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RE: How Does one find a Mistress? - 11/22/2006 2:44:49 PM

LotusSong

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ORIGINAL: sissifytoserve

Ive come to the conclusion that she is going to come to you if anything.

Ultimately...when a domme looks at your profile...she is going to figure out in about 2 seconds wether
or not you are sub or slave material.

If she contacts you...you might have a chance but you should tell her the truth about what your interests are
and what you would be willing to try and what things you can compromise in order to get along.

Whatever you do..don't fake it..because wwhen the time comes...both of you have general ideas about each other.

Example: a male sub who says he is into full body whipping...and then meets a domme who cant wait
to start whipping her sub..only to find out he is not into it is an immediate relationship breaker.

Basically...be yourself..because you shouldn't want to be appreciated for something you are not. Thats a lie.

Take heed! (EXCELLENT post, Sissify!)

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RE: How Does one find a Mistress? - 11/22/2006 3:21:51 PM

silverthorn7

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Najakcharmer - I love your witty replies. You have a gift with words - and that is a fine translation of Mr. doggydog's comments, by the way.

Silverthorn (heterosexual Domme who is certainly not a hooker!)

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RE: How Does one find a Mistress? - 11/23/2006 7:09:34 AM

ykmsteven

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With great difficulty, I've come to the conclusion that its highly unlikely that you'll find someone online, I'm sure I've seen the ratio of 70 sub males per dominant females quoted for collarme, with 65 potential players, timewaters, willy e-mailers, day time tv watches, married with children, all the dominant females have heard it all before, they've heard all the chat and lies so I feel its near impossible to shine above any of those.

Best place probably is local meets, read the postings, voice you opinion that does get you noticed. However do as I say not as I do! I've been searching for a while but to no avail, to the extent that it would be less mental stress to just give up my search - if I start chanting vanilla sex, vanilla sex, ds is no good, everyday for 8 months maybe I'll be "CURED"

Goodbye heartless scene - and thanks for getting in the way timewasters.. boo hoo
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RE: How Does one find a Mistress? - 11/23/2006 7:16:22 AM

ScienceBoy

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Good for you!

I've concluded that the scene perpetuates.. quite a lot of rubbish.

I have been, and I have seen.. and there are so many goddamn perves of all kinds out there that you'll never find at a munch or a club, or here, that it boggles the brain!

Even if you take account of the fairly widely held contention that men are just plain kinkier than women, the numbers are silly.

In my life thus far, I've observed that you're more likely to meet a Domme at a metal night, than at a BDSM event, or online.

Don't believe the hype! Fight the power! etc.

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RE: How Does one find a Mistress? - 11/23/2006 2:48:15 PM

crouchingtigress

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good advice here already...ill only ad one thing this is more then a resume for a job, this is your life, this is your happiness, this this your fufillment....

so i look at your photo and i say good looking guy, but gosh cant he find a picture that expresses his personality other then he likes his web cam?

i am not trying to be mean, only helpful, and its not just ot you, so many boys (girls too) basically glance up from their keyboard and click their profile picture...this is how you want millions of people to see you at first look?

a picture is worth a thousand words....say something inviting, meaningful, friendly or adventurous.

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RE: How Does one find a Mistress? - 11/23/2006 10:43:31 PM

kc692

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LotusSong

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ORIGINAL: doggydog

You can't. Female dominance is so unnatural that heterosexual "dommes" are almost invariably hookers trying to make a buck off sad cases who can't face the reality of male-female nature.

awwwwwwwwwww..... bad prom date buddy?

And to the OP: The Domme finds you..not the other way around. This is why you need a decent profile and decent pictures. We look and if interested, we'll contact you.

Again with the generalizations.....I agree he needs a decent profile, but please do not profess to speak for Me. I do NOT look, although I do respond if I am interested in one that contacts Me. That is how My slave came to My household, and personally would appreciate it if you would start using adjectives as most, and many, instead of "We look" and presume to speak for every domme on here. Since he is looking for pointers, you are blithely dismissing his question, and in fact, giving him erroneous information. You are only qualified to speak for yourself, and I would appreciate it if you would quit presuming to speak for Me. I am well qualified to speak for Myself.

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