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RE: How do you feel about BLOOD? - 3/1/2007 12:52:24 PM

moki1984

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you dont know how nice it feels for me to read these...i have dabbled in blood letting with a very very close individual. it was very very sacred and very very endearing and a rush in ways I can not explain. It is something I have hidden though...I felt that was too taboo. I brought it up to my husband once and he said he wasn't suprised at all that I did that, but he would never do it. It is a relief in ways to know things I once thought were taboo and wrong of me...are actually practiced by more than I realized.

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RE: How do you feel about BLOOD? - 3/1/2007 1:00:27 PM

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Both blood and needles were two things that were on my ultra hard limit list because i was so scared of them, and i'm sure that y'all noticed the past tense of that statement. One time after the limit on needles had changed, after the needles had been taken out, the feeling of the blood running was so hot, so powerful that i am now asking questions about cuttings, preparing myself for one. i don't really even have words to describe the internal sensations that the flowing blood caused. Some of the other posters have described it much better than i.

heartfelt

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RE: How do you feel about BLOOD? - 3/1/2007 1:04:07 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: moki1984

you dont know how nice it feels for me to read these...i have dabbled in blood letting with a very very close individual. it was very very sacred and very very endearing and a rush in ways I can not explain. It is something I have hidden though...I felt that was too taboo. I brought it up to my husband once and he said he wasn't suprised at all that I did that, but he would never do it. It is a relief in ways to know things I once thought were taboo and wrong of me...are actually practiced by more than I realized.

I'm glad this thread gives you some relief of your desire to participate in blood practices.
It indeed is a great comfort to understand many feel the same way you do in things.
I'm glad we're company for you so you don't feel alone, wierd or isolated about this as much.
suzanne

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RE: How do you feel about BLOOD? - 3/1/2007 1:10:42 PM

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Love it! Can't live without it!

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RE: How do you feel about BLOOD? - 3/1/2007 1:12:18 PM

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I have allowed needle play in one of my sessions (even though it was a hard limit before. This was an experiment to see how I did),

now with my boyfriend I have been doing a LOT of energy exchange experimentation. And we have gotten into pain, and such on a small extent. Instead of a Dom I seem to be learning with HIM about what we both like/don't like. This last weekend we tried biting. He gives energy incredibly well, and can cause...errr..certain parts of me to throb when he is not touching them. He tried biting me on the wrist and I urged him to bite a lot harder (I have a great tolerance for pain when aroused it seems) and it felt incredibly erotic. No blood exchange at all. And only one tiny bruise (darn it!)
but the feel of his teeth scraping, and biting down..and how HELPLESS I felt then... well it was a great high. Sent me right into subspace... and I had to beg for another errrr.... well lets just say I told him girls get blue balls too and I needed some relief.
BTW he was not that impressed with me biting him. Perhaps because he is so dominant in this relationship..ESPECIALLY sexually. I would let him take blood but it doesn't interest him. Injuries bother him..he doesn't like the idea of harm to the body. He is a bit empathic.

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RE: How do you feel about BLOOD? - 3/1/2007 5:45:09 PM

MasterFireMaam

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I don't think vampires really exist.

I thought this, too, until it was pointed out that I was defining "vampire" using Stoker and Rice. These monsters are not what we are at all, at least not me. I'm not immortal nor do I fly, but I do feel a draw and need to feed...sometimes on blood. Doing such without the consent of the giver (food) is unethical in my world, and for many others. This need to feed on something this way is a much more archetypal, broader definition of vampire. Dhampire by Vi Johnson is much closer to what I think about myself. She tells interesting folklore, too.

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RE: How do you feel about BLOOD? - 3/1/2007 6:00:47 PM

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I have a funny story!! I once was trying to give a hicky on the butt cheek... I sucked really really hard with all my might... I did not leave a mark on her butt, but ended up with a mouthful of blood! It freaked me out.. I thought I sucked so hard that I damage something inside my mouth, however it was her blood.

I was really freaked at first, rushed into the bathroom... to examine my mouth open in the mirror.. LOL..

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RE: How do you feel about BLOOD? - 3/1/2007 6:35:04 PM

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lol wtf

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RE: How do you feel about BLOOD? - 3/1/2007 6:37:15 PM

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ORIGINAL: FiretheAngel

I've read the books on vampires, some of Anne Rice, and all of that is romantic and all, but let's be real here. As Riptide said, I don't think vampires really exist.

You are partially correct, vampires like Anne Rice wrote about are just a fantasy. The rest of us are real. We just don't shapeshift into wolves or bats, we don't fly, we have reflections in mirrors, crosses don't scare me.. I won't live forever... I could go on but then I would just be repeating what Master Fire already said.

Blood doesn't scare me if it is, as others have stated, entered into with respect and full knowledge of the possible consequences. Very few people "make me see red" as I refer to it, and it would take a long time before I acted on it.

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RE: How do you feel about BLOOD? - 3/1/2007 6:46:06 PM

MasterFireMaam

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Fast reply...

Before we happen to get side tracked about whether or not vampires REALLY exist, I think it's important to say that a person's beliefs define their world. Magik is real to some people, others insist that it's bogus. Both are true...for each person. My post wasn't trying to convince anyone that vampires are real...only that I think/feel I'm one. What's valid and true for me because of what I've chosen to believe may not be for someone else.

Master Fire

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RE: How do you feel about BLOOD? - 3/1/2007 8:57:52 PM

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I never really had that much of an opinion on blood play one way or the other until I met my current partner. I've heard that my area has one of the highest concentrations of bloodthirsty players, but ... well, okay. Whatever. I don't faint at the sight of blood, but I don't drool over it either. I've given blood with no ill effects, and I don't bleed for very long.

The way my Daddy eroticises blood letting and taking made me curious enough to consider and test long enough to agree to both regular fluid and blood bonding. If he gets cut or scraped, he'll hold the wounded part out to me to suck upon. When he cuts me or pokes me with needles, he'll usually lick up the blood. I've grown fascinated in watching beads of blood roll down my skin. I've come to anticipate how warm he feels when he leads forward to lap at my chest. At best, it feels like communion -- like I'm an offering. Sometimes I wonder how close I am to understanding how fertility or abundance goddesses feel during worship.

We recently attended a workshop on ritualized bloodplay, and I felt as though I'd come home. Between tastings, practice and one or two unspiring scenes (roleplay and bloodplay don't seem to mix well for me); simple ritual seemed to be a way to honor what was going on. No silliness, no hiding behind a script ... just careful, heartfelt talk and timing.

As to vampires, I've seen books and articles on "psychic vampires," "emotional vampires," "energy vampires" and the like. Usually such articles point to people who can make you feel drained just by being near them, usually people who the protagonist of the article needs or tries to get away from. Some of the writings on the subject are mainly pop-psychology, some are new-age or paranormal works.

I imagine that someone who suffers from insomnia, someone who is on a manic or hyper swing and wants to be brought back to baseline, or just someone who ended up with more stimulant in their system than either healthy or necessary might be willing to consent to help from someone with these types of vampiric tendencies just so they can calm the heck down. I've never heard of it happening pleasantly, though.

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RE: How do you feel about BLOOD? - 3/1/2007 9:31:43 PM

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I personally believe that there are demons who can possess humans and feed on blood of others. I don't think it's really what Ann Rice or Buffy/Angel make it out to be, but I do believe in it.

But vampirism for me is just people who use and enjoy blood as a form of connection and energy transfer to such a degree that they associate part of their identity to be a "vampire." They certainly exist but I find many of them annoying because they tend to have very low ethics on stealing energy from others.

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RE: How do you feel about BLOOD? - 3/1/2007 9:46:07 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

I personally believe that there are demons who can possess humans and feed on blood of others. I don't think it's really what Ann Rice or Buffy/Angel make it out to be, but I do believe in it.

But vampirism for me is just people who use and enjoy blood as a form of connection and energy transfer to such a degree that they associate part of their identity to be a "vampire." They certainly exist but I find many of them annoying because they tend to have very low ethics on stealing energy from others.

They tend to provoke the Sadistic Vampire Killer inside of me....

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RE: How do you feel about BLOOD? - 3/1/2007 9:49:53 PM

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ORIGINAL: heartfeltsub

Both blood and needles were two things that were on my ultra hard limit list because i was so scared of them, and i'm sure that y'all noticed the past tense of that statement. One time after the limit on needles had changed, after the needles had been taken out, the feeling of the blood running was so hot, so powerful that i am now asking questions about cuttings, preparing myself for one. i don't really even have words to describe the internal sensations that the flowing blood caused. Some of the other posters have described it much better than i.

heartfelt

I sometimes wonder if for some of us our deepest desires become our hardest limits... it seems to be the case for me.

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RE: How do you feel about BLOOD? - 3/1/2007 9:51:01 PM

sabis

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The first time my Owner used needles on me, the shock of seeing my own blood made my stomach churn. Like a little kid, seeing the blood seems to make everything hurt more intensely. That works for him, because he likes seeing me hurt.

Aesthetically, it has been said that the crimson of blood against my (exceedingly pale) skin is a pleasing thing. My skin is very translucent, and it's easy to visually trace the path of the veins.

On one occasion, I needled my own tits for my Owner's pleasure, during sex. When I removed the needles, one vein spurted blood for a brief second, splashing him and I both. He rather enjoyed it, as much for the 'aaaigh!' factor in my eyes, as the aesthetic.

~sabis

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RE: How do you feel about BLOOD? - 3/1/2007 9:51:58 PM

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No, not into blood in any way. I have an aversion to it, that would make me want to throw up.

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RE: How do you feel about BLOOD? - 3/1/2007 9:54:02 PM

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I am cool with it.

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RE: How do you feel about BLOOD? - 3/1/2007 10:59:07 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: WhiplashSmile

I have a funny story!! I once was trying to give a hicky on the butt cheek... I sucked really really hard with all my might... I did not leave a mark on her butt, but ended up with a mouthful of blood! It freaked me out.. I thought I sucked so hard that I damage something inside my mouth, however it was her blood.

I was really freaked at first, rushed into the bathroom... to examine my mouth open in the mirror.. LOL..

LOL thought you damaged something in your mouth, thats funny.
I have quite large pores and not so much on my neck, but on my chest, stomach, and inner thighs. ( only places i've tried) When a person sucks as if to give me a hicky the blood comes right up my pores making little pools. It was quite odd the first time i noticed.

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RE: How do you feel about BLOOD? - 3/1/2007 11:43:55 PM

bellanotte

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ORIGINAL: Aubre

I prefer that it stays inside the body.

Took the words right out of my mouth.

Mine as well *wry smile.*

I -do- very much enjoy needle play (what I have done of it *lol* - two scenes/four needles total); however, the person I have done the needle play with knows that the flow of blood is a hard limit for me. Though I've only begun exploring that activity, there hasn't been anything beyond a single small drop of blood due to his being extremely careful.
That said, I would not engage in needle play, nor knife play (non-cutting), which I also adore, with anyone I did not feel I could trust implicity. Emotional involvement is not so much the issue for me as feeling secure in that the person knows what they are doing enough to KEEP that blood inside my body.
It's walking a tightrope, and I think tat is part of the attraction for me.

If anyone were ever to spill blood in such a play by true accident I don't think I would be completely freaked, but it would shake me a bit. Seeing my own blood just squicks me completely. The trust itself, putting that in the person to do such dangerous play in a safe manner without spilling the blood, is the major attraction fo rme.

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RE: How do you feel about BLOOD? - 3/1/2007 11:48:39 PM

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being a carbon-based life form...i can't live without it...literally.

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