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AllisonSophia -> When the world stops having any meaning! (12/4/2016 3:19:28 PM)

What's a person do, when nothing has any meaning anymore and no amount of pills or counseling help. When you've lost everything that you hold dear and can't seem to find anything that remotely comes close to filling the void where your heart once existed. When one is totally alone with nobody to talk to in person, online holds little enjoyment.

Why is suicide so frowned upon? What right do others have to keep us here if we no longer wish to be? Why force people like me to continue to suffer and live when living is too painful? Why can't people just accept that it's not about them? There should be a legal way for people like me to end this existence and make sure it's done correctly and permanently.

If you're reading this, I'm sure you'll just string along a bunch of nonsensical, psycho able to attempt to make me "see reason".

Well, let the psychobable begin. Personally, I would much prefer to hear that people truly understand what I'm going through without wasting their time, or mine, in trying to convince me that the world needs me or some other bullshit. I've heard it all before. I'm 54 and have been through all this crap before. Mind you, at this particular moment I'm not in the process of committing suicide, but too much bullshit might just push me over that fine line between life and death. So, people, be very careful how you address my issue and don't make light of my pain.



littleclip -> RE: When the world stops having any meaning! (12/4/2016 3:49:08 PM)

go out to a local munch be around other kinksters that are happy and you will find it will rub off on you
there is always something to live for even if only to piss the bastards off by not dying[sm=candles.gif]



AllisonSophia -> RE: When the world stops having any meaning! (12/4/2016 4:10:40 PM)

I'm tired of living by other people's rules. And you can't attend a munch here unless invited



tamaka -> RE: When the world stops having any meaning! (12/4/2016 4:23:34 PM)

Go get some professional help. This isn't the place for that.



AllisonSophia -> RE: When the world stops having any meaning! (12/4/2016 4:34:39 PM)

If anyone can either confirm or deny that C.U.F.F. Requires an invitation, please tell me.



AllisonSophia -> RE: When the world stops having any meaning! (12/4/2016 4:36:41 PM)


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ORIGINAL: tamaka

Go get some professional help. This isn't the place for that.


I have spent my life talking to shrinks, yet, here I am. I've heard it all before. You might say...at this point...I'm currently venting. But that could change in a heartbeat.



tamaka -> RE: When the world stops having any meaning! (12/4/2016 4:42:22 PM)


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ORIGINAL: AllisonSophia


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ORIGINAL: tamaka

Go get some professional help. This isn't the place for that.


I have spent my life talking to shrinks, yet, here I am. I've heard it all before. You might say...at this point...I'm currently venting. But that could change in a heartbeat.


Venting about what?



LadyPact -> RE: When the world stops having any meaning! (12/4/2016 4:47:23 PM)


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ORIGINAL: AllisonSophia

If anyone can either confirm or deny that C.U.F.F. Requires an invitation, please tell me.

Munch FAQ

by HardRuler over 5 years ago

What is a “munch”?
A munch is a casual lunch or dinner, with like-minded folks where we can meet in a public, non-threatening environment, eat, and discuss our mutual interests. It's a great way to get to know others in the area.

Who can go?
Can you get to the restaurant on the date and time listed? If so, then YOU and anyone you care to bring can come. The only restriction is that you don't bring any minors. We would like to keep the group adult, so we can keep the discussion care free and open.

I'll admit it, I'm nervous about coming out for the first time with people I have never met. What should I do?
We have all been "first timers" once. Just remember that this is a meeting of like-minded folks in a public and non-threatening environment.
If you are still unsure please e-mail one of the regulars and we can possibly arrange to meet you in a smaller group prior to the munch.

Can I wear my fetish wear?
Yes, BUT only if you can fit in with vanilla society. We are meeting in a public place and need to have respect for the others who will be dining or working there. In addition some of those attending our munches may not be "out" to others that might be at the same place. Lets respect everyones privacy.

It’s just lunch or dinner? That's it?
Well, maybe that's it or maybe it's just the start of a fun day/evening spent with like-minded friends. After the munch we might go someplace else or maybe we head to someone's house to hang out together. The day/evening will still be young so just plan a little time to have possible fun afterward.

Oh, ok, I'll be there. What do I need to do?
We would appreciate it if you would RSVP on the event page. It's simple, just click "I am going" in the top right corner. That way we can get an idea of how many people are coming and how much table space to reserve or set aside. Then just show up with an appetite!

I didn't RSVP. Can I still come?
Yes, of course you can! Just come in and introduce yourself.

How will I find the group when I get there?
We commonly place a book or graphic novel on the table as a sign.


Now, I'd appreciate it greatly if you would stop sending me emails. As you know, I've been to this munch, so stop with the crud about how it's "invite only".



AllisonSophia -> RE: When the world stops having any meaning! (12/4/2016 4:50:17 PM)

Alright.

I don't remember You being this mean and angry.



LadyPact -> RE: When the world stops having any meaning! (12/4/2016 4:51:31 PM)

More:



The “Columbus Georgia Group” is the premier group for kinksters in the Chattahoochee Valley area who want to meet and get to know each other.

We got our start on Yahoo! as “C.U.F.F. - Columbus United Fetish Friends”. CUFF began back in 2005, yes before FetLife was even a gleam in John Baku’s eye! CUFF was started by several local kinksters who saw the need for a local group because they didn’t enjoy the drive to Atlanta for all of their playtime. Back then Yahoo! Groups were all the rage. CUFF on Yahoo! had some growing pains but quickly grew to over 100 members. As FetLife became more popular we slowly transitioned to this group that you see today now with over 600 members.






kiwisub22 -> RE: When the world stops having any meaning! (12/4/2016 4:52:32 PM)

OP - I can appreciate the pain you feel, been there, saw the shrink, did the talk, took the pills - but we are not responsible for you killing or not killing yourself, and for you to suggest otherwise is emotional blackmail.
If you are that fragile, you need to get to an ER. Going to a munch is not what you need.



AllisonSophia -> RE: When the world stops having any meaning! (12/4/2016 4:53:39 PM)

I stand corrected



AllisonSophia -> RE: When the world stops having any meaning! (12/4/2016 5:07:50 PM)

**shrugs and shakes head**

I didn't realize it would be this quick to have my point proved. This is what humanity has become, de-evolved to such quick dismissal of others. Amazing.



LadyPact -> RE: When the world stops having any meaning! (12/4/2016 5:24:53 PM)

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ORIGINAL: AllisonSophia
Alright.

I don't remember You being this mean and angry.

Would you like me to go pull some examples of other threads from as back as far as 2007 where I've taken you to task for posting things that were blatantly untrue, so you got corrected?

If you don't 'remember' me that well, I would hope that you would at least 'remember' that I'm not big on bullshit.



stef -> RE: When the world stops having any meaning! (12/4/2016 5:55:13 PM)

New name, same attitude, same behavior. Oh well.



ThatDizzyChick -> RE: When the world stops having any meaning! (12/4/2016 5:57:01 PM)

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Why is suicide so frowned upon?

Because non-suicidal people simply cannot comprehend the desire to die. It is simply beyond their ken, and therefore there simply must be something wrong with somebody who wants to die.

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What right do others have to keep us here if we no longer wish to be?

None. They do not have that right.

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Why force people like me to continue to suffer and live when living is too painful?

Well, actually, nobody IS forcing you. If you have not killed yourself, it is because you don't really want to. Some part of you yet maintains hope, just find that part and cultivate it.

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Why can't people just accept that it's not about them?

Because that's not how people are wired, we judge all situations through the lens of our own self interest.

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There should be a legal way for people like me to end this existence and make sure it's done correctly and permanently.

Yes there should, however, what right do you have to force somebody to help you off yourself?



angelikaJ -> RE: When the world stops having any meaning! (12/4/2016 7:21:50 PM)

As someone who has lived with depression for much of my life, I have empathy.

It is hard to see any hope of a meaningful life when you are looking through sh*t colored glasses.

I can also tell you that even though medication has not helped you in the past, it may be useful now.
It took me a long time to find a combination that worked for me.


As for counseling, I suggest cognitive behavioral therapy.








DaddySatyr -> RE: When the world stops having any meaning! (12/4/2016 7:24:00 PM)


This is a tough one for me.

I'm a recovering Catholic. What I mean by that is the church and I parted company many years ago, but I still relate to quite a few of the concepts ... amongst them is that life is a God-given gift. I have a hard time acting in a cavalier manner, when it comes to ending life.

I don't know that I've ever been suicidal, even in my "teen-age angst" years.

However, I'm older, now. I've outlived one of my children. I have a condition that will, eventually end my life. As I notice the deterioration and I learn about what's to come, I realize that sticking around to the "bitter end" doesn't appeal to me. I do have "a plan". It's just a matter of timing.

I can't imagine "pulling the plug" a day before a cure (or treatment) for my condition is announced, but I believe I have a right to decide exactly when I've had "enough".

So, I still don't think I'm suicidal, but I will say this: I'm done. If God wants to call me home, I'm ready to go. I've had some fun. I've paid my taxes. I've served my fellow man. I've raised my children (youngest is 28). I've met all my obligations.

I think, though, that there is a difference. I know, from personal experience, people can be so depressed that their judgement is in question. They're so beaten up by life and suffering from depression that they can't see an end to their suffering, even when one might be close at hand. They can't see the forest because of all the trees.

I think we (as a society) need to come up with some kind of fairly definitive test (if that's possible) to determine that a person's desire to end their life is a matter of fore-thought. Have they really reasoned this out or are they a suffering soul for whom some help is still available?

I wish I knew the answer to that dilemma. I'm not so sure anyone does.



Michael



AllisonSophia -> RE: When the world stops having any meaning! (12/4/2016 7:28:37 PM)

The only counselor I could find that would see me more than one visit is an hour's drive...Lagrange, Ga



AllisonSophia -> RE: When the world stops having any meaning! (12/4/2016 7:30:41 PM)

She's going to help me with my gender issues



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