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BDSM Bucket List - 7/29/2010 10:49:42 PM   
juliaoceania


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In case you did not see the Bucket List (Morgan Freeman and Jack Nicholson), it is about two friends with cancer that make a pact to do everything they ever wanted to do before they die. They call this list of things their "bucket list"... now what does this have to do with BDSM? I was thinking about the things I want to try before I die that are BDSM related.... my bucket list.

My bucket list is fairly short.... basically I want to be dressed in a black corset, thigh highs, etc, wearing theatrical makeup, at least 4 inch heels. I want to be led by my Man through a crowded dungeon on a leash, then strapped to a St Andrew's cross and whipped across my breasts and thighs in front of everyone....

Soooooo, what is on YOUR bucket list?

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RE: BDSM Bucket List - 7/29/2010 11:46:53 PM   
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My bucket list is fairly lengthy and has TMI but the one that I'll admit to is to be tied to a palm tree on a secluded beach in Bora Bora. I want a gag in my mouth and absolutely nothing on, and Him just leaving me there to wait patiently for His return. When he does he gives it to me eight ways from Sunday and then leaves again until he's ready to give me more.

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RE: BDSM Bucket List - 7/30/2010 4:15:24 AM   
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I live my bucket list.  *shrug.

In fact, here is a website that can support you in doing the things you want to do:

www.43things.com

Have fun!
sunshine

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RE: BDSM Bucket List - 7/30/2010 5:13:07 AM   
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Cut with a scalpel.
Suspension.
Fisting.
Permanent ownership mark on me.

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RE: BDSM Bucket List - 7/30/2010 6:55:05 AM   
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I live my bucket list.  *shrug.

In fact, here is a website that can support you in doing the things you want to do:

www.43things.com

Have fun!
sunshine


Thanks for sharing the site. And ditto.

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RE: BDSM Bucket List - 7/30/2010 7:48:33 AM   
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Very cool question and based on a really good movie.

Play at one of the big BDSM clubs in London.  From what I've heard, they are a bit different than ours and I would love to visit one.

Present at any of the leather fests that I haven't been to yet.

Go go Sanctuary in Dallas.

Paddles in New York.


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RE: BDSM Bucket List - 7/30/2010 7:51:26 AM   
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quote:

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My bucket list is fairly lengthy and has TMI but the one that I'll admit to is to be tied to a palm tree on a secluded beach in Bora Bora. I want a gag in my mouth and absolutely nothing on, and Him just leaving me there to wait patiently for His return. When he does he gives it to me eight ways from Sunday and then leaves again until he's ready to give me more.


I love the scenery .... outdoor bondage is yummy

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RE: BDSM Bucket List - 7/30/2010 7:52:26 AM   
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Permanent ownership mark on me.


This one is interesting... at least to me

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RE: BDSM Bucket List - 7/30/2010 7:53:36 AM   
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Paddles in New York.


I have heard this club is da bomb...

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RE: BDSM Bucket List - 7/30/2010 7:55:09 AM   
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quote:

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quote:

I live my bucket list.  *shrug.


In fact, here is a website that can support you in doing the things you want to do:

www.43things.com

Have fun!
sunshine


Every day I am living out my nonBDSM bucket list... there are always fantasies, etc, that I wonder if I will ever get the chance to have happen, though.

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RE: BDSM Bucket List - 7/30/2010 7:57:57 AM   
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I can't just think of a bdsm thing by itself. It all hinges on whom I play with and what I'd want to do to/with a particular woman and the connection I had to her. The same play with someone else....maybe not so much.

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RE: BDSM Bucket List - 7/30/2010 8:23:01 AM   
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Abduction fantasy. Er... too soon to bring that one up again?

My bucket list is a mile long, since I've only been playing for a little over a year. But I do intend to try everything I can think of (that isn't a hard limit) at least once.

*edited because I'm a compulsive perfectionist

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RE: BDSM Bucket List - 7/30/2010 8:24:20 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ExSteelAgain

I can't just think of a bdsm thing by itself. It all hinges on whom I play with and what I'd want to do to/with a particular woman and the connection I had to her. The same play with someone else....maybe not so much.



That is a good point, that the list of the things we want to do is variable depending on whom we are with. To think otherwise would make our partners a life support system for our fetishes. I have a very short BDSM bucket list, because of this. There are things I would do with one dom I would not do with another, mainly due to their skill set. Most of the things on my BDSM bucket list could be done with anyone.

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RE: BDSM Bucket List - 7/30/2010 8:27:59 AM   
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Host a group play party for my friends. Good food, wine, and whatever else they wanted. It would be neat.

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RE: BDSM Bucket List - 7/30/2010 8:32:58 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

quote:

Permanent ownership mark on me.


This one is interesting... at least to me


that is one i will soon be doing have teh mark designed jsut got to get an appointment am so happy. would love an outdoor play session. i feel i am living a lot of my list now. other than winning the lottery so work didnt have to get in the way of life and fun

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RE: BDSM Bucket List - 7/30/2010 8:37:15 AM   
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I have pretty much done everything that interests me, and/or things that didn't interest me until I did them.  My list is short.  I would play one last time with the x.

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RE: BDSM Bucket List - 7/30/2010 9:00:52 AM   
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to continue to be in a loving long term committed relationship with Master.

Honestly I don't have any other kind of bdsm list. There's nothing in bdsm that I can truly say I have to do sometime in my lifetime. My bucket list for bdsm was always to find a loving long term committed relationship with a dominant man. I found that. It's complete.


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RE: BDSM Bucket List - 7/30/2010 9:40:19 AM   
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The only thing I would really love to try is fisting. But he has decreed it is not going to happen. He has huge hands, wears a 2X glove.

I may get him a copy of Hand in the Bush though. Let him read through and see if he thinks there's a safe way to do this.


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RE: BDSM Bucket List - 7/30/2010 10:06:40 AM   
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Host a group play party for my friends. Good food, wine, and whatever else they wanted. It would be neat.

~porcelaine



I love hosting parties of any description. I love to make food and drinks for my friends, do candles everywhere, and set a nice intimate mood

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RE: BDSM Bucket List - 7/30/2010 10:08:28 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

The only thing I would really love to try is fisting. But he has decreed it is not going to happen. He has huge hands, wears a 2X glove.

I may get him a copy of Hand in the Bush though. Let him read through and see if he thinks there's a safe way to do this.



He may have a point, celeste... ouch!

Maybe reading that book will change his mind, though

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