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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 6/22/2017 1:25:34 AM

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ORIGINAL: PantyhosedDomina

I agree TheMistressLucy. The "I want this I want that" people should go pay for it since they have no care for the other person. In that manner, the interaction is fair and equatable to both if the rate is fair and the service meets requirements etc i.e they get what they are paying for and the provision is happily transacted. If they want that extra TLC / warmth / spontaneity then thy have to pay more though - much more. :)

Too true.

Absolutely nothing wrong with an honest service that is paid for and fulfilled with respect on both sides.

Going out and meeting people, building trust and mutual respect, giving your emotional energy and care, making compromises for someone else's happiness however requires far more work.

So many people around who just think that if they put themselves online they are entitled to have their needs met.

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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 6/23/2017 7:27:55 PM

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~ fast reply because I only read the first page and a half ~

I've made $25 donations to several charities sponsored by prodommes in the US who I've never patronised, because it's a practice I want to encourage. Maybe saying that "out loud" puts a target on my back, but I don't log in here enough for spam to matter. I'm always glad to see people doing something concrete with their kink.

Also, at least in the US, I don't think there are enough prodommes, except possibly in SF, LA, Seattle and NYC. In fact, the Backpage court case choked off one of their main ways of making a living, so I'm pretty sure there are fewer in this country than there were a year ago.

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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 6/23/2017 8:53:30 PM

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~ fast reply because I only read the first page and a half ~

I've made $25 donations to several charities sponsored by prodommes in the US who I've never patronised, because it's a practice I want to encourage. Maybe saying that "out loud" puts a target on my back, but I don't log in here enough for spam to matter. I'm always glad to see people doing something concrete with their kink.

Also, at least in the US, I don't think there are enough prodommes, except possibly in SF, LA, Seattle and NYC. In fact, the Backpage court case choked off one of their main ways of making a living, so I'm pretty sure there are fewer in this country than there were a year ago.

Well there are plenty of them on here.
This place is full of Online, Professional and Financial Dominants.

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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 6/24/2017 9:42:37 AM

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LOL, I know I get at least 2 to 3 emails per week telling me I should submit to one of those many Dommes!

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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 6/24/2017 8:44:55 PM

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LOL, I know I get at least 2 to 3 emails per week telling me I should submit to one of those many Dommes!

I don't get any. I guess they think I am broke. Good !!

Oh just in case nobody brought it up, there is a difference between pro domme and findom, most of the latter troll online only.

Yes, I skipped a few pages.

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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 6/25/2017 5:29:27 AM

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www.justgiving.com/fundraising/L-u-c-y Let me know if you find anything interesting, not sure what you are hoping to find.

Cancer Research UK is the world's leading charity dedicated to beating cancer through research. We are fighting cancer on all fronts, finding new ways to prevent, diagnose and treat it to save more lives. We are entirely funded by the public. With your help, we can ensure more people beat cancer.

I am looking for a link to the actual charity website, not the one you put out there.

Magic thing called Google, you put in Cancer Research UK...

https://www.cancerresearchuk.org

Btw Just Giving only releases the money to charitable causes not to individuals

I was asking for the link to the charity she is giving all that money to and I doubt google will be able to help with that. I also asked her in cmail for the link and although she keeps writing back asking why I want it, she has yet to provide it. At this point all I can do is assume there is no site and the money she collects never goes anywhere but into her own pockets.

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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 6/25/2017 6:02:51 AM

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It is on the link I gave in the first place. My charity page is run by justgiving.com, the largest online charity site in the world.
They give the money direct to Cancer Research UK, the biggest cancer research charity in the world.
It's not hard to google either of them!
My charity page: https://www.justgiving.com/fundraising/l-u-c-y
Which has a link to:
https://www.cancerresearchuk.org

Thanks for the scepticism!

Every day I get messages from males on this site saying they will do ANYTHING for me, so I put it to the test and tell them to donate £1 or $1 to cancer research. Hardly any of them ever do. Most of the donations have come from members of twitter or fetlife where I have been posting photos every day for 4 years.

The total is now £1855 ($2373)
£1,677.98 + £178.50 Gift Aid.
Not bad for some little photos taken on an iphone.

Has anyone else used their time here for anything positive apart from getting their rocks off?

And I don't believe any of the conspiracy theory bullshit about cancer remedies being discovered and hidden, the conspiracy would have to be huge and all the researchers involved would have to paid off.

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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 7/2/2017 2:07:13 PM

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Hello, It's Mistress Jennifer. I have been a Professional Dominatrix for over 7 yrs. I live in Houston, Tx, but travel to Dallas, Austin, Corpus, El Paso, Los Angeles, Denver, Co, Atlanta, Ga and planning other cities.

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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 7/7/2017 7:29:28 AM

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ORIGINAL: TheMistressLucy

I get a lot of messages every day from "sub" males saying, "I want this" & "I want you to do that", either demanding or begging, none speaking to me like human being.

Just bite the bullet and find a professional domme who will give you exactly what YOU want and when you want it.

The same with all those males looking for webcam sex, just pay a webcam girl and be done with it.

I don't know why some people have a negative view of pro dommes, to me it looks like a damn hard job and they earn every penny.

No. the Market for such amateur dramatic actresses is saturated and they do not give value for money and charge far too much. A months take home pay for one hour of fantasy Psycho Drama.

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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 7/7/2017 7:31:53 AM

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ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire

Most of the are scroungers, or con people, or parasites, or scam rings, or in need of their shots to keep the pox at bay for a bit. A meagre handful of them are okay

But have the fuking decorum to verify whatever you are for collar-space,

How do I know that money goes to charity and not for your head medication or crack habit?

Oh yes! we would all love to see more "pro dommes on here"

Hear, hear old boy! Well said good fellow! Whatismore, they do not like being exposed for whoandwghat they are the frauds.

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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 7/10/2017 1:23:50 AM

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This reply is directed towards everyone.

It seems that Lucy and many others think men aren't entitled to get their sexual desires fulfilled for free unless they agree to a life long commitment with women. While on the other hand, this doesn't apply to women. It all gets given a pass when women want no strings sexual fun. Female privilege galore! Speaking of being self entitled, wanting a life long relationship is a FAR bigger sense of entitlement than just wanting sexual fun. So why is that bigger sense of entitlement accepted while the smaller sense of entitlement constantly gets ridiculed?

If women shouldn't have to pay, why should men? If men happened to say that women have to pay for something and men don't, the outrage would be massive. It would be sexism and oppression against women. The female victim card would be out in full force.

This is pretty much policing male sexuality. If men tried to tell women what to do with their sexuality, we would be chauvinists, troglodytes, that want to control women and drag women back to the stone ages.

Whoever has the same mentality as the OP is a fucking deranged hypocrite that doesn't seem to want male sexuality to be free and liberated. These same fucking hypocrites would be all for having female sexuality to be free and liberated of course. No slut shaming etc. Yet it's okay to shame men for wanting sexual fun for free.

If you think women shouldn't have to pay but men do, you're a sexist men hating hypocrite!

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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 7/10/2017 2:14:28 AM

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They are entitled to it for free, if they can find someone who is interested in them, but the problem is many can't, and that is not the fault of women.

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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 7/10/2017 2:22:21 AM

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Women find that most men don't want a long term relationship with them. That's not the fault of men.

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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 7/10/2017 5:25:11 AM

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I agree... everyone who calls pro dommes scammed just can't afford them. If you want quality you pay for it

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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 7/10/2017 5:26:18 AM

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Wow these forums are nothing but butter fail dommes and bitter broke subs.. now I remember why it's been 3 years since I read anything in them

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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 7/10/2017 9:18:36 AM

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If women aren't willing to cough up money to men, they're cheapskates, broke, self entitled!

Gotta larf.

Jesus you see some amusing chauvinist twats in here.

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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 7/11/2017 7:12:48 AM

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Why don't you become a male gigolo, or male equivalent of a pro domme. Then you would get your sexual kicks and be paid to get them.

Why don't you?

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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 7/11/2017 7:33:46 AM

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Because presumably nobody he finds attractive would hire him.

What he misses is the fact that men don't have to pay either. They just need to give women something that they want. That might of course involve him in self-reflection or personal growth.

Imagine that.

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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 7/11/2017 1:31:51 PM

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If I were a male and wanted quality, I sure as hell would not pay for an immature little twat like you to session with. I'd ensure the money was well spent on a mature WOMAN with experience and without an, "I am the greatest" attitude. You've just proved you're not worth anyone's time or money because it's all about you and to hell with what the client wants.

Don't bother responding because it will simply be another poorly written, grammatically incorrect and badly spelled comment such as the one you left me on Collarspace calling me names because you, for some unknown reason, have your nose out of joint. Oh, and I doubt you made $700 by 8:23 am. Nice try though.

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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 7/11/2017 2:37:46 PM

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I think she's the perfect match for respectmen.

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