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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 5:45:20 PM

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All I can say is bless the op's heart.

Shit...I spit coffee everywhere

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 5:47:18 PM

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Agreed. Put some damn clothes on and see if that helps your prospects.

I already tried that for the first few months that I was on this site. It didn't help my prospects one bit, it made them even worse.

And why would you suggest that someone with a body like mine should cover up by putting on clothes?

Are you seriously implying that my target demographic of 18-25yo females has ZERO interest in fit male physiques?

If so, you must be out of your mind. Have you ever seen the posters hanging up on a teenage girl's bedroom wall? Have you ever seen the TV shows that teenage girls watch, or the music they listen to?

There's a reason why guys like this make millions of dollars:
http://www-deadline-com.vimg.net/wp-content/uploads/thumbnails/21354.jpg

Maybe he should cover up too? That would surely get him more female attention, right?

Seriously, can we stop with the atrociously bad advice on this site for just 30 seconds, please?

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 5:48:31 PM

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And you're from the south, ain't ya?

Well, of course I am, fine sir!

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 5:49:32 PM

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And would you seriously suggest that someone with a body like mine should put on some clothes?

I swear to God, this is the very first time that I am actually laughing out loud for honest to goodness real from these boards.

THANK YOU, Aderious. You are now my official very favorite and hunkiest poster ever.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 5:50:47 PM

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And would you seriously suggest that someone with a body like mine should put on some clothes?

I swear to God, this is the very first time that I am actually laughing out loud for honest to goodness real from these boards.

THANK YOU, Aderious. You are now my official very favorite and hunkiest poster ever.

Yeah, I choked on that one too.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 5:51:04 PM

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18-25 year old men in pretty fair numbers are carrying around pretty buff bodies, nature of the beast. What you got besides some ok traps, and a curtain and backround that says to most folks, tonight we are going to do something a little different and try some naked kareoke?

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 5:51:36 PM

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I swear to God, this is the very first time that I am actually laughing out loud for honest to goodness real from these boards.
THANK YOU, Aderious. You are now my official very favorite and hunkiest poster ever.

There's nothing inherently comedic about that statement. I have a damn good physique. You know it, I know it. As the saying goes, if you've got it, you flaunt it. Or at the very least, you don't tuck it away and hide it behind a bunch of clothes.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 5:53:06 PM

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Seriously, can we stop with the atrociously bad advice on this site for just 30 seconds, please?

Yes...all you men and women who have successfully met women and men from CollarMe and have lived to tell about it - PLEASE stop with your atrocious advice. Jeez. Behold and quiet down, people!

I'm so happy I popped on this thread.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 5:53:59 PM

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18-25 year old men in pretty fair numbers are carrying around pretty buff bodies, nature of the beast. What you got besides some ok traps, and a curtain and backround that says to most folks, tonight we are going to do something a little different and try some naked kareoke?

The only place where I regularly see guys with better physiques than mine is on dedicated bodybuilding sites which I am a member of. For example, bodyspace.com. Among the general population, I am easily in the 95th or 96th percentile and that certainly doesn't exclude the young population. Just stating a fact. Lots and lots of people in this country are already over the hill and out of shape by their early 20's.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 5:55:45 PM

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You come off as far too arrogant. Dominant doesn't equal asshole.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 5:56:02 PM

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I'm so happy I popped on this thread.

You didn't pop on it, honey, you pooped on it.

And the advice was bad because the types of girls I'm looking for hang up posters of guys like Taylor Lautner on their bedroom walls. Any dunce knows that. Young girls VERY MUCH appreciate fit male physiques (ever seen an Abercrombie and Fitch ad?) and only a fool would suggest otherwise.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 5:57:36 PM

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I don't think I've ever known a girl over 20 to hang posters of anyone on their wall...just saying. Teenagers do, yes, but women 20-25? Meh, none I've ever known, unless they were grossly immature.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 5:58:54 PM

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You come off as far too arrogant. Dominant doesn't equal asshole.

Really? You might want to consider sharing that bit of knowledge with 99% of the female "dommes" who post here. They don't seem to have gotten the memo.

Newsflash: Stating that you have a good physique when you have a good physique isn't arrogance, it's simply telling the truth. What the fuck am I supposed to do, lie and say no, my physique sucks even though I go to the gym 5 days a week and eat a very strict diet?

In reality, I am not arrogant. I am never arrogant in my messages to female subs. That is NOT the reason why I get practically no responses.

Where's the arrogance in attaching a fully-clothed face photo and saying, "Hello, I'm a mature dom, etc...Do you want to talk?"

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 6:00:51 PM

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I am a young girl.. when i was younger i hung up book release photos, not men...

And id fuck DarkSteven in a heartbeat.... before id go anywhere near touching you...

IM your demographic.. and frankly you arent what im looking for...

Im looking for someone smart, sweet, confident, not some arrogant fool who thinks his body actually offers something, id rather a man who didnt go to the gym and spent time working on his brain

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 6:02:17 PM

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The thing is....you're showing off your physique, so you don't have to talk about it.

In all honesty, though, I care a LOT more about what a dom has to say than what profile pic he has up. The man I met from here recently and have begun seeing doesn't even have a picture on his profile. He included a pic when he emailed me the first time, but the main draw was that he read my profile and he communicated to me with respect.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 6:02:31 PM

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By god you are a self confident feller, no fa niente; but your arms look a little scrawny, and your traps are faded (as you know I meant earlier to say ok lats) and you have no real definition to your pecs, I am sure you lift your arm and the muscle disappears.

Look about like me at that age, but I had larger arms because I was a boxer.

Thing about it is, though, for a slick mofo, what I would do is throw on a suit and tie, thats right cover that bitch up and go gq, women will handle that......then when you get her to the horizontal watusi chamber, peel that off and strike a pose, she will pass out.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 6:02:53 PM

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I'm so happy I popped on this thread.

You didn't pop on it, honey, you pooped on it.

And the advice was bad because the types of girls I'm looking for hang up posters of guys like Taylor Lautner on their bedroom walls. Any dunce knows that. Young girls VERY MUCH appreciate fit male physiques (ever seen an Abercrombie and Fitch ad?) and only a fool would suggest otherwise.

Older women appreciate physique, as well. Mmm - remember those Calvin Klein ads with Mark Wahlberg? (Not you, Aderious. You're way too macho. I'm talking to the women, here.)

Seriously - if the women you are looking to attract are the type of women who are hanging posters in their room and responding like Pavlov's dogs to mass marketing, then more power to you. You're on the right track and doing everything exactly right. I wish you, your fantastic body, and your sparkling personality all the best.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 6:04:03 PM

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Mmmmm...suit and tie.....

I had a FWB when I was in high school and college that would put a suit and tie on to come over and fool around, because he knew the suit got me hot.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 6:04:46 PM

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The question is, are you looking for a REAL relationship or just some quick rolls in the hay? I don't care what kind of body you have, the body will never make a relationship or keep one together. Yes teeny boppers have been known to put posters on their walls and fantasizing about that person. Even the teeny boppers know that there needs to be a real person behind the body.

The people on here are trying to explain the facts of life to you. You would do well to come down off your high horse a bit and actually think about what they are saying.

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RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site - 2/21/2012 6:07:31 PM

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I'm so happy I popped on this thread.

You didn't pop on it, honey, you pooped on it.

And the advice was bad because the types of girls I'm looking for hang up posters of guys like Taylor Lautner on their bedroom walls. Any dunce knows that. Young girls VERY MUCH appreciate fit male physiques (ever seen an Abercrombie and Fitch ad?) and only a fool would suggest otherwise.

Older women appreciate physique, as well. Mmm - remember those Calvin Klein ads with Mark Wahlberg? (Not you, Aderious. You're way too macho. I'm talking to the women, here.)

Seriously - if the women you are looking to attract are the type of women who are hanging posters in their room and responding like Pavlov's dogs to mass marketing, then more power to you. You're on the right track and doing everything exactly right. I wish you, your fantastic body, and your sparkling personality all the best.

They wore underpants, or teaingly unbuttoned and unbuckled blue jeans, and the junk wasn't out front on the camera, obviously it's been awhile for you too.

Now wouldn't all you women agree that would be better, and somewhat of a compromise?

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