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Question about strapon play - 11/11/2006 10:15:23 AM   
leatherzack


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Do You consider the use of a strapon as a punishment or as a reward ? And why ?

Thank You in advance.

Devoted regards,
Zack
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RE: Question about strapon play - 11/11/2006 10:38:52 AM   
nikaa


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Status: offline 		In my opinion  sexual contact (masterbation or other wise)or the right to orgasm can be used as both a reward and a punishment.

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RE: Question about strapon play - 11/11/2006 10:49:23 AM   
MsKatHouston


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Status: offline 		I use it as a form of play.  It is not necessarily a reward but can be.  I do not use strap on play as a form of punishment.  I do not want an otherwise pleasurable form of play that I enjoy associated with somehting negative.  But that's just me :)

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RE: Question about strapon play - 11/11/2006 11:12:45 AM   
demistress


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Status: offline 		I'm with MsKat on this one, I regret the one time I used strap-on as punishment.  It is far harsher and lasting than any beating, and was more emotionally damaging to the sub than I would ever have expected.

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RE: Question about strapon play - 11/11/2006 11:18:47 AM   
nikaa


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Status: offline 		I have used it on one submissive while I could not use it on others because I thought it would probably do more damage than good.
 
Like any other punishment or reward I beleive it depends on the situation and the people involved.

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RE: Question about strapon play - 11/11/2006 11:21:27 AM   
sissifytoserve


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Status: offline 		My opinion as a sub...I think this could go either way.

I find it both pleasurable...and yet at the sametime intimidating/punishing.

Ill never forget the day my ex rather vanilla girlfriend walked into the bedroom (after I hinted to her miy interest in crossdressing and strap-on play)
wearing nothing but knee hi boots, a black bra and a strap-on around her waist.

OMG...my heart started pounding wildly and my jaw literally dropped.....not much would come out of my mouth but...duh...duh....blah...blah...

and she moved in rather quickly. I will never forget that.

So it can be an uneasy combination of the two.....but i can't say i don't appreciate the intimidation factor of it.

Oh yeah..lol...to add...she told me later " That look on your face was priceless".




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RE: Question about strapon play - 11/11/2006 11:37:04 AM   
jamesthehumanrug


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Status: offline 		greetings lea. zack,.........
but for who!? the giver or the reciever?
quote:

ORIGINAL: leatherzack

Greetings to All,

Do You consider the use of a strapon as a punishment or as a reward ? And why ?

Thank You in advance.

Devoted regards,
Zack



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RE: Question about strapon play - 11/11/2006 12:23:09 PM   
leatherzack


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quote:

ORIGINAL: demistress
was more emotionally damaging to the sub than I would ever have expected.

Could You please explain ?

quote:

ORIGINAL: jamesthehumanrug
but for who!? the giver or the reciever?

For the receiver

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RE: Question about strapon play - 11/11/2006 1:13:40 PM   
Mikal


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Status: offline 		 I don't use it for punishment because that is too close to rape imo. Very bad no-no.

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RE: Question about strapon play - 11/11/2006 2:13:29 PM   
jdtallfem


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Status: offline 		Most of the subs I've ever met love it or want to get "broken in" to using it.  I would never punish anyone with it.  It's definitely a reward.  Now if I do nipple torture at the same time (grin).

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RE: Question about strapon play - 11/11/2006 2:37:03 PM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		I use it as play and a reward because he loves it and I love giving it to him

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RE: Question about strapon play - 11/11/2006 2:42:58 PM   
Morrigel


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Status: offline 		I've never used penetration of any kind with a man or woman who wasn't getting off on it very, very intensely.  That is the point...

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RE: Question about strapon play - 11/11/2006 3:04:12 PM   
DianeB269


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quote:

ORIGINAL: leatherzack

Greetings to All,

Do You consider the use of a strapon as a punishment or as a reward ? And why ?

Thank You in advance.

Devoted regards,
Zack




Yes and yes

Huge strapons for punishment and small strapons for rewards.


Diane

click on my link

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RE: Question about strapon play - 11/11/2006 3:59:07 PM   
BossySSBBW


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Status: offline 		I think that is an individual basis act.  Some sub/slaves enjoy the strap on play, therefore it would be a reward.  The ones who do not, would find it a punishment.  There has to be communication between the Domme and her sub/slave to determine the slant on it.  Also you need to make sure the sub/slave is truthful about their likes and dislikes.  It could mean twice as much punishment if they lie.

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RE: Question about strapon play - 11/11/2006 4:07:02 PM   
sissifytoserve


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ORIGINAL: DianeB269




Yes and yes

Huge strapons for punishment and small strapons for rewards.


Diane



Owie...no big dongie in sissy's hiney....makey go owie....

Hurt bad.

Ruin hiney.

< Message edited by sissifytoserve -- 11/11/2006 4:12:34 PM >

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RE: Question about strapon play - 11/11/2006 4:32:37 PM   
fergus


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lashra

I use it as play and a reward because he loves it and I love giving it to him

~Lashra



Damn it, why are you not single and so far away?

lol, I have to agree with most of the posters.  Falls into the realm of "depends".  And communication is ALWAYS key.

fergus

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RE: Question about strapon play - 11/11/2006 4:35:57 PM   
DianeB269


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ORIGINAL: sissifytoserve

quote:

ORIGINAL: DianeB269




Yes and yes

Huge strapons for punishment and small strapons for rewards.


Diane



Owie...no big dongie in sissy's hiney....makey go owie....

Hurt bad.

Ruin hiney.



Come on, bend over and take it like a man

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RE: Question about strapon play - 11/11/2006 4:39:54 PM   
Bearlee


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In my mind...ANY kind of sexual play is reward or just the normal course of the (romantic) day/night.
 
But…gawd do I love a man who likes such things…
 
hot, Hot, HOT!!!


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RE: Question about strapon play - 11/11/2006 4:41:16 PM   
sissifytoserve


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Status: offline 		Not with something that big...no thanks.

You'd split this sissy in half...or worse.

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RE: Question about strapon play - 11/11/2006 4:42:58 PM   
DianeB269


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sissifytoserve

Not with something that big...no thanks.

You'd split this sissy in half...or worse.


My new strapon is only 11" long and 6.5" around

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