I'm very surprised. I actually thought there would be hordes of people who would not only understand what I mean, but were looking for the same thing and also finding it difficult to find online. This is kinda scary since our site is based on this type of BDSM, we might not get as many members as I expected.
We're a married interracial couple, who both prefer the opposite race as a partner, however neither of us view it as a fetish. No more than vanillas preferring a certain race, size, look, height, etc would consider their preference a fetish. It's just that for us...a preference.
As an African-American male, I suppose I can't help but notice the difference in the quality when one compares: Caucasian made mainstream movies to Ethnic made mainstream movies, Caucasian made adult movies to Ethnic made adult movies, and perhaps most of all: Caucasian made BDSM movies to Ethnic made BDSM movies (I honestly feel most people would agree the Ethnic made ones are almost always of poorer quality). In my opinion, the same can "often" be said about Caucasian Doms compared to "many" Ethnic Doms. I don't see it as an insult (after all I AM an Ethnic Dom), I just see it as being honest.
Another point, look online and you'll find tons of quality content (pics/videos)regarding:
Black Dominatrices & White male subs
White Dominatrices & ethnic male and female subs
White Doms/Masters & all color subs
But how much content regarding male Ethnic Doms/Masters and White female subs? Now filter that down by quality and how many are you left with. Filter out the gay content, nothing personal, I'm just into that. How many using the art of Shibari, playing in equipped dungeons, using floggers properly, using real leather equipment and not some crap from the local sex store. Wearing nothing but nike shoes and socks, backwards turned baseball caps, dark shades, rapper jewelry. This is why I say that quality interracial BDSM content regarding Ethnic Doms and White female subs is not represented well on the web.
We African-Americans are embracing BDSM, and I know there are many serious, experienced male Ethnic Doms/Masters who have created and/or appeared in quality pics and movies. Unfortunately one currently has to sift through tons of P. Diddy style Doms to find the quality content. I have personally been looking for about 2 years now and the very best I've found is Ethnic male porn actors playing the part of Doms. I see that as unfortunate. Maybe I don't know where to look, so I'm appealing to forums like this to inform me where to find quality Ethnic male Dom/White female sub content.
I may be the only one who feels it's a problem, nonetheless, I do see it as a problem. The first step in fixing a problem is to admit there is one. I'm not discouraged by possibly being the only one who sees something a certain way. It wasn't all that long ago when the majority believed the earth was flat.
< Message edited by TheIBFA -- 9/25/2010 5:27:13 PM >