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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/23/2012 11:33:28 PM

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i feel like my sincerity is lost over the forum... i just meant that i was looking for less of a critique on me and more of examples of what makes a successful subs profile when i wrote the question... thats all.

That's the thing though, a successful sub isn't his profile, it's him!
Otherwise we'd just date the profiles and not you behind it :p

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/24/2012 4:19:37 AM

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Clothes. We like clothes.

Cock shots. Kiss of death. We don't really have any interest in your cock unless we are actually fucking you. Even then, we probably don't want you showing the goods to the rest of the world.

Ass shots where you are bent over are also a huge turn off. Great! You have an asshole and want to be fucked. This is the most unoriginal shot on a kink site. I mean, think about it. Do you really find your asshole attractive? No, we don't, either.

The standing torso with the head chopped off. Yes, we know. You think, "hey! as a guy, I like looking at boobs" and the face is an after thought. Guess what? Women don't work that way. Your pecks or abs aren't nearly as interesting if we don't see you as somebody with a personality.

All of the above on your profile? Take them all down and start over.

This.

Which yanno........if a guy really is the dumbass all the things I've already read in this thread, about that profile.....then it is perfect. It is telling anyone that sees it, exactly who he is. So they can move right on past him to checkout the next dumbass.

So yes, if ab shots, asshole shots, dick pictures.........are a direct reflection of the best that guy has to offer then I believe firmly he should keep them. It gives an accurate window into who he is.

It's no different than me passing by the thousands of perfect tit, perfect ass, duck lips, etc etc photos I see on the other side. If a woman's main profile photo is of her cleavage, I assume she believes that is the best she has to offer. Cleavage is a dime a dozen. NEXT!!!! If a woman puts photos of her naked bits up, I put the profile on hide. I can see naked bits anytime. I want to know who she is, as a woman.......if her bits are her best feature....... she isn't anyone I want to own.

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/24/2012 4:25:34 AM

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I personal DO NOT want to see your cock,asshole or balls. Keep those pictures out of your profile. IF not asked DO NOT send them to a Mistress. They will only be deleted and not looked at. Pictures really do not matter to me as a Dominatrix it is more about being honest with you Dom and your self. Truth is a turn on. Being able to Trust is a tun on. NOT seeing you cock.

Says the woman with an ass photo as an avatar........

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/24/2012 5:23:34 AM

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But my tits ARE my best feature!

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/24/2012 5:26:39 AM

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But my tits ARE my best feature!

I'm gonna tell a Domme she's incorrect.

Your mind is your best feature.

I liked it before I ever saw a pic of the other.

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/24/2012 5:34:13 AM

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Well I will not speak for anyone but me, I ask for a face shot the rest wont matter if I like the eyes. Naked is not what Im looking for. That comes later. I want to see the person not the dick. I have to connect before I ever meet them in person. I think if you feel the need hide behind a cartoon or naked ass or not even show a picture you are still not ready for real life play. I have been told its for privacy, someone may find out well I say this, if they see you here what the fuck are they here for in the first place to get someone, so who know maybe your friends and neighbors are here too. I am sure they wont say a thing to anyone if they do ask why were you looking at my profile anyway and a member lol. So be your self that is only you that you can be. Not every sub is for every Domme/Dom we all have things we look for but for the love of god take pride in yourself and show you face at least and keep the clothes on at least in the profile pic

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/24/2012 5:48:31 AM

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~hugs for Hilly~ ever so hard to photograph that, though! Though it's true, looks are a bonus, if the mind isn't there, neither am I.

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/24/2012 6:17:23 AM

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*wants to lick Hibbie's brain*

*smooch* miss you!

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/24/2012 8:24:53 AM

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But my tits ARE my best feature!

I'm gonna tell a Domme she's incorrect.

Your mind is your best feature.

I liked it before I ever saw a pic of the other.

I agree!!!!!

Hibby has a veddy sexy brain!

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/24/2012 9:02:03 AM

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~ponders whether to preen or blush~

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/24/2012 9:03:54 AM

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You can't multitask n do both? for shame.

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/24/2012 9:09:51 AM

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~Does both, and also chews gum.~

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/24/2012 9:18:08 AM

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~Does both, and also chews gum.~

Flavor of gum comes through LH's brain as I am licking it. LOL!

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/26/2012 10:55:02 PM

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attractive, devious smile :)

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/27/2012 7:48:16 AM

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Psycho does have a great profile, but what clinched it for me was his activity on collarchat. We actually didn't hit it off at first when he messaged me - I though he was a bit of a blawhard, which is Scottish for a windbag, know it all, loves the sound of his own voice type. His intelligence and sense of fun on the boards shone through, though. And although he has pics on his profile, they don't do him justice (he blushes when I say that). Which is a long way of saying that it doesn't matter what's on your profile, as long as it shows your personality. Generic lists of attributes or fetishes are frankly boring and tell me nothing about whether we're a good match.

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/27/2012 9:06:52 AM

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I'm blushing now

In relation to what I sent to WW, it was the most utter pile nonsensical, flowerly drivel that would probably make Shakespeare's Juliet audibly sigh before saying "Really?"

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/27/2012 9:12:48 AM

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We do like our Pyshco. Yes we do. Auntie is fond of all her nieces and nephews.

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/27/2012 12:28:41 PM

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I'm blushing now

In relation to what I sent to WW, it was the most utter pile nonsensical, flowerly drivel that would probably make Shakespeare's Juliet audibly sigh before saying "Really?"

cough *bullshit* cough

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/27/2012 12:30:25 PM

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I'm blushing now

In relation to what I sent to WW, it was the most utter pile nonsensical, flowerly drivel that would probably make Shakespeare's Juliet audibly sigh before saying "Really?"

cough *bullshit* cough

Based on what he posts here... Yeah, I think Miss WW has the right of it.

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/27/2012 12:32:15 PM

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We do like our Pyshco.

I agree!

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