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RE: What a girl/woman wants - 2/19/2013 7:37:28 PM

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Normally, oral sex is way down on my list (actually, it's not even on my list) but I'm liking it now because He likes it and I like Him.

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RE: What a girl/woman wants - 2/19/2013 8:17:03 PM

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I love oral sex but Master does not but over the years I've not missed it as much anymore. At first though it was difficult for me to get used to. As for topping, I tried it once it was horrible. I couldn't bring myself to dominate someone. Hell, I can barely stand to confront people in general. It just makes me cringe to even think about. Even though oral pleasure is nice, it's not nice enough for me to want a sub.

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RE: What a girl/woman wants - 2/19/2013 8:25:04 PM

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Interesting replies.

I LOVE oral sex and will only be with someone who loves it as well.

As for men who brag about oral sex; it is really funny. In almost every case, those who brag about it and how long they will do it, are full of it.

When men say, oh I will lick you for HOURS, I always say, hey, listen. If it takes hours, then you would not be listening to my moaning, body language, etc. You would be doing it wrong if it takes hours.

I have never met a man who did not like giving oral to me.

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RE: What a girl/woman wants - 2/19/2013 10:43:28 PM

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I think cosmo and the like continue the myth that all women love oral sex. It's certainly not just a sub thing.

Sadly a lot of the guys I've met not only think they are unusually skilled in that area, they also think they are special for even being willing to do it. I've had more than one conversation with male friends who have made some comment implying it's something that they have to get out of the way to get the woman ready for the good stuff - the sex.

Time for a sex education program which actually talks about foreplay, orgasms and preferences instead of covering the basic biology and letting friends on the school bus fill in the gaps in knowledge.

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RE: What a girl/woman wants - 2/19/2013 10:57:31 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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Nah, I have topped but I am not a switch by any means. I top on command, I don't have the heart to dominate. But it is something that comes up particularly on Fet where I get more than a few guys weekly telling me if I don't enjoy oral it is only because they haven't been there yet.

Have you ever had any guy admit that he isn't any good at oral sex? At the same time, how many women have you heard say that they didn't enjoy it much or their partner wasn't that good at it.

Like the line from "When Harry Met Sally" goes, you do the math.

When I'm with a new partner, I don't assume they want it the way an old partner does. I will explicitly ask, and if they don't answer, they get what they get. My girl is shy about it but under the right circumstances, she has enjoyed receiving oral sex (and even then, what constitutes the right circumstances is subject to change). I enjoy oral sex from her because she's damn good at it.

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