Milesnmiles -> RE: Where Have All the SJWs Gone? (10/16/2017 11:35:11 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Milesnmiles A person can give consent for a severe “spanking”, marks are “okay” and get up go straight to the police and the Dom is going to have a hard time explaining what “consent” means to a judge. So don't leave marks on any woman to protect yourself. If not, you better make sure you really know the woman very well that you are spanking BEFORE you leave marks on her. You must never trust a woman you barely know, whatever she says is okay, doesn't mean it's okay. I give you an example. I was 13 yr old when a boy from school I was hanging out with, asked me to be his girlfriend. The problem was, I had to spend the rest of the day with him. And I felt it would be awkward if I didn't agree to be his GF and I was afraid he would get mean. So I lied and say okay. When we got into lift that day, as he thought we were "bf/gf" already, he tried to kiss me. I had to push him off and told him, it's too soon! I literally had to push his face away from mine quite aggressively. I was shaking and so upset that he tried to kiss me. I totally had no interest in him at all and couldn't wait for my dreadful day to be over. Somehow by the next day, he has brag to the entire school that I was his GF. And I had to break up with him the next day, saying, that I change my mind. I am not interested in a relationship. I did it in public in school, infront of alot of people, because I know he wouldn't make a scene if alot of people are looking. And I would be safe from him. Same reason when he cornered me in private, I couldn't tell him No, as I was afraid of his negative reaction. I didn't know him well enough if he would harm me. I was alone with him. I was scared. And I don't know why, even at 13, I was always realistic that a man could physically harm me if he is angry with me. So I try not to be alone with a man IF I was gonna say something to piss him off, like reject his advances. I wanted an audience if he tried to hurt me so that if I get hurt, I got witnesses. So this is what i mean. If you don't know a woman well enough. Don't do anything too crazy. She might be too scared to tell you the truth. And then you might just be insensitive and blockheaded enough not sense her distress, like this idiot boy of mine and actually transgress against me. (Oh, I just remembered why I was so fearful, I was 13. I was already molested when I was 10 and 12 by two different guys.) That's why I like online dating so much! Because you can vet the guy if he is a violent person BEFORE you have physical contact with him. At least for me, it's always accurate. I can vet men through online and know for sure if he is violent type or not towards women. I have never been hit by a guy before in my life. Because I vet them carefully for violence. Thanks for the story, I appreciate your candor. It has always been fascinating to me how a brief period in our lives can direct who we become. It can be good or bad stories that affect you. I am sorry to hear that a “bad” story affected you so much. Also thanks for your advice on trust, that is what I was saying about consent being difficult; because, depending on the person, consent can be ambiguous if not meaningless but trust never can be.
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