tj444
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ORIGINAL: ZeroTolerance44 Thank you. I will be ok, I`m not angry with her, more at myself, and sad. Self-anger usually translates to hurt. If you're hurt and sad about a meaningful relationship breaking up, that's a completely understandable human condition. You've had a significant loss. Grieve it and be kind to yourself. Imo, the 2 of you should have acknowledged that there was a problem (problems) and at least attempt to find and work on solutions, its not easy but imo, it is a step that should be done first to see if the relationship can be salvaged. But she instead decided to jump ship and once she decided to do that, she lied to you while she was attempting to find another meal ticket. That shows what she is about, that she was thinking only of herself and imo, if i were in your shoes, dam it, i would be mad at her, at least for her deceptions. But, on the other hand, now you know she was not a worthy sub, better you find that out now and good that she is gone. Ummm, she is gone now, isnt she? packed her bags and moved out or is she still there?
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