Tombeaux
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ORIGINAL: ranja some situations might be ok while others are not good at all i totally dig the hot idea of a young girl... only just legal or maybe even just not... and an older seasoned man with a mean sadistic streak... i get off on this fantasy myself in the role of the young girl... In reality however it is VERY unlikely that the young girl knows enough about anything to have the actual understanding of what she might be giving her consent to... even if anything was discussed before hand. I think it is most preferable that young people start out rather slowly... getting good at plain sex first, before getting into heavy inpact and forced clit piercing sort of activities... no matter how 'extreme' their fantasies So it would be nice if all older and experienced men would respect the young girls... and keep the heavy stuff for later or find a more experienced partner but alas life aint perfect Interesting, you take exception to the law, not a subjective law of what is abuse within BDSM, but an objective quantified age of consent that is "painstakingly" clear. Seems conflicting, but more so indicative of why "the lifestylers" sometimes bring harassment and litigation onto themselves. It is the same for throwing around the term "slave." I have never been comfortable with the term. Slavery is illegal, but along with the unicorn is a chance to mystify and captivate and audience with shock value. Has pointed out in this thread the term "sadomasochism" even looks "evil" when you compare it to "kinky sex." Submission is something that is a underlying common denominator whether it is a bible derived Taken in Hand, Domestic Dominance, Head of Household where role an order usually is the theme all the way to the most hard core BDSM, twisted edge kink you could conceive, submission remains as the common denominator on some part of the gradient. The BDSM or kink part in its various expressions is where the public gets caught up and we get demonized. Personally, the age of consent issue is probably one law that needs to by a universal law for a number of reasons. Someone referenced 15 in Sweden. Last time I checked it was 14 with the Dutch, 16 in Canada. Every group needs a flag and an anthem I guess and this is why I have stayed away from organized anything. I don't want to be a card carrying anything. If any question of the girls age was eliminated from this thread how would it read? "Man spanked woman one too many times?" As for the argument she doesnt know what she was getting into, give me a break. We are a media saturated world. Unless you are born under a rock and in Sweden sex, unlike our regulated Victorian state, is part of their lives as an open expression, nudity is not a shameful act. There is a simple threshold: cause permanent damage and you are culprit. If a Dom/Domme scening is such a loser not to know what they are wielding in terms of life energy power they deserve to get thrown under the bus for their own ignorance and stupidity and compromising the rest of us.
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