Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

Dominant in the kitchen


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> Dominant in the kitchen Page: [1] 2   next >   >>
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
Dominant in the kitchen - 9/24/2006 3:08:38 PM   
ScooterTrash


Posts: 1407
Joined: 1/24/2005
From: Indiana
Status: offline 		OK guys...be honest, how many of you exercise your right to call the shots and occasionally pitch the gals out of the kitchen, just because you know damned well you make the best "X" meal. (Stated while his spagetti sauce is simmering...lol). If so, what's that special meal that makes them go....wow?

_____________________________

Formal symbolic representation of qualitative entities is doomed to its rightful place of minor significance in a world where flowers and beautiful women abound.
-Albert Einstein
Profile   Post #: 1
RE: Dominant in the kitchen - 9/24/2006 3:11:40 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


Posts: 19224
Joined: 10/25/2005
Status: offline 		My ex certainly did.  Unfortunately his favorite dishes were one of the millions 'pasta, tomato, cheese' concoctions out there, a dry pot roast cooked in wine with sage, and flank steak marinated in some form of asian sauces- none of which I enjoyed in the slightest.

I've known lots of doms who enjoyed cooking and took over the kitchen.  It's just my own problems of being an insanely picky eater.

_____________________________

Find stable partners, not a stable of partners.

"Sometimes my whore logic gets all fuzzy"- Californication

(in reply to ScooterTrash)
Profile   Post #: 2
RE: Dominant in the kitchen - 9/24/2006 3:15:18 PM   
DiurnalVampire


Posts: 8125
Joined: 1/19/2006
From: Nashville, TN
Status: offline 		Its not just a guy thing.  I toss the boy out of the kitchen on occasion when I have decided that I am aking some of my favorite foods, that he just doesnt get right.
My personal favorites... buffalo wings (usualy when I am entertaining), A concoction I call SouthWestern Dip, Veggie Lasagna and Baked Ziti.
I hapen to be a very good cook, so I enjoy getting into my own kitchen on occasion. I also like the fact that when I decide I want to cook for others, and not jsust he and I once I am down tehre, his campus buddies are more than wiling to help us eat *laugh*

DV

_____________________________

I will be your Dominate if you will be my submit - Fox

Snarko Ergo Sum
If you cannot change your mind, how are you so sure you still have one? -proverb

*Owner of Fox - collared 10/13/07*
VampiresLair

(in reply to LuckyAlbatross)
Profile   Post #: 3
RE: Dominant in the kitchen - 9/24/2006 3:16:29 PM   
Aine


Posts: 820
Joined: 4/12/2005
Status: offline 		My switch boyfriend is actually the Master of the kitchen.   He went to culinary school.  So I let him have it.  Though he tries to teach me.  *giggles*

_____________________________

Honey, you obviously missed the "want to be used as a toilet fetish" thread or "where do I get instructions on setting my sub on fire" thread. LOL

Thank you, DelRay for that one.

(in reply to LuckyAlbatross)
Profile   Post #: 4
RE: Dominant in the kitchen - 9/24/2006 3:20:15 PM   
ScooterTrash


Posts: 1407
Joined: 1/24/2005
From: Indiana
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

Its not just a guy thing.  I toss the boy out of the kitchen on occasion when I have decided that I am aking some of my favorite foods, that he just doesnt get right.
My personal favorites... buffalo wings (usualy when I am entertaining), A concoction I call SouthWestern Dip, Veggie Lasagna and Baked Ziti.
I hapen to be a very good cook, so I enjoy getting into my own kitchen on occasion. I also like the fact that when I decide I want to cook for others, and not jsust he and I once I am down tehre, his campus buddies are more than wiling to help us eat *laugh*

DV
LMMFAO.....OK DV, point made...it's not necessarily a guy thing then, it's just an "I'm taking over and Dominating the kitchen thing".

_____________________________

Formal symbolic representation of qualitative entities is doomed to its rightful place of minor significance in a world where flowers and beautiful women abound.
-Albert Einstein

(in reply to DiurnalVampire)
Profile   Post #: 5
RE: Dominant in the kitchen - 9/24/2006 3:21:01 PM   
juliaoceania


Posts: 21383
Joined: 4/19/2006
From: Somewhere Over the Rainbow
Status: offline 		My Daddy is a wonderful cook and cooks whenever he likes. He enjoys cooking at times. I would love him to teach me his favorite recipes and styles. I love to bake personally. I love to bake cookies, cakes, pies and cobblers... I am an excellent baker. I love to make pretty baked goods too. I make a mean breakfast and can make things out of nothing.

Daddy has a well stocked kitchen with exotic appliances, spices, and utensils... some of which he beats me with while I cook...WEG

_____________________________

Once you label me, you negate me ~ Soren Kierkegaard

Reality has a well known Liberal Bias ~ Stephen Colbert

Great minds discuss ideas; Average minds discuss events; Small minds discuss people. Eleanor Roosevelt

(in reply to Aine)
Profile   Post #: 6
RE: Dominant in the kitchen - 9/24/2006 3:29:48 PM   
twicehappy


Posts: 2706
Joined: 2/5/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross


I've known lots of doms who enjoyed cooking and took over the kitchen.  It's just my own problems of being an insanely picky eater.


Sounds like he just was not aiming his cooking skills at your taste.
 
We live with the world's pickiest eater though. Jewel is so picky about some things you need an instruction manual to cook for her, hell it takes five minutes to learn how to fix her cup o noodles.
 
But we love Scooter's spaghetti, OMG it is about the best i've had which is a mouthful considering my previous owner was 100% Italian from Italy.
 
A ps to Jewel here; Mistress mine you have been wonderful about tasting new and different dishes and i am so very proud of you and happy you are finding things i can cook you love. To date she has tried and eats regularly, fried chicken with cream gravy, rosemary chicken and veggies, stuffed green peppers and chicken fried rice.
 
 

_____________________________

Infinite Diversity in Infinite Combinations.

The human heart is not a finite container but an ever expanding universe with all the stars contained there in.

(in reply to LuckyAlbatross)
Profile   Post #: 7
RE: Dominant in the kitchen - 9/24/2006 3:31:53 PM   
demistress


Posts: 391
Joined: 4/24/2006
From: Dela-where?
Status: offline 		I am a very picky eater, who loves to cook.  My houseboy can't cook worth a darn, but he sure can clean!!!  And that's perfect for me :)

Mistress Heather
www.mizzspice.net

(in reply to ScooterTrash)
Profile   Post #: 8
RE: Dominant in the kitchen - 9/24/2006 3:41:26 PM   
mixielicous


Posts: 1283
Joined: 4/6/2006
From: Boston area, Massachusetts
Status: offline 		Master always cooks, He is a chef of sorts.

i cut andd prepare all food though so its easy for Him, and i set the table and clean up.

_____________________________


"lets just say he's a few prawns short of a galaxy"


(in reply to demistress)
Profile   Post #: 9
RE: Dominant in the kitchen - 9/24/2006 3:43:22 PM   
topcat


Posts: 1675
Joined: 1/31/2004
From: Tidewater, VA
Status: offline 		M. ST-
 
I almost never allow a woman to cook for me- in addition to knowing few that can actually cook well, they get their feminine emissions in the food, which can sap our manly virtue<g>.
 
I have a pretty wide range, but for a blow-their-mind meal, I 'd likely go with a few specialitys:
 
A marinated (Soy and Wasabi) tuna steak, slow cooked rare, with lighty blanched broccoli in butter and garlic.
 
Monkfish Francese with an  Armenian rice pilaf, and green beans.
 
Chicken Scampi over linguni, with a stir fried vegtable melody.
 
I'd start most with a blonde on blonde onion soup, and for desert, just coffee and sweets...
 
Stay warm,
Lawrence

_____________________________

-there is no remission without blood-

(in reply to ScooterTrash)
Profile   Post #: 10
RE: Dominant in the kitchen - 9/24/2006 3:45:06 PM   
KnightofMists


Posts: 7149
Joined: 7/29/2005
Status: offline 		only if I am interested in making everyone suffer by eating my cooking... thou there is a couple things i do make... like my Chile.  Otherwise... I don't get too reckless in this realm beyond my skills

_____________________________

Knight of Mists

An Optimal relationship is achieved when the individuals do what is best for themselves and their relationship.

(in reply to ScooterTrash)
Profile   Post #: 11
RE: Dominant in the kitchen - 9/24/2006 4:53:43 PM   
Littlepita


Posts: 1430
Joined: 10/6/2005
Status: offline 		I plan the weekly menus for us and somethings he is better at and other things I'm better at. I tell him on the days he is cooking and he never has a problem with it at all. We also have an excellent system that who ever cooks the other does the dishes.

_____________________________

“I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naive or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman.” – Anais Nin

(in reply to KnightofMists)
Profile   Post #: 12
RE: Dominant in the kitchen - 9/24/2006 5:03:09 PM   
MCandNuri


Posts: 50
Joined: 9/21/2006
Status: offline 		Hate to brag, but I have never been thrown out of ANY kitchen. :-)

_____________________________

You spend so much time asking "What would coyote do?"
I think Coyote is laughing- as usual, and answering back, "What WOULDN'T Coyote do?"

(in reply to Littlepita)
Profile   Post #: 13
RE: Dominant in the kitchen - 9/24/2006 5:06:31 PM   
Caitriona


Posts: 327
Joined: 8/28/2006
Status: offline 		I have only been thrown out of my kitchen once - it was this previous Valentine's Day when my Dom called my mother to get her recipe for beef enchiladas.  I miss Mexican food so much now that I live on the East coast. 

I was nervous, with all the noise he made cooking, but it was divine.


_____________________________

Property of Shadowraven
Serving alongside ciarra

(in reply to MCandNuri)
Profile   Post #: 14
RE: Dominant in the kitchen - 9/24/2006 5:09:41 PM   
MsKatHouston


Posts: 1909
Joined: 6/7/2006
From: Houston, TX
Status: offline 		LOL this happened to me last night.  My husband had some friends over and because I love to cook, usually do the majority of it.  He was hovering...trying to be helpful and I just told him to get out of my kitchen. 

He's not bad in the kitchen either but when I want to cook...everyone get out.

I also have no problem with those who are skilled and want to cook for me "ordering" me to relax while they do so ;)

_____________________________

-Kat

~If you can't be a good example, you'll just have to serve as a horrible warning~

(in reply to ScooterTrash)
Profile   Post #: 15
RE: Dominant in the kitchen - 9/24/2006 5:13:29 PM   
stockingluvr54


Posts: 673
Joined: 6/22/2006
Status: offline 		got about 2-3 dishes that are kick-ass (potatoe salad,stew,and the "Cindy special")........I don't mind the cookin so much ...it's those #!&%$ dishes I don't like!

< Message edited by stockingluvr54 -- 9/24/2006 5:15:26 PM >

(in reply to ScooterTrash)
Profile   Post #: 16
RE: Dominant in the kitchen - 9/24/2006 5:37:25 PM   
ScooterTrash


Posts: 1407
Joined: 1/24/2005
From: Indiana
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: stockingluvr54

got about 2-3 dishes that are kick-ass (potatoe salad,stew,and the "Cindy special")........I don't mind the cookin so much ...it's those #!&%$ dishes I don't like!
OK..I admit...I do like to cook on occasion, but "twice" still gets the luxury of cleaning up the mess..lol.

_____________________________

Formal symbolic representation of qualitative entities is doomed to its rightful place of minor significance in a world where flowers and beautiful women abound.
-Albert Einstein

(in reply to stockingluvr54)
Profile   Post #: 17
RE: Dominant in the kitchen - 9/24/2006 5:43:44 PM   
ScooterTrash


Posts: 1407
Joined: 1/24/2005
From: Indiana
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: topcat

M. ST-
 
I almost never allow a woman to cook for me- in addition to knowing few that can actually cook well, they get their feminine emissions in the food, which can sap our manly virtue<g>.
 
I have a pretty wide range, but for a blow-their-mind meal, I 'd likely go with a few specialitys:
 
A marinated (Soy and Wasabi) tuna steak, slow cooked rare, with lighty blanched broccoli in butter and garlic.
 
Monkfish Francese with an  Armenian rice pilaf, and green beans.
 
Chicken Scampi over linguni, with a stir fried vegtable melody.
 
I'd start most with a blonde on blonde onion soup, and for desert, just coffee and sweets...
 
Stay warm,
Lawrence
Damned TC, I think your variety of ass kickin meals might blow mine away, but my spagetti is still to die for...lol. Must be a biker thing, maybe we learn early that if we don't want to scarf off the roadkill, we better know how to cook. I have no issues with "twice" whipping up a meal", some of her meals we just stuff ourselves with, but when you have a specialty...it's cool to flaunt it.

_____________________________

Formal symbolic representation of qualitative entities is doomed to its rightful place of minor significance in a world where flowers and beautiful women abound.
-Albert Einstein

(in reply to topcat)
Profile   Post #: 18
RE: Dominant in the kitchen - 9/24/2006 5:51:18 PM   
Bearlee


Posts: 2311
Joined: 10/25/2004
From: South Central CO
Status: offline 		I can cook anything and now that my kitchen is finally finished I've got neighbors asking if they buy the ingredients I request; would I cook for them again?  LOL 
 
...and coming from the restaurant business, I know PLENTY of guys who can cook!  I know one M/s couple where He does 99% of all the cooking (but little cleanup; he IS Dom, afterall)  LOL
 
I think I just fell in love with TopCat, though.
 
And...julia?  Does this mean you're a masterbaker?  hummmmmmmmm???
 
<giggles & runs>
bear

(in reply to ScooterTrash)
Profile   Post #: 19
RE: Dominant in the kitchen - 9/24/2006 5:52:23 PM   
stockingluvr54


Posts: 673
Joined: 6/22/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: ScooterTrash

quote:

ORIGINAL: stockingluvr54

got about 2-3 dishes that are kick-ass (potatoe salad,stew,and the "Cindy special")........I don't mind the cookin so much ...it's those #!&%$ dishes I don't like!
OK..I admit...I do like to cook on occasion, but "twice" still gets the luxury of cleaning up the mess..lol.


Jeeeez.....now you're makin me want a couple of full blown slaves?  lol......

(in reply to ScooterTrash)
Profile   Post #: 20
Page:   [1] 2   next >   >>
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> Dominant in the kitchen Page: [1] 2   next >   >>
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.115