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I hope the trend continues.

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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal

Have to say it doesn't bother me if non-hetero couples kiss, hold hands, hug or other displays of public affection.
But it doesn't turn me on either. I'm not much into voyeurism/exhibitionism--doesn't rev my engine.

With "straight" guys? No way in hell. Nor between "straight" gals either, even if it's *just* kissing.
Straight-on-straight sex smacks to me of desperation or else adolescent sexual experimentation (private gender-segregated school, prison, stranded on a desert island, inappropriate physical contact, et al).

Settling for somebody other than whom you really want to be with, and using another human being for gratification, esp. as fuckbuddies, is not okay IMHO.

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

I see your point. But the things I am pointing out are actors (who are presumably straight, but of course, who knows) engaging in same sex kissing. I am not 100% what is flipping my trigger here, but I can guess at it.

I get off on the idea that one or both of these men are out of their comfort zone. Engaging in an act of intimacy. They are vulnerable. I like vulnerability. I like surrender. Seeing straight guys kissing (because they are actors, and this is their job and passion even if it's not comfortable for them, or is awkward, or weird, or even really, really difficult) is arousing -- for that reason.

So when I say "straight guys kissing" I don't mean two guys just making out for random reasons. I think the reason behind it is what makes it erotic. And in well-done filming, it's of course portrayed in a very sensual way.

I will admit, a lot of the arousal is my own imagination jacking me up. Of course, for some of these guys, the whole thing could be like, "Meh, it's my job. Doing a kissing scene with another guy is just as random as kissing a woman, don't care, it's what I do." Well, that's a killjoy! In my retched imagination, I psyche myself up that it's honestly a huge challenge, they feel nervous and uneasy, conflicted if they get aroused, and are also enduring it..for their ultimate goal of being good at what they do. (Pleasing) the director, perhaps?

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ORIGINAL: thompsonx

ORIGINAL: FieryOpal

You {AAkasha} must have really enjoyed watching "Brokeback Mountain," presumably both Heath Ledger and Jake Gyllenhaal being straight, that is.

I understand that only one of them is straight now.

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ORIGINAL: devotion1208

I know from past posts on here, forced bi is a huge plus for a lot of Domme's and m/m kissing is bound to arouse many. x

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ORIGINAL: hauser

Our world is messed up. And let's face it, it is because of the male's inability to deal with other males. It's the archaic Alpha male / Beta male thing. So, if we, as Dominant Women, make all men kiss, maybe our world will become a better place. Really - - - - in some society's, some cultures, it is OK for men to kiss. And those cultures are happy. Maybe it is time men step up to the plate, pucker up, and give another guy a deep wet one!!!! You all love it when women kiss. It's time men kiss. The salvation of the human race depends on it!!!!!

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

I will admit, a lot of the arousal is my own imagination jacking me up. Of course, for some of these guys, the whole thing could be like, "Meh, it's my job. Doing a kissing scene with another guy is just as random as kissing a woman, don't care, it's what I do." Well, that's a killjoy! In my retched imagination, I psyche myself up that it's honestly a huge challenge, they feel nervous and uneasy, conflicted if they get aroused, and are also enduring it..for their ultimate goal of being good at what they do. (Pleasing) the director, perhaps?

Akasha