PhDslave -> RE: African-Amercian Dominant Women (9/7/2006 3:04:23 PM)
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Dear Ms Kat Houston, I like conversing with dominant women which is why I'm here. I like having intelligent conversation with them. What I was trying to do was to stimulate some self-reflection. "How does my background influence my perceptions, techniques and attitude regarding BDSM in general and my dominance in particular?" I was trying to stimulate a discussion among the dominant women on this site. You asked about differences in profiles of black dommes? Well, a few come to mind. Most don't mention it. Some put it right in the title: e.g. Black Dominatrix...etc....Mocha....Black BBW....Ebony....Onyx....stuff like that. Also, some implore sub men NOT to focus on their race, but to concentrate on their skills, or personality, etc. A few, however, want us to do JUST THE OPPOSITE and to notice that they're a BLACK AMAZON GODDESS and that there's nothing more imposing and awesome than a BLACK Superior Woman, etc. etc. Many specify WHITE males only. Is any of this 'bad'? Nah, of course not. It's okay. I'ts fine. *smiles* You never see something like "WHITE dominatrix seeking black worms for conquest". LOL All that stuff is perfectly acceptable. It IS a difference based on race, however. Big deal. Someone else asked for examples of realism and some thought that this meant that they were more likely to give information about their weight. I hadn't noticed that, but the commentators may be right. What I was referring to was just the opposite. I call it 'filtering out the white trash.' I perceive (could be wrong) a slightly higher incidence of requirements stated in the profile that males be employed and not drink too much. If this is true, it might be a cultural determinant. This stuff shouldn't be that controversial. Imagine for example that you're a Dominant Woman...not much of a stretch you say....*smiles*....now imagine that you grew up and live in....hmmm.....the Middle East. Would that alter your perspective, methods and behavior to some degree? I'm attracted to Dominant Women . I like reading your observations and thoughts. I like seeing you mentally dig just a little deeper. You struggle with the mental challenges and we struggle with the physical ones: you tackle the conundrums, enigmas, and paradoxes of life and we endure the extra five cane strokes. LOL Seriously, whether I agree or not I like seeing a Dominant Woman really pushing herself intellectually and expressing her ideas. That was my motivation.
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