StrictlyADomina
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@ Athena - Yes any private citizen can request their own records checks, there are some online checks that are better than others. For those who live in Texas you can set up an account and pay for the one time use or by the month to view arrest records. Texas is of the opinion that they are public records and thus available to the public. In this I see Texas as progressive, every state should have this system. Here is the link: https://records.txdps.state.tx.us/DpsWebsite/CriminalHistory/ You can easily search for sexual predators by name and by state. A simple google search will pull that up. Yes, it is true that incest conviction rates are less than 10 percent of reported incidents and many sexual perpetrators of for whatever reason are not convicted at a high rates. Insisting on a records check is better than nothing by a long shot. Why more women don't do it simply astounds me. I can only think that most suffer from the belief that "it won't happen to me" or want to believe whatever bullshit falls out of the male's mouth. If he refuses a records check, honey you need to drop him like a rock. For the males reading this yes I don't mind doing a records check either, I am more than happy to disclose the speeding ticket I got two years ago. Be advised that recent research is demonstrating a statistical link between animal cruelty, domestic violence, child abuse and incest: http://www.aspca.org/fight-animal-cruelty/domestic-violence-and-animal-cruelty.aspx lest you think that it is just "fluffy pet lovers" making this claim it there are a couple of more links: http://cops.usdoj.gov/html/dispatch/March_2010/domestic_violence.htm and https://www.ncjrs.gov/pdffiles1/ojjdp/188677.pdf. So be alerted if this shows up in the reports. These are crimes are committed the bulk of the time by males. Yes sometimes by females but statistically the overwhelming numbers are males doing this. This is not a problem that is easy to fix. They simply like and enjoy doing this. Who wants to stop doing things that they like and feel that there is nothing wrong in doing?. Years of group therapy are generally needed to resolve these issues, not a simple "I gave that up" statement. Which they rarely make anyway. They simply deny, minimize, lie and blame the "system" or the "woman". Simply stated stupid women believe this and get involved with them. So what are the rates for domestic violence? Well it's 25% of women will experience this so that means there are a nice percent of males doing this. Here's the link: http://www.dvrc-or.org/domestic/violence/resources/C61/ It's like rolling a dice, roll it enough and your number will come up. Do your homework take extra precautions and don't be a victim, @ Maria----I'm not a pro-dom, I'm lifestyle. So the dynamics are a little different. ************************************** Your mileage may vary
< Message edited by StrictlyADomina -- 12/31/2012 8:59:27 AM >
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