LadyPact
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My thanks to you, darchChylde, for being so sweet. Also, bipolarber, My thanks as well for the very interesting story relating your experiences. Many times, I wish more males could be as open as you've been. I've said this before on other boards, but it's obviously been a while. I never use the term "forced" for anything. Usually, I prefer the term "encouraged". There really is a vast difference between the two. If you don't believe Me, look them up. This topic, along with some others, such as strap on play, is very sensative to a lot of people out there. It's one of those that I put under the 'handle delicately' area. As big of a fan as I am of it, I realize, being a rational human being, that it's not for every submissive out there. Some will have it on their absolute hard limit list for all of eternity. There's nothing wrong with that. Just like there's nothing wrong with those who don't have it as a hard limit. Each situation, each person is different. Where I'm going with this, I suppose, is what ever happened to the males talking with their Dominant about the issue? Doesn't it really all come down to discussing things before play and the sub responding with yes, no, or maybe? (Acceptable, hard, or soft limits.) I can't possibly be the only One out there who still relies on negotiation to know boundries. If someone is that hard core against it, wouldn't you think the Domme would know? With all of that said, I still think the topic is a bit unbalanced. Are W/we really supposed to believe that there is such a higher percentage of bisexual females rather than males solely based on gender? Perhaps it's something tied up in the X chromozone? Is the chemistry of the brain so involved in regards to whether a person has a vagina or a penis that it tips the scales somehow? Have We learned so little about social conditioning in the past fifty years that We can't realize the effect that it has on this discussion? It's like anything else. Some like it. Some don't. Those of U/us who do like it, however, can really enjoy it.
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