Timonat -> RE: A mature submissive? (8/17/2012 8:31:10 AM)
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ORIGINAL: littlewonder When I was young, I hated old men who approached me with "hey baby. I like young hotties like you.". Now that I'm older I hate men who approach me with "I like older women". To me it says, I like you not because of the qualities you hold but because of the stereotypical fuck that you think I am.You have zero desire to get to know me as a person. You only care about that little fantasy in your head that you think those types of women are like. I was always attracted to men my own age because we both had much more in common and could understand each other. The problem you are having is YOUR age and not being able to communicate with women older than you. It's an age gap thing which is why it rarely works for long term relationships. It works however, for a little casual fucking and playing if that's all you're looking for. There's tons of older women looking for that but I'll be honest...the majority of them are dommes. So unless you're willing to switch, I have a feeling you will be looking a very long time..unless like I said, you're not seeking a romantic relationship. Good luck. Thank you everyone for your opinions, advice and insights, regardless of what side of the fence you are on. I think all the comments have been interesting and had their own merits. The main issues some of you have seems to be not wanting to be "reduced" to your age. I understand that, if someone was interested in me simply because I have black hair, I would also feel somewhat denigrated. "what about the rest of me? All my qualities and complexities that define who I am?". So I hope those who "argued" the other postion do not feel like I do not understand their objection, I take it on board and appreciate your input, patience and time. It seems to be quite a hot and and divisive issue. I think age is a sensitive topic for all of us, myself included. I remember one time I was not allowed to sit a particular exam, because I was not over the required age limit. It made me so furious! I knew I could easily pass, and was smarter than most of the so called more mature students, but was being judged simply by my age, not my abilities, qualities etc. I really felt insulted by that. So I understand why some of you feel annoyed by being characterized simply by your age, not by who you are. I think also that some people object because they feel that they have more life experience and feel insulted that some smart ass younger know it all comes along, expecting them to submit to him although they are clearly in a "superior" position than he is. But, that is the whole point. It is a fine line that I must tread I think.
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