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tamaka -> RE: Dommes (3/13/2017 2:35:44 PM)

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer


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ORIGINAL: tamaka


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

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I find submisive men to be disgusting. That is my view, always has been.


Oh dear. You and I really aren't going to be the best of friends, are we?



I don't know. I really like you for some reason.



I suspect that you'll change your mind about that soonish, Tamaka. I have no interest whatsoever in your liking me. Just to be clear. [;)]


I don't think it matters to me whether you have an interest in me liking you or not. I enjoy having different personalities here on this message board, and for that reason, i happen to like you. That's all i meant... just to be clear.... so...... there. 😋



respectmen -> RE: Dommes (3/13/2017 8:27:44 PM)

Just a quick lunch break message.

In regards to my 12 year old nephew. It's amazing how people totally missed where I said I was joking around with him. If he appeared to take what I say seriously, I would have corrected it. But as I already know, he knows better than this.

He's exposed to every movie and tv show. He's exposed to the internet. It's not like what I said is something he has never seen or heard.

Him and his brothers muck around with sexual jokes all the time, particularly gay jokes.

This is another example of phobia against male sexuality. People in here are overreacting due to that phobia. If it was an aunty joking around with her neice saying things like just walk up to the boys you like and kiss them, everyone would see it as something harmless. But they flip out when its males making the jokes.




Lucylastic -> RE: Dommes (3/13/2017 9:28:49 PM)

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If it was an aunty joking around with her neice saying things like just walk up to the boys you like and kiss them, everyone would see it as something harmless. But they flip out when its males making the jokes.


I am not going to slag you off for joking with a neph...
I wouldnt expect anything else.

But your analogy in the quote is pathetic.
How is talking about kissing a boy comparable to getting a blowjob?
Surely the similarity would be an aunty telling a niece how to give one?
age not withstanding, or appropriateness.
You are comparing apples to oranges, and thats why it would be seen as "harmless".
And why that quote is bullshit.
thats not a "male" issue, that is your issue



respectmen -> RE: Dommes (3/13/2017 11:06:58 PM)

Rightio, Lucy just implied that its okay to go up to anyone and kiss them without their consent. That's not bad of course.

Laughs



respectmen -> RE: Dommes (3/14/2017 12:45:34 AM)

Oh boy, where do I start?

I don't condone men sending messages such as "Hey baby wanna fuck" or "Hey tie me up bitch". What I do condone however, in an laid back and respectful fashion, a man questioning about kinks and curious if you are sexually compatible within the first message.

But even if a male does that, many female bigots assume that he's just a user looking for a fetish delivery system.

It is very relevant in a BDSM site to bring up BDSM early in a conversation. It would be just as idiotic if I started accusing women of being gold diggers simply because they asked about what I did for work early in a conversation. Then me jumping up and down and stamping my feet claiming that they're not respecting me and not treating me as a human being! The sky is falling!

Plenty of women out there need to get the fuck over their prejudice and phobias against male sexuality.

In a BDSM themed website, guess what people, both men and women, are ESPECIALLY here for? To seek someone who is into BDSM. Otherwise, they wouldn't be here unless they are only here for the forums such as myself. So to most people here, it should be important to find sexual compatibility as the majority of the population of whatever gender is not into what you are seeking. This is a crucial topic, it's a crucial point in knowing someone if you are going to get along with them later down the track or not.

What's the point in talking about their bloody cats, what's their favourite colour, how is your life etc etc for days or weeks while not knowing such a crucial point in what creates the connection.

It seems that what plenty of women want is that a male is only supposed to show curiosity about sexual stuff under their terms and conditions. If men treated women the same, chauvinism and patriarchy.

The problems with Lisa and plenty of other women here is that they need to fix up their faults if they want to EASILY get what they really want.

1. Drop the prejudice against male sexuality.
2. Start initiating contact

If you changed them two things, I am confident to say that I could bet my bottom dollar that you would be pleasantly surprised later down the track.

Prejudice against male sexuality doesn't only appear in the beginning when judging if he's going be a user or not. It also prevails when a man happens to want to break up with a woman from a short term relationship.

The usual rant from women when men break up from a relationship that didn't last long is that he just wanted to get one thing (sex) and then piss off. In other words, she got played!

This may be true in some cases but I think it's more often not when the accusation happens.



LadyPact -> RE: Dommes (3/14/2017 11:00:22 AM)

First, I'm going to go back to the link that was posted earlier. I read it after I came home from work yesterday. Truthfully, any woman who considers things like location, age range, relationship status, etc as criteria for whether a person is a potential partner or not, is going to come up with a 95%+ figure. That's even before personal compatibility (i.e., anything determining whether you like the individual or not) comes into play. Add that in, you're looking at even fewer people who are actually compatible depending on how people are interpreting the word partner. Even I wouldn't have answered any better than 95% for not potential play partners and 99% not potential D/s partners. It wouldn't even be a whole percent but because it's not an absolute zero, I'd have to round up.
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ORIGINAL: respectmen
Oh boy, where do I start?

I don't condone men sending messages such as "Hey baby wanna fuck" or "Hey tie me up bitch". What I do condone however, in an laid back and respectful fashion, a man questioning about kinks and curious if you are sexually compatible within the first message.

But even if a male does that, many female bigots assume that he's just a user looking for a fetish delivery system.

This is where you are messing up. You're completely skipping the fact that the receiver of the message is allowed to have personal boundaries and choices about their own standards for interacting with others. If anybody has their own personal rule about not wanting to interact with someone who brings up kink or sex in their introductory message, believe it or not, they get to do that.

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It is very relevant in a BDSM site to bring up BDSM early in a conversation. It would be just as idiotic if I started accusing women of being gold diggers simply because they asked about what I did for work early in a conversation. Then me jumping up and down and stamping my feet claiming that they're not respecting me and not treating me as a human being! The sky is falling!

OK. Be honest. How many times does what you do for a living come up in the FIRST message you receive? Even though what a person does for a living, what kind of hobbies they have, and so on are very common, social (not intimate) questions, how quickly does this really happen when you are dealing with someone you haven't even met in person yet?

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Plenty of women out there need to get the fuck over their prejudice and phobias against male sexuality.

You get how ridiculous this statement is to women who sleep with men, right?

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In a BDSM themed website, guess what people, both men and women, are ESPECIALLY here for? To seek someone who is into BDSM. Otherwise, they wouldn't be here unless they are only here for the forums such as myself. So to most people here, it should be important to find sexual compatibility as the majority of the population of whatever gender is not into what you are seeking. This is a crucial topic, it's a crucial point in knowing someone if you are going to get along with them later down the track or not.

By your own logic, then at least some of it should be a given. It's an automatic assumption that people here are into some form of alternative interests. Which specific interests would be more the focus when people are ready to interact on that level. It's usually not day one.

I'm also inclined to say that you're skipping something really big on this one. That's the profile factor. If people want others to know what they are into, they'll have it in there, somewhere. If they don't, they are probably the people who don't want to be contacted based on their kinks. This means random 'what are you into' message guy should know he's going to fail.

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What's the point in talking about their bloody cats, what's their favourite colour, how is your life etc etc for days or weeks while not knowing such a crucial point in what creates the connection.

Great argument for 'what's the point of getting to know someone". Most people are more than just about their kinks. I'll give you the fact that I don't necessarily care as much about the other parts of the other person's life if I'm just engaging in casual play. However, a lot of people aren't into that kind of thing.

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It seems that what plenty of women want is that a male is only supposed to show curiosity about sexual stuff under their terms and conditions. If men treated women the same, chauvinism and patriarchy.

Believe it or not, that's how some of this works. BOTH people should be wanting to engage with the other person sexually according to their comfort zone and interest. For most women, that's not going to be from the first email they get on a website. There wouldn't be all this b^tching on the "why don't women answer emails?" threads if this wasn't the case.

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The problems with Lisa and plenty of other women here is that they need to fix up their faults if they want to EASILY get what they really want.

(Christ, dude. You've really got a hard on for that chick. Are you sure there's not an underlying issue there?)

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1. Drop the prejudice against male sexuality.

You really don't get this, do you? For all your ranting about how (paraphrased) men aren't supposed to leap at the chance for any sexual interaction with a woman, women just plain aren't interested in interacting with every man who happens to cross their inbox. Any person gets to base that on whatever they want. That's not discrimination. That's the individual getting to choose who they will be intimate with.

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2. Start initiating contact

I'm the first to tell you that's really not a requirement. Most women honestly don't need websites to find partners.




PeonForHer -> RE: Dommes (3/14/2017 1:01:42 PM)

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OK. Be honest. How many times does what you do for a living come up in the FIRST message you receive?


Hmm. Interesting. I'm pretty sure I've been talking to some women here on CM - and elsewhere - for years without my *ever* having told them what I do for a living. It does come up, generally, at some point - but it's never really been an issue.



respectmen -> RE: Dommes (3/14/2017 2:22:52 PM)

I'll give this one a reply when I get on my laptop.



LisaSadistic -> RE: Dommes (3/14/2017 2:28:26 PM)

I don't necessarily mind talking about compatible kinks but first of all that information is on my profile and second I'm still trying to figure out how oral sex is a kink or a fetish. Isn't it just assumed that most people like sex? How is that kinky? Is there some particular reason why they have to start asking me for sex before we've even met in person?



longwayhome -> RE: Dommes (3/14/2017 10:56:54 PM)

I only post this rm because you have ranted about it at some length.

First contact conversations can be slightly difficult because both parties are slightly prone to over-interpreting what is said. We all learn that there are things we can easily raise immediately and things we don't.

People tend to be a bit touchy about certain topics, even when they are raised in a light hearted way. You have demonstrated that you can take offence pretty quickly to fairly mild jokey stuff when you posted your own conversations.

Analysing all this stuff can be interesting, but it's not an indication of some terrible prejudice against men. Both men and women can be guilty of prejudging people based on previous interactions, like the women here who get multiple threatening or offensive posts from men.

It's a bit basic but you surely have to roll with the punches and be interested in the other person's feelings and interests. Cats may be a hard limit for you but it's hardly a crime.

I just don't get what your problem really is. My experience is so different to yours. Either I am a genius at communicating with women (which is seriously unlikely) or you just come across as being uninterested in women as people.

Trying very hard to stay away from saying anything unnecessarily harsh, I would suggest that your issues are less to do with some disadvantage you have just by being a man and more to do with how you approach things.

Sure, as a man, you sometimes have to deal with the weight of a thousand previous interactions which make many women understandably cautious. This is a real issue and worthy of discussion, but dealing with it by loudly claiming male victimhood and being offensive to women can't really help.

Oh, and the fat-shaming, name-calling and negative comments women's appearance and sex-lives which you make at the drop of a hat, hardly endears you to people either.



respectmen -> RE: Dommes (3/15/2017 2:32:44 AM)

LadyPact

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This is where you are messing up. You're completely skipping the fact that the receiver of the message is allowed to have personal boundaries and choices about their own standards for interacting with others. If anybody has their own personal rule about not wanting to interact with someone who brings up kink or sex in their introductory message, believe it or not, they get to do that.


Well I'm sorry to say but it's making them missing out in opportunities that they would be surprised to find out due to their closed mindedness and prejudice. Men are entitled to have their set standards on how they deal with things too. No one, men or women, should get to make the rules on when you can or cannot start a discussion about kink on a BDSM site.

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OK. Be honest. How many times does what you do for a living come up in the FIRST message you receive? Even though what a person does for a living, what kind of hobbies they have, and so on are very common, social (not intimate) questions, how quickly does this really happen when you are dealing with someone you haven't even met in person yet?


Half of the time women don't ask at all and I'm the one who approaches the conversation. Other times when women approach it, sometimes it has shown up in the very first message. Most of the time though when women are the ones that bring it up, it's usually pretty early in the conversation, the 2nd,3rd, or 4th email.

As you are making the argument that you can't say this or that to someone you've never met yet. I think it's perfectly validated for a male to do so to a woman about BDSM on a fucking BDSM website. If it was a non BDSM site, you would have a point. Before you jump to assumptions, I don't mean hey baby wanna fuck, or can you be my mistress. I mean just respectful conversation with no pressure and no asking to do anything in real life but just ask questions about where she stands with it all to get a full understanding.

If you don't want men to approach the conversation about BDSM, I suggest you get off the bloody site and visit POF. That way, you will be the one who approaches the conversation about BDSM. Problem solved.


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You get how ridiculous this statement is to women who sleep with men, right?


Not at all when women are always fucking paranoid about the men they may be or have been sleeping with are users, creeps, rapists, anything along the lines of a terrible monster. However they still end up sleeping with men some time down the track. It doesn't make them clear from their prejudices.

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That's the profile factor. If people want others to know what they are into, they'll have it in there, somewhere


They can but there's things to ask beyond that. For a short brief example. Someone mentions they are into bondage. Yeah? what type? in what setting? Do you like prolonged scenes or only a couple hours. Do you like to gag your victims too? I'm into chastity. Yeah...so how are you going to play this? What devices do you have in mind?

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If they don't, they are probably the people who don't want to be contacted based on their kinks


Which I think it's silly as the ones who are really into her styles and could really click with the said woman may decide to miss out in giving her a go as they can't see a possible connection to begin with as that is totally hidden and unseen.

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This means random 'what are you into' message guy should know he's going to fail.


Kinda like people thinking it's odd for someone to message another in a website about holden commodores and get offended when they talk about holden commodores straight up.


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Great argument for 'what's the point of getting to know someone". Most people are more than just about their kinks.


I know that. What you are missing is that there are two people in a BDSM site seeking someone who is into BDSM also. Therefore, BDSM alone is a crucial point in that person you seek to weather they are going click with you or not. If you don't think it's a crucial point, why are they on a fucking BDSM website ONLY seeking someone who is kinky and not vanilla?

So you are making absolutely no sense. Just nonsense.

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For all your ranting about how (paraphrased) men aren't supposed to leap at the chance for any sexual interaction with a woman, women just plain aren't interested in interacting with every man who happens to cross their inbox.


Where did I ever imply that women have to be interested in interacting with every man who emails them? Where is this coming from?

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Any person gets to base that on whatever they want. That's not discrimination. That's the individual getting to choose who they will be intimate with.


This isn't about choosing who you're going to meet up and get intimate with. This is simply about a harmless email that has questions about kink in a respectful manner with no pressure and no expectations. It is discrimination when you assume a male is a user, creep, rapey or whatever simply because he asked you questions about BDSM on a fucking BDSM website and at a time that you don't want it because you think you can make up the rules of when a man can or cannot discuss BDSM on a BDSM website.

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I'm the first to tell you that's really not a requirement. Most women honestly don't need websites to find partners.


I'm not talking about the women who aren't seeking on websites. This has been about the women seeking men in these websites and then blaming men for not being lucky. But really it's their own fucking fault when they never make the effort to initiate contact. That's only one of the reasons...

It's very very very fucking pathetic for women to blame men for their failings on a website when they aren't even willing to make the effort to approach men. Jesus people are bloody stupid to buy this.

longwayhome

I've done enough typing tonight, I'm getting tired. Most of what you said has been covered with others.

I will just quote a couple of things here that caught my attention the most.

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I would suggest that your issues are less to do with some disadvantage you have just by being a man and more to do with how you approach things.


Approach things? Yet not one word to women about how they are approaching things? Not willing to make first contact, thinking 99 percent of men are evil as for what's been talked about here? Is this what you call a good approach to dealing with men on this website?

It never ceases to amaze me how people like you and so many others in here come running in the defense of women when a male may be acting bitter towards women while you are no where to be seen, you don't say one fucking word, when women show bitterness against men.

As mentioned in here. 99 percent of men or 90 percent of men, something like that, are just users looking for a fetish delivery system. In other words, 99 percent of men are fucking evil! What about your dad? your brother? your male friends? It is just a coincidence that them people happen to be within that 1 percent of the male population who isn't evil?

Yet if men say plenty of women or most women or 99 percent of women are (add anything negative here) you and others in here swarm like flies on shit and start an attack on the said man who does so.

Look at the original post in this very thread for example. Look how people reacted to that. Yet besides me, who else is reacting over women saying that 99 percent of men are terrible evil people?

You really got to laugh at the utterly pathetic hypocrisy.

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but dealing with it by loudly claiming male victimhood and being offensive to women can't really help.


But it's okay for women to claim victimhood as for claiming 99 percent of men are evil and be offensive to men as for assuming I have male undesirabilities such as I can't get laid or I live in my mum's basement.

Why the double standard, LWH?

Anyway, that's enough from me tonight.



LadyPact -> RE: Dommes (3/16/2017 8:15:10 AM)

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Well I'm sorry to say but it's making them missing out in opportunities that they would be surprised to find out due to their closed mindedness and prejudice. Men are entitled to have their set standards on how they deal with things too. No one, men or women, should get to make the rules on when you can or cannot start a discussion about kink on a BDSM site.

We'll just plain have to agree to disagree. I'd love to know what you think the opportunity is that is being missed when somebody who is thousands of miles away (as the case of the OP) wants to write to me about his kink. He's not a friend. Not a play partner. He's random dude who just happens to be on the same site as I am. There's no entitlement of my time for me to read his email or write a reply.

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Half of the time women don't ask at all and I'm the one who approaches the conversation. Other times when women approach it, sometimes it has shown up in the very first message. Most of the time though when women are the ones that bring it up, it's usually pretty early in the conversation, the 2nd,3rd, or 4th email.

I still consider that small talk, rather than asking you intimate questions about your sex life. It's a normal, social question that you'd get asked just about anywhere.

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As you are making the argument that you can't say this or that to someone you've never met yet. I think it's perfectly validated for a male to do so to a woman about BDSM on a fucking BDSM website. If it was a non BDSM site, you would have a point. Before you jump to assumptions, I don't mean hey baby wanna fuck, or can you be my mistress. I mean just respectful conversation with no pressure and no asking to do anything in real life but just ask questions about where she stands with it all to get a full understanding.

Why would anybody who isn't remotely considered to be in somebody's dating pool need to know where the other person stands? If you were to already know by someone's forum posts that you're not interested in interacting with them for whatever reason, what benefit does it give to you to answer their email?

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If you don't want men to approach the conversation about BDSM, I suggest you get off the bloody site and visit POF. That way, you will be the one who approaches the conversation about BDSM. Problem solved.

I've got a better idea. How about I stay on the BDSM site, only engage in private correspondence with those that I choose to do so, and delete the rest? Holy crap! Guess what? That works, too!

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Not at all when women are always fucking paranoid about the men they may be or have been sleeping with are users, creeps, rapists, anything along the lines of a terrible monster. However they still end up sleeping with men some time down the track. It doesn't make them clear from their prejudices.

After the stalker experience, I can guarantee you that there are certain qualities in some people that I absolutely avoid in potential partners. Same thing holds true about pattern behaviors for just about anybody who had a bad experience with someone. If they got involved with somebody who was a liar, cheater, used them for money, or felt they used them for sex, whatever, they are going to avoid a similar situation in the future. Seems logical, doesn't it?

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They can but there's things to ask beyond that. For a short brief example. Someone mentions they are into bondage. Yeah? what type? in what setting? Do you like prolonged scenes or only a couple hours. Do you like to gag your victims too? I'm into chastity. Yeah...so how are you going to play this? What devices do you have in mind?

Again, you're assuming that that person A has any potential interaction with person B with the above activities. Just like the thread that was referenced earlier. This is exactly why the 99% of first contact/'cold' emails fail. Location is a huge primary factor in this thing. Age is another factor. How many people twenty years your senior who live 4000 miles away are you interested in discussing kink with?

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Which I think it's silly as the ones who are really into her styles and could really click with the said woman may decide to miss out in giving her a go as they can't see a possible connection to begin with as that is totally hidden and unseen.

How many women of your acquaintance from great distances do you feel that you click with? Somebody who isn't a friend or that you don't have some type of established rapport? Honestly, somebody you were cold messaging that you hadn't even so much as had a friendly exchange on the forums with? Particularly people who state in their profile that your situation wouldn't be a match for them at all. Does that really make sense to you?

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Kinda like people thinking it's odd for someone to message another in a website about holden commodores and get offended when they talk about holden commodores straight up.

Ha! I had to look that up. Guess I just don't consider cars intimate, either.

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I know that. What you are missing is that there are two people in a BDSM site seeking someone who is into BDSM also. Therefore, BDSM alone is a crucial point in that person you seek to weather they are going click with you or not. If you don't think it's a crucial point, why are they on a fucking BDSM website ONLY seeking someone who is kinky and not vanilla?

There are a lot of people on the site who aren't seeking at all. You even said you were one of them. So, if you got contacted by someone way out of your age range, in a location that isn't anywhere near you, do you see the point in answering their email?

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So you are making absolutely no sense. Just nonsense.

No, you just refuse to admit that there are plenty of reasons not to want to interact with everybody who crosses a woman's email.

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Where did I ever imply that women have to be interested in interacting with every man who emails them? Where is this coming from?

We're supposed to be discussing the original topic, posted by a very specific OP. A person who even says he has a hundred mile preference range in his profile. Yet, he writes to people over 4000 away (cause he has written me) and wonders why he's not getting the response that he thinks he should get.

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This isn't about choosing who you're going to meet up and get intimate with. This is simply about a harmless email that has questions about kink in a respectful manner with no pressure and no expectations. It is discrimination when you assume a male is a user, creep, rapey or whatever simply because he asked you questions about BDSM on a fucking BDSM website and at a time that you don't want it because you think you can make up the rules of when a man can or cannot discuss BDSM on a BDSM website.

Like it or not, I get to make the rules about who interacts with me.

For what it's worth, you should probably let go of the 'respectful manner' stuff. You have no idea what was in the email the OP sent me anymore than I do. You're assuming he sent respectful questions. I'm going with it was someone that I had no interest in interacting with based on his forum posts. I mean, if you want to waste your time answering everybody who emails me, I'm sure we can figure something out.

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I'm not talking about the women who aren't seeking on websites. This has been about the women seeking men in these websites and then blaming men for not being lucky. But really it's their own fucking fault when they never make the effort to initiate contact. That's only one of the reasons...

It's very very very fucking pathetic for women to blame men for their failings on a website when they aren't even willing to make the effort to approach men. Jesus people are bloody stupid to buy this.

How did you get that from the OP?





LisaSadistic -> RE: Dommes (3/16/2017 2:34:26 PM)

The guys from thousands of miles away really get me, sending me wanky messages because they want me to help them masturbate, like I'm some kind of free interactive porn. Since I signed up last summer I've received hundreds of such messages. I don't understand what the hell is wrong with people. Daring to be a kinky woman is like putting a target on your head with how men treat you, and it's really disgusting.



tamaka -> RE: Dommes (3/16/2017 3:18:22 PM)

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The guys from thousands of miles away really get me, sending me wanky messages because they want me to help them masturbate, like I'm some kind of free interactive porn. Since I signed up last summer I've received hundreds of such messages. I don't understand what the hell is wrong with people. Daring to be a kinky woman is like putting a target on your head with how men treat you, and it's really disgusting.


Maybe you should change your profile to a switch or even a sub. I often get really nice messages from sub and switch males. Always respectful and kind.



UninhibitedDom -> RE: Dommes (3/16/2017 4:03:57 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LisaSadistic

The guys from thousands of miles away really get me, sending me wanky messages because they want me to help them masturbate, like I'm some kind of free interactive porn. Since I signed up last summer I've received hundreds of such messages. I don't understand what the hell is wrong with people. Daring to be a kinky woman is like putting a target on your head with how men treat you, and it's really disgusting.


Maybe you should change your profile to a switch or even a sub. I often get really nice messages from sub and switch males. Always respectful and kind.


I don't do high protocol or any of that stuff but that kinda grated on even me. If you are pissed off about something there are ways and means, that was not appriopate IMO.



PeonForHer -> RE: Dommes (3/16/2017 4:46:16 PM)

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I don't do high protocol or any of that stuff but that kinda grated on even me. If you are pissed off about something there are ways and means, that was not appriopate IMO.


Ignore Tamaka, UD. She/he's a troll.

ETA: Welcome to the forums. :)



UninhibitedDom -> RE: Dommes (3/16/2017 5:01:39 PM)


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I don't do high protocol or any of that stuff but that kinda grated on even me. If you are pissed off about something there are ways and means, that was not appriopate IMO.


Ignore Tamaka, UD. She/he's a troll.

ETA: Welcome to the forums. :)


Thanks for the heads up and the welcome mate. Seem to be a few loose cannons on here in the time i've been recceing. Might be a little counterbattery incoming. Cheers, Ace



respectmen -> RE: Dommes (3/16/2017 5:21:45 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LisaSadistic

The guys from thousands of miles away really get me, sending me wanky messages because they want me to help them masturbate, like I'm some kind of free interactive porn. Since I signed up last summer I've received hundreds of such messages. I don't understand what the hell is wrong with people. Daring to be a kinky woman is like putting a target on your head with how men treat you, and it's really disgusting.


Maybe you should change your profile to a switch or even a sub. I often get really nice messages from sub and switch males. Always respectful and kind.



Tamaka, thanks for telling the truth. Unlike some other women here who keep lying and claiming 99 percent of men are evil.

The lie is used for a number of reasons depending on the conversation. Its usually used for women to escape blame for why they aren't getting luck.

Not many don't stop to think that the fault is most probably on these women. If men don't want a relationship with them, could it be because these women aren't relationship material? It may be that these women need to change to make themselves more desirable for a relationship.

That's not the only reason though. Their prejudice and being unwilling to make the approach.

It's pretty evident that there is a lot of fault on them.

LadyPact, I will reply when I get on my laptop later in the afternoon.



tamaka -> RE: Dommes (3/16/2017 5:29:37 PM)


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ORIGINAL: respectmen


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ORIGINAL: tamaka

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ORIGINAL: LisaSadistic

The guys from thousands of miles away really get me, sending me wanky messages because they want me to help them masturbate, like I'm some kind of free interactive porn. Since I signed up last summer I've received hundreds of such messages. I don't understand what the hell is wrong with people. Daring to be a kinky woman is like putting a target on your head with how men treat you, and it's really disgusting.


Maybe you should change your profile to a switch or even a sub. I often get really nice messages from sub and switch males. Always respectful and kind.



Tamaka, thanks for telling the truth. Unlike some other women here who keep lying and claiming 99 percent of men are evil.

The lie is used for a number of reasons depending on the conversation. Its usually used for women to escape blame for why they aren't getting luck.

Not many don't stop to think that the fault is most probably on these women. If men don't want a relationship with them, could it be because these women aren't relationship material? It may be that these women need to change to make themselves more desirable for a relationship.

That's not the only reason though. Their prejudice and being unwilling to make the approach.

It's pretty evident that there is a lot of fault on them.

LadyPact, I will reply when I get on my laptop later in the afternoon.



You're welcome. It's the truth. I don't really understand why i got snapped at like that .... i was just sharing me experience here and trying to make a helpful suggestion.



UninhibitedDom -> RE: Dommes (3/16/2017 5:37:53 PM)


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ORIGINAL: tamaka


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ORIGINAL: respectmen


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ORIGINAL: tamaka

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ORIGINAL: LisaSadistic

The guys from thousands of miles away really get me, sending me wanky messages because they want me to help them masturbate, like I'm some kind of free interactive porn. Since I signed up last summer I've received hundreds of such messages. I don't understand what the hell is wrong with people. Daring to be a kinky woman is like putting a target on your head with how men treat you, and it's really disgusting.


Maybe you should change your profile to a switch or even a sub. I often get really nice messages from sub and switch males. Always respectful and kind.



Tamaka, thanks for telling the truth. Unlike some other women here who keep lying and claiming 99 percent of men are evil.

The lie is used for a number of reasons depending on the conversation. Its usually used for women to escape blame for why they aren't getting luck.

Not many don't stop to think that the fault is most probably on these women. If men don't want a relationship with them, could it be because these women aren't relationship material? It may be that these women need to change to make themselves more desirable for a relationship.

That's not the only reason though. Their prejudice and being unwilling to make the approach.

It's pretty evident that there is a lot of fault on them.

LadyPact, I will reply when I get on my laptop later in the afternoon.



You're welcome. It's the truth. I don't really understand why i got snapped at like that .... i was just sharing me experience here and trying to make a helpful suggestion.


Why does your profile say dom?



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