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TwistedPfister -> "1950's Household" fantasy - anyone share it? (5/10/2013 7:55:55 PM)
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Unfortunately for me, my reality is devoid of sex, intimacy, or affection. But thems the breaks. So, I live mostly in my head, which, I have to say, is a pretty cool spot in general. Anyway, I grew up in the late 50's and 60's, and ours was a pretty conventional household for the times. Dad busted his butt 60 hours a week to pay the bills, fixed stuff around the house, barbecued, and taught us how to do sports and ride bikes. Mom cooked, cleaned, looked smoking hot most of the time, and took care of us kids. She totally took care of my Dad, fetched his slippers and all of that, deferred to him in every way that we could see as kids, and really seemed to love doing it. And she was no wallflower. She had an Ivy League graduate degree and a couple of years in the workforce, and he had a GED. She gave it up to be the kind of wife and mom she wanted to be.
My own wife has suffered with mental illness for about 20 years, and although she has been under psychiatric care most of that time, she really isn't able to do much. I do the cooking and cleaning and over the years have done most of the kid stuff too, besides supporting the family. Sometimes, for my own amusement and sanity, I have pretended (while I'm cooking or cleaning) that we have a "1950's household" relationship where I'm the submissive wifey type doing the chores and trying to please her while she's watching me from the couch. Of course, she's not really conscious of this little scenario as its playing itself out in my mind, and she's not sitting there with a beer, demanding oral sex once I finish with the vacuum (I only wish). But, it makes things amusing for me, and I always rub one out right after the chores are done.
My question is "How many dominant women reading this would like this kind of arrangement if it was financially feasible?" Not to have a slave or sub, but a partner who was submissive in the same way many of our mothers used to be. Someone who would subsume their own career ambitions, take care of the home front, be a loving, intelligent partner, give them whatever kind of sexual gratification they wanted on demand,be under their control (allowance, how they dress, etc.) and basically be the 50's style wife. Not so much BDSM. Other than the financial responsibility of making all of the money, is this an attractive proposition to dommes in this day and age?
Clearly, I'm not asking for advice, so please refrain from offering any regarding my wife's situation. We actually get some of the best mental healthcare available. It's just unfortunate that some people are not particularly responsive to meds or therapy, and she is one of those. Thanks.
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