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RE: 10 things a Dominant needs from a submissive - 7/26/2012 7:48:30 AM

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a weal twue submissive would know how to use teeth without causing egregious harm.... just sayin .....

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RE: 10 things a Dominant needs from a submissive - 7/26/2012 9:00:34 AM

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Thanks to my jaw surgery, a bj from me constitutes edge play...but I'm game! Gentlemen?

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RE: 10 things a Dominant needs from a submissive - 7/26/2012 9:32:38 AM

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Speaklng as a domly dom, how wise would I be if I didnt delegate, and use my submissive's skills? I am not 100% behind the idea of kicking him out on the front lines while I lag back at the base, but if he knows stuff, he's taking care of those things.

I may have misinterpreted and most likely have…but my take is you perceive the male submissive as something more than an over-sexed cock-driven mindless puppet responding to commands or demands.
How very unusual, if so.

Hm... sarcasm? How surprising, from you!

I have met more than a few "over-sexed cock-driven mindless puppets", I just don't conflate them with male submissives. Clear enough?

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RE: 10 things a Dominant needs from a submissive - 7/26/2012 10:04:56 AM

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I may have misinterpreted and most likely have…but my take is you perceive the male submissive as something more than an over-sexed cock-driven mindless puppet responding to commands or demands.

The Dommes here do NOT confuse over-sexed cock-driven mindless puppets with submissives.

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RE: 10 things a Dominant needs from a submissive - 7/26/2012 10:19:56 AM

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Its nice to have someone actually teaching you and not just mocking you.

I've just skimmed though your other threads and can see why you feel like people have been mocking you. You might get a better reception moving forward if you start your new threads with:

- I took previous advice and bought these books from the booklist
- I want to take your advice and go to munches but I have these questions
- I took your advice and started going to munches
- I realize that BDSM relationships have a lot in common with vanilla relationship. That being said, ...

Your questions aren't asked in a vacuum - people remember your posting history and get frustrated if you seem to ignore all the advice or knowledge previously given.

This is just a suggestion, but this post and the quote that it's in reply to need to go on the two current threads that can be found by the author of the first quote. Just My personal opinion.

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RE: 10 things a Dominant needs from a submissive - 7/26/2012 10:21:13 AM

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I may have misinterpreted and most likely have…but my take is you perceive the male submissive as something more than an over-sexed cock-driven mindless puppet responding to commands or demands.

The Dommes here do NOT confuse over-sexed cock-driven mindless puppets with submissives.

No, we don't. And I don't want to be all dismissive of the oversexed fucktoys, they have their place in the world of kink. It's just not a place next to *me*.

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RE: 10 things a Dominant needs from a submissive - 7/26/2012 12:29:03 PM

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I hate it when people like you post shit like this. Its so fucking lame.

I read it as something like this:

RULES AND REGULATIONS OF BEING A DOM AND SUBMISSIVE:

1. blahh, blahh, blah, babbity -blab, blahhhhhhhh

2. blab, blahh, blahhhhh, blabiity blab blab blab -

3. I never ever get this far, cause Im onto something more interesting, anything - like getting the grit out from underneath my fingernails.

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RE: 10 things a Dominant needs from a submissive - 7/26/2012 12:31:44 PM

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Cleaning brushes is also a good time killer.

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RE: 10 things a Dominant needs from a submissive - 7/26/2012 12:33:51 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

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Thanks to my jaw surgery, a bj from me constitutes edge play...but I'm game! Gentlemen?

Ohh thank you - you just ruined my screen, my keyboard, my mouse, actually the whole desk is ruined....but hell it was worth it - thankyou thankyou - best comment ive read in ages lol

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RE: 10 things a Dominant needs from a submissive - 7/26/2012 12:38:15 PM

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ORIGINAL: givemyall

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

~cackles~

Thanks to my jaw surgery, a bj from me constitutes edge play...but I'm game! Gentlemen?

Ohh thank you - you just ruined my screen, my keyboard, my mouse, actually the whole desk is ruined....but hell it was worth it - thankyou thankyou - best comment ive read in ages lol

WOOHOO!!

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RE: 10 things a Dominant needs from a submissive - 7/26/2012 12:39:09 PM

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Hm... sarcasm? How surprising, from you!

I have met more than a few "over-sexed cock-driven mindless puppets", I just don't conflate them with male submissives. Clear enough?

Sarcasm… no not at all.

Indeed your comment is clear enough.

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RE: 10 things a Dominant needs from a submissive - 7/26/2012 12:42:12 PM

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If my comment was clear enough, why imply that you misunderstood it? Remember, the phrase is, "Hib, you're full of it". No need for passive aggression in these parts.

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RE: 10 things a Dominant needs from a submissive - 7/26/2012 12:50:28 PM

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If my comment was clear enough, why imply that you misunderstood it? Remember, the phrase is, "Hib, you're full of it". No need for passive aggression in these parts. [/

No need for aggression...passive or in any other form...I simply won’t allow it, especally, if hidden in sarcasm.

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RE: 10 things a Dominant needs from a submissive - 7/26/2012 1:00:21 PM

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You are an amusing person. I mean that sincerely. And I was not being sarcastic earlier, just so you know.

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RE: 10 things a Dominant needs from a submissive - 7/26/2012 1:40:55 PM

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10 things a submissive needs from her (properly capped) Dominant.

1.Don't tell me what to do.
2.Don't tell me how to feel.
3.Don't tell me to be something that I am not.
4.Don't tell me how many other submissives you have trained.
5.Don't even try to train me! (many a finger has been lost in this attempt.)
6.Don't get in my face for any reason.
7.Put the damn toilet seat down!
8.Don't pretend to like my cat then knock her off of the television stand when I'm not looking. I'll know.
9.Put up with my moods because if I like you I'm most likely putting up with all kinds of sh*t.
10.Be your damn self. That's why I let you into my life in the first place.

See what hostility reads like list making gentlemen? This list is of course negotiable as is all of life's endeavors. Except for the cat.

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RE: 10 things a Dominant needs from a submissive - 7/26/2012 1:56:01 PM

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I LOVE YOU!

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RE: 10 things a Dominant needs from a submissive - 7/26/2012 2:02:28 PM

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ORIGINAL: EllenofTroy

10 things a submissive needs from her (properly capped) Dominant.

1.Don't tell me what to do.
2.Don't tell me how to feel.
3.Don't tell me to be something that I am not.
4.Don't tell me how many other submissives you have trained.
5.Don't even try to train me! (many a finger has been lost in this attempt.)
6.Don't get in my face for any reason.
7.Put the damn toilet seat down!
8.Don't pretend to like my cat then knock her off of the television stand when I'm not looking. I'll know.
9.Put up with my moods because if I like you I'm most likely putting up with all kinds of sh*t.
10.Be your damn self. That's why I let you into my life in the first place.

See what hostility reads like list making gentlemen? This list is of course negotiable as is all of life's endeavors. Except for the cat.

Jesus fucking wept. This is awesome.

Awesome, with a side of awesome and loads of awesome sauce.

You must come to England at once, woman.

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RE: 10 things a Dominant needs from a submissive - 7/26/2012 2:04:47 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

~cackles~

Thanks to my jaw surgery, a bj from me constitutes edge play...but I'm game! Gentlemen?

Now listen here...

"Brave" is going into a burning building to rescue a kitteh.

"Stupid" is me putting my little fellah between the lips of someone who has recently had jaw surgery.

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RE: 10 things a Dominant needs from a submissive - 7/26/2012 2:10:37 PM

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The jaw surgery was decades ago! I've had plenty of time to...refine my technique.

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