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sadisticsienna -> Why do people from soooo far away keep messaging me? (9/30/2017 6:27:59 AM)

So I'm looking for someone in my area, as I thought you pretty much were meant to do unless you specifically looking for online,
and I keep getting messaged by people literally
in other countries.

Most people that message me are actually from other countries.

I don't get it?

Why are they messaging me?

How can I possibly be their domme if they are literally in another country? ?




peppermint -> RE: Why do people from soooo far away keep messaging me? (9/30/2017 7:47:34 AM)

Many don't bother to read your profile. They see you are female so they will write to you.




Spiritedsub2 -> RE: Why do people from soooo far away keep messaging me? (9/30/2017 9:18:16 AM)

You’ll get messages from everywhere if they think there’s a chance you’re female. That’s the bar here.




MsLadySue -> RE: Why do people from soooo far away keep messaging me? (9/30/2017 9:45:56 AM)

Set your mail controls so messages from other countries don't go to your inbox. It helps some.




DocStrange -> RE: Why do people from soooo far away keep messaging me? (9/30/2017 10:30:41 AM)

The mail controls are located in the mail area. Click on read mail, once there look in the upper right for the menu item "Mail Controls". For there it is self explanatory. Like MsLadySue said, it will help some.




WhoreMods -> RE: Why do people from soooo far away keep messaging me? (9/30/2017 11:27:18 AM)

Because you answer them, and word's got out.




ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Why do people from soooo far away keep messaging me? (9/30/2017 3:12:28 PM)

Because HARD ON!




Onerat1 -> RE: Why do people from soooo far away keep messaging me? (9/30/2017 3:34:51 PM)

Some do read profiles but ignore what is there. I like to say they think they are special. A few thought being well hung would get me to want them. Or because they love older women. Some don't use the can / can't relocate feature when searching for a woman. Others think a woman my age is desperate or shouldn't be pickey.




NoirMetal -> RE: Why do people from soooo far away keep messaging me? (9/30/2017 7:16:29 PM)

They are desperate for attention. And lazy.




sadisticsienna -> RE: Why do people from soooo far away keep messaging me? (10/1/2017 5:21:34 AM)

I just mean like what can they possibly hope to come from talking to someone literally across the other side of the world?

yeah I guess they really DO just message me cos I'm female.
Hmm weird.

Perhaps they are looking for 'online fun'
dunno




Greta75 -> RE: Why do people from soooo far away keep messaging me? (10/1/2017 5:24:45 AM)


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ORIGINAL: sadisticsienna
How can I possibly be their domme if they are literally in another country? ?


Just tell them to relocate to you IF they want you as their domme.

Some people actually do relocate for the right person for them.




Bittenkiss -> RE: Why do people from soooo far away keep messaging me? (10/1/2017 8:30:48 AM)

If it helps, I get several messages from people in different countries too - and I don't even have a picture of boobies on my profile or am female! I think there are too many scammers and fakes on this site, all spamming messages to everyone to try and get some money and/or wank fantasies.

That said there is the possibility that they have read your profile (I know, but I guess 0.001% do :) ) and want to talk to you about some of it without a physical relationship of any sort starting. Sometimes we get so used to the fakes that we mistake genuine people for them.




sadisticsienna -> RE: Why do people from soooo far away keep messaging me? (10/1/2017 10:24:33 PM)

Thank you :)

Its just redicilous because 90% that message me aren't even in my country




MAINEiacMISTRESS -> RE: Why do people from soooo far away keep messaging me? (10/2/2017 8:52:56 AM)

I love the ones that write, out of the blue from ludicrously far away, without ever viewing your profile, who promise to serve and obey your every wish, "I'll do ANYTHING You tell me to, Mistress, PLEEEEEEEASE make me Your slave!"

You can either choose not to respond, or have a moment of fun by telling them to meet you tomorrow at 1PM sharp, at the Indian restaurant on Main Street. When they say they can't, well, that's an EPIC FAIL. Either way you can always just block them.

If you set your mail filter to only accept those within your state, everything else will go to your Bulk inbox, and periodically you can delete those, unread, by clicking Select All and Delete.




sadisticsienna -> RE: Why do people from soooo far away keep messaging me? (10/2/2017 11:08:48 AM)

That legit has happened to me heaps.

Tbh I think a lot just want online "fun".




ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Why do people from soooo far away keep messaging me? (10/2/2017 1:52:02 PM)

FR
I just tell them to send me a full body nude showing their face. They always bail at that.




masterhd01 -> RE: Why do people from soooo far away keep messaging me? (10/12/2017 11:25:15 AM)

It is probably the best to set your mail filter right and ignore those who come thrugh because responding to something you are not interested in means wasting time.




Drakvampire -> RE: Why do people from soooo far away keep messaging me? (10/12/2017 7:08:25 PM)

No one has called me yet.




Drakvampire -> RE: Why do people from soooo far away keep messaging me? (10/12/2017 7:14:56 PM)

do call fanny




MAINEiacMISTRESS -> RE: Why do people from soooo far away keep messaging me? (10/12/2017 8:39:52 PM)

Look at this, instead of a photo I have a MAP showing them where Maine is, and they STILL write from too far away.




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