or negative thing. Your original question came across as lazy....both on your part and your mistress's. Google...search this site...go to amazon.com and look for books...heck, take a trip to a drugstore with your lady and pick out make-up together but don't come here and ask a question that could have been easily answered by doing a bit of research and then come back and get all pissy when people point this out to you. Yes, I know you said you check a bunch of other places but really, having a man dress up and find his inner girl isn't rocket science. Maybe the two of you need to sit down and TALK. Discuss what things would do for you...how far either of you want to go with experimenting....would it really need to be forced and why/why not. Seriously...did you read what OttersSwim wrote? It really is simple...or as complex as the two of you want it to be. Which is why your little passive-aggressive rant makes no sense. Best of luck to you both...and yes, I do mean that. edited for clarification
< Message edited by CarrieO -- 3/25/2010 8:45:44 PM >
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