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Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/25/2010 8:02:58 AM   
TheIBFA


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Hi,
We'd/we'd love to network with others interested in this "not-so-well-represented" form of BDSM. Especially those interested in improving the quality of available movies on the subject, and the quantity/quality of Ethnic Masters/Doms. Not interested in networking with those whose interest stems from racism.

Note: Why does "Vanilla" display under our username? Have we posted in the wrong place? We're definitely not vanilla

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RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/25/2010 8:36:02 AM   
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i have no idea what rock you're living under, but i know plenty of doms/domme's/top who are of a different ethnic origin than their subs/slaves/bottoms and their quality of life and relationship is just fine; as for the movies, i have no clue who you would network with because my friends make their own movies; as for the vanilla cone under your profile name, it's based on how many posts you make to the forums.

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RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/25/2010 10:01:22 AM   
TheIBFA


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#1- I never stated anything about the quality of life of ALL members of any group. It's unfortunate if you mistook my post as malicious. Maybe I could have better stated my post. Bottom line is, I've met many quality and informed Ethnic Masters/Doms, but I've also met many who could benefit from more information (including myself). I would just like to create a platform to share information and further development for those who feel they need it. Since our personal favorite scenes involve interracial with White female subs, that's who we addressed.

#2- The movies to which I'm referring are amateur movie clips uploaded to file sharing websites as well as professionally produced movies. If you know of quality ones that can be shared, I'd love to view them and add them to our site if the owners agree to it. That's exactly the type of content we want to promote.

#3- Before forming opinions and making hastily written remarks, ask 1st and gain a better understanding of the questions and/or statements. An integral part of BDSM!

#4- Thanks for clarifying the vanilla cone image(I should have known that), and have a great day!

Best Regards,
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RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/25/2010 1:47:46 PM   
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If you write unclear posts, do not blame others for your lack of clarity. The onus is on you to write clearly understood questions. It is not our job to play 20 questions trying to figure out what you wanted to say.

In other words, telling daddyslilone that she needs to ask you what you mean to say is a bitchy comment. It's your job to rewrite your post so it makes sense. Which it doesn't. You seem to be saying that someone who is not white swings a flogger differently than one who is. Which is patently absurd. If you have a specific problem or question due to your or your playmate's ethnicity, then explain it. Don't blame us for not reading your mind.


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RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/25/2010 2:19:44 PM   
TheIBFA


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Ok, u are 100% right and so is she. Anyone else I offended...you're 100% right as well. If there is anyone here that understands my original post and has information, please let me know, thanks in advance.

Best Regards,
Dom D

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RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/25/2010 3:11:22 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: TheIBFA

Ok, u are 100% right and so is she. Anyone else I offended...you're 100% right as well. If there is anyone here that understands my original post and has information, please let me know, thanks in advance.

Best Regards,
Dom D



I don't understand your original post because as others have pointed out, it doesn't make sense. Unless you have a racial fetish - which I don't have - race just never really enters anyway, I session with people, their ethnic roots are not really important, chemistry is...

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RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/25/2010 3:18:18 PM   
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I've topped black women, white women, and a Native American woman. At all times, I was topping the woman, not the ethnicity.  I guess I don;t follow.

BTW, your English is excellent as a second language.


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RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/25/2010 3:30:53 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

I've topped black women, white women, and a Native American woman. At all times, I was topping the woman, not the ethnicity.  I guess I don;t follow.

BTW, your English is excellent as a second language.



4th language, thank you very much :)

But I agree with you, couldn't care less about ethnicity, kin colour is as important as hair or eye colour - apart from people with auburn hair and green eyes, obviously they are much much better than everybody else ;)

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RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/25/2010 4:20:26 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: TheIBFA
We'd/we'd love to network with others


I didn't realize this was the personals section.

And, hey, look at that - I'm "vanilla" too! :)


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RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/25/2010 4:31:06 PM   
poise


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quote:

ORIGINAL: TheIBFA
Hi,
We'd/we'd love to network with others interested in this "not-so-well-represented" form of BDSM. Especially those interested in improving the quality of available movies on the subject, and the quantity/quality of Ethnic Masters/Doms. Not interested in networking with those whose interest stems from racism.

Firstly, welcome to Collarme. You may feel that your interest in Ethnic Masters/Doms isnt well
represented simply because it's no different than an interracial vanilla relationship. Except for the
kink/dynamic no flashing neon lights are required. Im sure if you take the time and learn how to navigate
around this forum you will find this to be a wonderful bdsm site with something for everyone. There is a Search
function in the top right corner of the page, and by simply typing in an area of interest, it will bring up many many
threads on the subject. Another great way to network would be to participate or organize some events within
your own community. I just typed Denmark BDSM into google and came up with a great number of organizations
that you could involve yourself in. Good luck to you.

< Message edited by poise -- 9/25/2010 4:36:00 PM >


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RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/25/2010 4:50:09 PM   
TheIBFA


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I'm very surprised. I actually thought there would be hordes of people who would not only understand what I mean, but were looking for the same thing and also finding it difficult to find online. This is kinda scary since our site is based on this type of BDSM, we might not get as many members as I expected.

We're a married interracial couple, who both prefer the opposite race as a partner, however neither of us view it as a fetish. No more than vanillas preferring a certain race, size, look, height, etc would consider their preference a fetish. It's just that for us...a preference.

As an African-American male, I suppose I can't help but notice the difference in the quality when one compares: Caucasian made mainstream movies to Ethnic made mainstream movies, Caucasian made adult movies to Ethnic made adult movies, and perhaps most of all: Caucasian made BDSM movies to Ethnic made BDSM movies (I honestly feel most people would agree the Ethnic made ones are almost always of poorer quality). In my opinion, the same can "often" be said about Caucasian Doms compared to "many" Ethnic Doms. I don't see it as an insult (after all I AM an Ethnic Dom), I just see it as being honest.

Another point, look online and you'll find tons of quality content (pics/videos)regarding:
Black Dominatrices & White male subs
White Dominatrices & ethnic male and female subs
White Doms/Masters & all color subs

But how much content regarding male Ethnic Doms/Masters and White female subs? Now filter that down by quality and how many are you left with. Filter out the gay content, nothing personal, I'm just into that. How many using the art of Shibari, playing in equipped dungeons, using floggers properly, using real leather equipment and not some crap from the local sex store. Wearing nothing but nike shoes and socks, backwards turned baseball caps, dark shades, rapper jewelry. This is why I say that quality interracial BDSM content regarding Ethnic Doms and White female subs is not represented well on the web.

We African-Americans are embracing BDSM, and I know there are many serious, experienced male Ethnic Doms/Masters who have created and/or appeared in quality pics and movies. Unfortunately one currently has to sift through tons of P. Diddy style Doms to find the quality content. I have personally been looking for about 2 years now and the very best I've found is Ethnic male porn actors playing the part of Doms. I see that as unfortunate. Maybe I don't know where to look, so I'm appealing to forums like this to inform me where to find quality Ethnic male Dom/White female sub content.

I may be the only one who feels it's a problem, nonetheless, I do see it as a problem. The first step in fixing a problem is to admit there is one. I'm not discouraged by possibly being the only one who sees something a certain way. It wasn't all that long ago when the majority believed the earth was flat.

Best Regards,
Dom D

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RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/25/2010 4:58:19 PM   
TheIBFA


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quote:

Firstly, welcome to Collarme. You may feel that your interest in Ethnic Masters/Doms isnt well
represented simply because it's no different than an interracial vanilla relationship. Except for the
kink/dynamic no flashing neon lights are required. Im sure if you take the time and learn how to navigate
around this forum you will find this to be a wonderful bdsm site with something for everyone. There is a Search
function in the top right corner of the page, and by simply typing in an area of interest, it will bring up many many
threads on the subject. Another great way to network would be to participate or organize some events within
your own community. I just typed Denmark BDSM into google and came up with a great number of organizations
that you could involve yourself in. Good luck to you.


Thank you poise for the welcome,
It's great to communicate with those who greet others properly and intelligently. I hope you're a moderator, new members would greatly benefit from a moderator who knows how to properly greet new people,

I've checked the local scene here, not much in the way of what we're looking for. Black here almost always mean African, and well, I should just leave it at that before I offend any more people...lol. I will search the forum as you suggest. Thanks for the info, I appreciate it. Have a great day!

Best Regards,
Dom D

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RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/25/2010 5:03:17 PM   
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so....if you are interested to talk to others with the same view - a little odd that there is no profile to read--s-or anyway to contact you.

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RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/25/2010 5:19:31 PM   
TheIBFA


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so....if you are interested to talk to others with the same view - a little odd that there is no profile to read--s-or anyway to contact you.


Well I did create a profile on collarme.com, with information and it appears to have been removed. I'm guessing because it was viewed as racist or possibly because my website url was on our profile pic. I don't know why. Not much incentive to go filling in lots of details for this profile. Besides, how difficult was it for you to contact me right here in this forum? I'm betting that you're not one of the few that can figure it out.

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RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/25/2010 5:31:19 PM   
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OP -

I think you have a legitimate complaint that you're trying to discuss here (how little black Master/white slave porn there is) but you're not going to find a ton of people on the boards to discuss it with, because there aren't very many people here who share your specific preference. You may not fetishize the race difference, but most people who have a race preference are generally going to keep it to themselves for fear of being offensive in some way, shape or form. I mean, how big of a jerk would I look like if I said I preferred white Doms?

Generally the boards have to do with problems that we can talk out and attempt to solve (on a good day), and the lack of a specific type of porn isn't something any of us can do anything about. The other problem you present - how little involvement the African American community really has in BDSM - is, I think, a really, really interesting discussion, but probably one you should present separately from your preference for white subs. If you pose the problem as lack of black Dom/white sub porn, you're going to get some derisive responses, but if you pose it as a cultural issue, you might get a conversation about why it is that there aren't as many black Doms and whether anything needs to be "done" about that.

Welcome to the boards and good luck.

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RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/25/2010 5:31:22 PM   
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Towards the bottom of this forum is a thread titled Scene Related Links.
Perhaps you can link your website there so that others of interest can view it?

Edited to add.....please read the guidelines for posting there first...they wont
accept just a blind url.

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RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/25/2010 5:42:06 PM   
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I'm really surprised that male Black Dominants with white female submissives would be in the minority of Interracial BDSM. I rarely watch porn so can't speak to that aspect, but the vast majority of interracial couples I've known in my life have been Black Men with White Women.

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RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/25/2010 6:17:09 PM   
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I am a white male submissive myself.My Domme is African-American.I do understand what the OP is saying.For me,I really don't care about the skin color of whoever my Domme is.

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RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/25/2010 6:19:12 PM   
TheIBFA


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quote:

I think you have a legitimate complaint that you're trying to discuss here (how little black Master/white slave porn there is) but you're not going to find a ton of people on the boards to discuss it with, because there aren't very many people here who share your specific preference. You may not fetishize the race difference, but most people who have a race preference are generally going to keep it to themselves for fear of being offensive in some way, shape or form. I mean, how big of a jerk would I look like if I said I preferred white Doms?

Generally the boards have to do with problems that we can talk out and attempt to solve (on a good day), and the lack of a specific type of porn isn't something any of us can do anything about. The other problem you present - how little involvement the African American community really has in BDSM - is, I think, a really, really interesting discussion, but probably one you should present separately from your preference for white subs. If you pose the problem as lack of black Dom/white sub porn, you're going to get some derisive responses, but if you pose it as a cultural issue, you might get a conversation about why it is that there aren't as many black Doms and whether anything needs to be "done" about that.

Welcome to the boards and good luck.


Thanks for replying. I've looked so long that maybe I'm resorting to looking in the wrong places. I'm not just looking for what many call porn(strange, but I don't see BDSM as porn), I also would like to comprise a listing of worldwide experienced Ethnic Male Doms, and create a platform for EVERYONE (regardless of color) to share their knowledge.

I really appreciate your input, have a great day!
Dom D

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RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/25/2010 6:21:10 PM   
TheIBFA


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quote:

Towards the bottom of this forum is a thread titled Scene Related Links.
Perhaps you can link your website there so that others of interest can view it?


Thanks once again poise, I'll definitely check it out!

Best Regards,
Dom D

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