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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/14/2012 11:18:30 AM

RubberKathryn

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Get over yourself, it's a a turn off for sure.

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/14/2012 11:28:03 AM

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Congrats on alienating probably 75% of the forums, if not more.

LadyP (and most everyone else) gave it to you cut and dried. Don't like the delivery? FINE. Not everyone has the maturity to take it like an adult. But to get all pissy because you don't like the message? well, reap teh results.

you started out with a semi reasonable question (well, semi-reasonable to folks who have no imagination skills), you got some great advice.

In fact, the advice is pretty much the same advice given across the boards. If you choose to be a twat about it, we will treat you as a twat.

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/14/2012 11:42:52 AM

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Why is it so incredibly difficult to make men understand we are not interested in cock photos?

The best advice here is from rochesub: guys, try marketing to your target audience. If you target audience is men, then by all means keep showing your cock. If your target audience is women, then LISTEN for once!!!

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/14/2012 11:45:09 AM

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I love you sexylicious! and that new avi!! *THUD*

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/14/2012 12:07:57 PM

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Thanks, sweetie. A friend made it for me and it cracked me up!!

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/14/2012 12:10:13 PM

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cracked you up why?? it is teh YUMMY!! there you are with an (understandably) adoring young man... how is that bad? LMAO!!

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/14/2012 12:30:41 PM

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Well, it would help if I actually KNEW that adoring young man! Been there, done that, got the young one's t-shirt, but don't have an adoring one right now.

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/14/2012 4:35:17 PM

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Thanks for all the advice... im working on changing my profile up :) I mean i think like a guy because i am a guy so its hard to turn that off and im not sure i even want to turn that off. But i will make sure to let dommes know i do not come pre-trained and i appreciate all the info. oh yeah and cock shot are down but im leaving the abs up because i work damn hard for those.

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/14/2012 4:55:15 PM

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but im leaving the abs up because i work damn hard for those.

Quite right too. It's *really* difficult to get them.

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/14/2012 5:02:34 PM

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Not if you're a Domme it isn't.

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/14/2012 5:14:44 PM

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but I DO have enough left over to adore others... even if not to the degree that I adore YOU!!

Is that called polyadoration? Hey, did I just make up a new word?

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/14/2012 5:23:08 PM

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Looks like you did. My sub knows a great many words, and that isn't one he's ever heard of. The Oxford dictionary thinks that's a new one too, he says.
You go, girl!

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/14/2012 5:39:20 PM

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wow it was just a question.... just because i identify as a sub doesn't mean i am Your sub.

Thanks again to all the people who responded with helpful information, i appreciate the advice.

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/14/2012 5:48:48 PM

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Not if you're a Domme it isn't.

Hoh really? Hmmm.

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/14/2012 5:50:16 PM

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I love you sexylicious! and that new avi!! *THUD*

Isn't all this loving a bit un-American?

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/14/2012 6:22:42 PM

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What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for in a potential sub's profile?

I feel like my profiles not as good as it could be... just curious what makes a good sub's profile..

Thanks

I'm sure you'll have many responses but...I have to say, I truly don't grasp the question.

What does this have to do with getting more Dommes to put VASTLY more provocative photos of themselves on their profiles?

I mean, I really don't understand the waste of broadband to discuss your issues, when the same amount of broadband could have been devoted to a far more important subject...that being which I have already described above.

I think it's fairly clear, I have a far better grasp of the issues here.

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/14/2012 11:07:49 PM

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wow it was just a question.... just because i identify as a sub doesn't mean i am Your sub.

Thanks again to all the people who responded with helpful information, i appreciate the advice.

And you got an answer. What's the problem?

Friendly advice. Females tell males this stuff all of the time. We tell male Doms the same thing, so that "I'm not your sub" crap ain't going to go too far.

I'm glad you have "experience". But we had to tell you that we don't like cock shots?

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/14/2012 11:35:48 PM

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oh i wasn't talking about that, it was good advice minus someone calling me a twat for no apparent reason... i cant have face shots so i was just trying to make my profile more appealing.

It seems unpopular for a sub to have a backbone but if you're subbing to everyone then i think that gotta be way less appealing for a domme than cock shots.

Anyway point taken, all the cock shots are gone :)

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/14/2012 11:47:25 PM

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You're leading with your role.

See, you asked a question. A number of women came forward and talked about the kind of pics they didn't want to see. You got honest answers.

You don't have to have face shots, though a number of women do prefer them. Be creative. Don't look like every other guy around here. Trust Me. As a male sub, you need to stand out. Most chicks on this site aren't cruising your profile, so those that do see it need to be impressed and you don't want to look like everyone else. The few who do see your profile when you don't specifically draw attention to it be creating a thread are going to hit the "next" button over cock and ass shots.

You've been here since last November. Skip the first sixty days "new user" time. How many people really look at your profile each day? It's not a lot, is it? If it was, you wouldn't have started this thread.

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/15/2012 12:14:52 AM

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yea they were honest answers... my question was not a negative though.. i was just curious what type of pictures they like? I suppose i should have just asked... what is your favorite type of pic of a sub on collarme?

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