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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/20/2017 8:07:16 PM

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because you are a buyer, not a seller.

When it comes to a male seeking casual, or as you say it, seeking a fetish delivery system, no one is buying or selling. Unless you think the woman is more worthy than the man which is a common mindset.

The girl is sitting on a gold mine dude. Better get used to it.

In today's society standards, we are suposed to accept female privilege and hypocrisy while on the other hand condemn male privilege and hypocrisy

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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/20/2017 8:07:24 PM

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because you are a buyer, not a seller.

When it comes to a male seeking casual, or as you say it, seeking a fetish delivery system, no one is buying or selling. Unless you think the woman is more worthy than the man which is a common mindset.

this is your best bet....

In other words, hypocrisy is only acceptable when its in favour of women.

What also makes this ironic is that it's implied by a feminist.

The signal to noise ratio we are getting from you is a bit like this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PpccpglnNf0

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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/20/2017 8:10:23 PM

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because you are a buyer, not a seller.

When it comes to a male seeking casual, or as you say it, seeking a fetish delivery system, no one is buying or selling. Unless you think the woman is more worthy than the man which is a common mindset.

this is your best bet....

In other words, hypocrisy is only acceptable when its in favour of women.

What also makes this ironic is that it's implied by a feminist.

The signal to noise ratio we are getting from you is a bit like this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PpccpglnNf0

Yet you accept women endlessly whining about men only wanting to use them as a fetish delivery system.

We have another female favouring hypocrite here.

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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/20/2017 8:31:21 PM

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LOL No, I didnt apply it to all men nick, I applied it to YOU, simply you. And that is because you are the one repeating the same lame dipshittery bullshit over and over, trolling, baiting.

thats why I said it was YOUR best bet...no one elses.

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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/21/2017 12:19:27 AM

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When it comes to a male seeking casual, or as you say it, seeking a fetish delivery system, no one is buying or selling. Unless you think the woman is more worthy than the man which is a common mindset.

Women offering sexual services are more valuable in terms of "money making", than men who offers sexual services in general. You can thank your fellow men who are willing to pay top dollars for such services to be the culprit of this inequality.

Then again, you should come to ladies club in my country. Men parade themselves topless and drink with women. It cost $10k just to get one of these men to sit beside you and drink with you. He does not even have to have sex with her. Just have a drink with her and earn $10k.

There is a market for such men too.

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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/21/2017 12:22:39 AM

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Can women really view having an orgasm as a job? That having orgasm as work?
Can women really view doing what they want to do as a job? As work?

Orgasms from oral are one of the most insipid orgasms ever. Because I have a choice, that is the last thing I'd ever want a man to do to me in a regular sexual interaction where we just want each other for pleasure. I don't want oral from him because oral gives the lousiest orgasms.

But since you are paying her to give her oral. She has to take your oral. She might not be enjoying it. She might even be faking her orgasms for you.

I mean, she is a paid domme.

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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/21/2017 3:28:31 AM

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The OP is a client.

With what I do for a living now, I interact a lot with the public. They aren't friends. I'm not grabbing a beer with them in social settings. If I quit my job today, I would never see most of them again.

It's the same thing.

Yep I know that. I just don't see how that is any better than the men who only want a fetish delivery system.

The reality is, compared to men seeking a fetish delivery system, it's treating someone way less humane when you take advantage of their desperation and only will have anything to do with them if they're throwing you 100 dollar bills.

Yet one is acceptable, pro dommes. The other is not. The one that's treating a person way less human gets accepted more over the other.

What you always fail at, on a massive level, to remember, is that there are men out there that sell sex to women too. They sell their cocks in exactly the same ways as women well their pussy.

Grow the hell up! Women do not owe men anything at all just because we have what they want. If he's willing to pay for it, and she's selling it, then that's all there is to it. It's just as much a trade of business as any other business deal. She does not owe him any emotional investment to go with that. She does not owe him a discount. She does not owe him a freebie, an offer if he pays for so many sessions. She owes him fuck all than what he's paying her for, just like in any other business deal.

You know, just like if a women goes to a guy selling his cock, or a spanking session, or a rope session, or fitting out a kitchen, fixing a boiler ... you getting how this works yet?

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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/21/2017 8:38:33 AM

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Pretty much. I don't want money or an instant lifetime commitment, but I do want human status. To men who don't believe that women deserve human status, because they think we're just here to service them for free, like a hooker or pro domme except free, they think that wanting a human connection is "being an entitled princess".

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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/21/2017 8:55:50 AM

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Pretty much. I don't want money or an instant lifetime commitment, but I do want human status. To men who don't believe that women deserve human status, because they think we're just here to service them for free, like a hooker or pro domme except free, they think that wanting a human connection is "being an entitled princess".

I honestly see a lot more sub men objectifying Fem Doms, than the other way round Lisa. So it's no wonder Pros are so willing to treat their clients with the contempt they deserve for being such users. Service is about respect and caring-not fucking and licking.

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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/21/2017 8:56:29 AM

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Do you still love Starbucks or?

Hah! You said it first. I see his old screen name is not bringing him the attention that he wants. Time for a new one!

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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/21/2017 8:56:44 AM

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Speaking of being treated like a free pro, yesterday I got this:

"Hey u, uf you do real time, call me 619-edited"

That was literally his first message to me. WTF? I don't even know that guy's name, or what he looks like, or what he likes to do for fun outside of kink, or anything else about him, and he's hollering "hey u" and telling me to call him if I "do real time". What does that even mean? Yeah, I do real time. As in I like to meet real people in real life and make real connections. Is that real enough for you? Idiot.

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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/21/2017 8:59:49 AM

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Speaking of being treated like a free pro, yesterday I got this:

"Hey u, uf you do real time, call me 619-edited"

That was literally his first message to me. WTF? I don't even know that guy's name, or what he looks like, or what he likes to do for fun outside of kink, or anything else about him, and he's hollering "hey u" and telling me to call him if I "do real time". What does that even mean? Yeah, I do real time. As in I like to meet real people in real life and make real connections. Is that real enough for you? Idiot.

Tell him to call you instead-give him the number for a local insane asylum.

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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/21/2017 9:01:07 AM

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Ha! I like how you think. ;)

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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/21/2017 9:05:38 AM

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"Service is about respect and caring-not fucking and licking."

Yes. Exactly.

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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/21/2017 9:05:55 AM

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Ha! I like how you think. ;)

I'm a devious mofo, the gears never stop turning.

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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/21/2017 9:13:32 AM

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I had a funny irc experience with a male sub who decided to pm me in a chat room once. he wanted to scene with me by text. Then "he sees a ball gag,he sees some hand cuffs etc............the whole iteration of his little fantasy.

He finally gets done, and waits for a response, which was "Looks like you are doing fine all by yourself, bye"

*then I blocked him.*

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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/21/2017 9:17:06 AM

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Hahahahahaha!

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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/21/2017 11:20:40 AM

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Yep I know that. I just don't see how that is any better than the men who only want a fetish delivery system.

The reality is, compared to men seeking a fetish delivery system, it's treating someone way less humane when you take advantage of their desperation and only will have anything to do with them if they're throwing you 100 dollar bills.

Yet one is acceptable, pro dommes. The other is not. The one that's treating a person way less human gets accepted more over the other.

You're actually comparing two different things.

The client wants the service. The professional is willing to offer the service for a fee. Both parties find it acceptable.

To use your term, man seeking fetish delivery service wants the service. The other person in question is not willing to provide it. At least one of the parties finds it unacceptable.

Any person, regardless of whether they are a top or a bottom, can choose not to play with any other person, for any reason, or even no reason at all. It's supposed to be how this consensual kink thing works.

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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/21/2017 11:27:08 AM

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Yep I know that. I just don't see how that is any better than the men who only want a fetish delivery system.

The reality is, compared to men seeking a fetish delivery system, it's treating someone way less humane when you take advantage of their desperation and only will have anything to do with them if they're throwing you 100 dollar bills.

Yet one is acceptable, pro dommes. The other is not. The one that's treating a person way less human gets accepted more over the other.

You're actually comparing two different things.

The client wants the service. The professional is willing to offer the service for a fee. Both parties find it acceptable.

To use your term, man seeking fetish delivery service wants the service. The other person in question is not willing to provide it. At least one of the parties finds it unacceptable.

Any person, regardless of whether they are a top or a bottom, can choose not to play with any other person, for any reason, or even no reason at all. It's supposed to be how this consensual kink thing works.

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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/21/2017 12:31:20 PM

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I know, right? Why can't women just be free hookers? We're such entitled princesses, geez! Where do we get off, thinking that we're people?!?!

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