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onestandingstill -> How do you feel about BLOOD? (3/1/2007 6:50:58 AM)

My feelings on blood rituals is that they are not to be undertaken lightly.
Neither the feeder or the food should enter into such a union without respecting this bonds the two of you in deep ways to each other physically and spiritually.
Not only should this be observed as the closest way to taste someone else's life force in spiritual senses, but also in the notion of the sharing of body fluids and the exposure that leaves you open to.
I would only consider permanent marking on my person, and sharing my life's blood with someone who was way within the inner circle in my life.
The raw and utter power of the spiritual union and pact this forms on top of the trophy you bare of that deep intimacy leaves me with respect for some who undertake it for the powerful thing it is, and no respect for those that undertake it without considering the total spiritual energy exchange and magnitude of the symbolism attached to the practice in some fashion.
Even in needle play where the blood is not consumed I feel the spilling of my blood is a sacred rite I've allowed to happen in myself and with the one who made me bleed.
I am highly turned on and excited about needle play.
I crave having a mate that shares this energy with me a lot.
I also have been into BDSM less than two years.
In that I have only done needles 4 times, when I'd have rather done them a couple of times a week.
Until the partner I have is on the same power exchange wave length and place I am in my being during my blood letting experiences, I just prefer to not experience it as the sensation alone is not what my blood spilling is about in my mind if done respectfully.
It's about opening my most vulnerable gift and not allowing anything to stand between my physical being and the others being and a connection and bonding of your spirits to me.

How do you feel about blood spilling in any form during an energy exchange?
What do you think about spilling, or having you blood spilled, feeding, or being the one fed on in your energy exchange dynamics?

suzanne
**Edited as form in my question ended up for.



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: How do you feel about BLOOD? (3/1/2007 7:11:47 AM)

Blood play is one of the few things I do not engage in casually.  Obviously the health issues are there, but more because it is such an intense deep fluid exchange for me that it's something I want and need to keep special because it's such a vulnerable opening into someone for me.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_322160/mpage_1/key_blood/tm.htm#322528
blood play

http://www.collarchat.com/m_206738/mpage_1/key_blood/tm.htm#206752
What is vampirism?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_200009/mpage_1/key_cutting/tm.htm#200057
Cutting

Vampirism and bloodplay

Blood and vampires

Vampirism and succubus



Aubre -> RE: How do you feel about BLOOD? (3/1/2007 7:38:25 AM)

I prefer that it stays inside the body.



juliaoceania -> RE: How do you feel about BLOOD? (3/1/2007 7:48:03 AM)

quote:

How do you feel about blood spilling in any form during an energy exchange?

What do you think about spilling, or having you blood spilled, feeding, or being the one fed on in your energy exchange dynamics?



The idea of ingesting blood is literally sickening to me, and I am not saying that it is wrong or anything, it just makes me physically ill to even contemplate for some reason. I can see how some would feel it was a deep ritual they engaged in.

We are going to do knife play one day, and I could get cut, that does not bother me. The idea of sucking blood or sucking someone else's is very discomforting. I have thrown up twice due to ingesting blood (my own). Once because I split my lip open and swallowed a great deal of blood, and when I had my tonsils out. Blood does not sit well on the tummy for me.

As for the rest, he is not into the literal spilling of my blood. It could happen accidently that he draws blood. He has some trepidation against using vampire gloves to spank me even. He is concerned about breaking the skin even though one can sterilize and disinfect wounds, infection is a very real possibility.

Blood and vampirism is very sexual. It is not something I am particularly attracted to either though....

Interesting question.. I will be following this thread



sleazybutterfly -> RE: How do you feel about BLOOD? (3/1/2007 8:18:03 AM)

To be honest, I consider it very sensual and sexual.  Its something I have always wanted to try, to have someone drink from me..sort of like they were taking me into them, my power, my sexuality, my lust.

There has always been something erotic and taboo about the whole vampire thing for me.  It has had me curious about it for as long as I can remember.  I have dreamed of having a man/woman drink from my finger or my breast while there is sensual music playing and candles all over the room.  It would be a very highly charged atmosphere and one that would draw that "dark" part out of me.  Its sharing a part of myself that is so precious, none have had it before, exposing my strength and my weakness.

Its not something I would practice with just anyone, but with the right person and the right timing, I would very much try it.



MasterFireMaam -> RE: How do you feel about BLOOD? (3/1/2007 8:20:42 AM)

I've seen casual blood play. I've enjoyed watching. However, for me, it's sacred. When I cut someone, it's for a purpose. There is a real possibility that a scar will develop and be with the person long term or for life. That's not something that I do lightly. When I pierce, it's usually for ritual purposes, or, if it's more casual, it usually ends up having deeper meaning for me whether it does for the piercee or not.

I am both a psychic and sanguine Vampire. That means I feed on energy and blood. I do neither without consent. I have taken energy from many people. I have taken blood from two people. I have given blood to one of those. It's taken me some time to come to terms with being a Vampire. Being one is not at all like what you read (i.e. the Gospel according to Stoker or the Gospel according to Rice  ).

There is a risk factor with blood play, just as there is with anything. You have to weigh the risks and decide for yourself. It's certainly not something I do lightly and I have refused the offer from several people, including my own girl, due to risks that I judged too much. Learn proper clean techniques and wound care, even if you're the receiver. How you care for your wound after the Top is gone is a huge contributing factor to how it heals.

Master Fire



AquaticSub -> RE: How do you feel about BLOOD? (3/1/2007 8:24:16 AM)

~Fast Reply~

My feelings on blood is that it's very tasty. Seeing Valyraen drink mine would be very sexual for me because I've got this "thing" about vampires. However, I doubt we will do it because I'm also a wuss when it comes to knives and being cut.



Padriag -> RE: How do you feel about BLOOD? (3/1/2007 8:24:26 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aubre

I prefer that it stays inside the body.

Took the words right out of my mouth.



MissyRane -> RE: How do you feel about BLOOD? (3/1/2007 8:25:09 AM)

I don't mind blood in general, on the other hand I don't like ANYTHING that involves taking blood out of the body except it's for medical care. Blood is what keeps you alive geez I have no ambition for any kind of bloodplay whatsoever and would never ever try it even though someone went onto their knees begging me to try, I simply find it wrong.



toservez -> RE: How do you feel about BLOOD? (3/1/2007 8:26:18 AM)

Certain things I am willing to do can cause blood and sometimes some blood happens for other types of play. At all times a person should be very careful of blood contamination.

I believe in taking blood exchange very seriously and to be very careful about it. For me intentionally this behavior is a hard limit. I can see if two people in a strong relationship want to do something like that but to me it is very risky play when done casually.




duckykarma -> RE: How do you feel about BLOOD? (3/1/2007 8:31:01 AM)

I find the thought of Vampires very erotic but when it comes to blood  there is NO way. 



LODK -> RE: How do you feel about BLOOD? (3/1/2007 8:38:15 AM)

DK and I are both fascinated by knife play and the spilling of my blood.  We're both a little edgy at times, but knife and bloodsport isn't anything either of us was too interested before we encountered each other, so I think it's a phenomenon that grew out of our relationship with each other rather than something that is inherently in either of us alone.  Mental magic, really.



SusanofO -> RE: How do you feel about BLOOD? (3/1/2007 9:32:16 AM)

I am not into vampirism or anything like that, and don't see it anytime in the future for myself. Blood resulting in a scene tends to be an indication (to me) it is a pretty "serious" scene, and I see it as a side-effect of things like really serious whipping, etc. If it resulted in that way, I don't think I'd be totally squicked, but - I wouldn't want to see it on a regular basis, either. Just not my thing.

I am not into "Knife-play" (mostly for other reasons) and have made that clear to my partner, so I probably am not going to get into loads of blood-inducing scenes during our time together (could happen, but doubtful, IMO). That is just fine w/me, too.

- Susan 



Wildfleurs -> RE: How do you feel about BLOOD? (3/1/2007 9:35:21 AM)

I like the (what I percieve as) more primal forms of play that involves blood, so while we've done needleplay somehow it just has never grabbed either of our interests and to me just feels to sterile.  But I love when we do shallow cutting with a knife, which we haven't done in a little while.  And what was really memorable was when my owner cut me enough to have some blood run down my breasts and then he licked it up (it was a long standing fantasy that I begged... errr pestered... err begged to have done for a few years).

But for me it definitely is an intimate sort of thing and I can't imagine doing it with anyone other than my owner.

C~



StellaByStarlite -> RE: How do you feel about BLOOD? (3/1/2007 9:39:38 AM)

Hello. =)


Blood. Hmmmm. Well, I'm glad I have it. =)

Seriously, I just don't think that's a fetish my owner and I would ever get into. Being squeamish has nothing to do with it, just the opposite. I guess I've just had too much experience bandaging scraped knees and applying mercurachrome (sp?)
to booboos to look at blood erotically.

It's understandable, though, how some people can find it hot.

Cheers,
Stella



azzmaster -> RE: How do you feel about BLOOD? (3/1/2007 9:39:53 AM)

i was gonna say that same thing as aubre about it stayin in the body. i have seen that stuff done and it doesn't bother me nor does it get me excited. just remember that HIV is at its highest concentration in blood, much higher than in semen and if u have any breaks in ur skin at all or if it hit a mucous membrane u could b infected. SO KNOW WHO U R PLAYIN WITH



onestandingstill -> RE: How do you feel about BLOOD? (3/1/2007 9:45:58 AM)

Thanks to all who've shared and participated so far.
I'm learning a lot about how Blood letting in an energy exchange dynamic is viewed in the community.
I've enjoyed the input so far.
suzanne



MadameMarque -> RE: How do you feel about BLOOD? (3/1/2007 10:00:46 AM)

Oh, blood.  Yes, it is all about the intimacy and the intensity and the vulnerability, and sometimes, even about twin primal impulses –
one, as the one who causes the wound, or feeds from it, or makes the wounded one suffer; the other, as the protector of the wounded, their family.

Recently, I’ve been watching MARS, an ongoing drama based on a manga.

There’s this moment.  It’s not explicit, it just touches some things, for me.

You don’t really have to know the background story, but for me, it’s part of why the little moment gets to me.

The main male character, Ling, is a wild boy who is finding himself drawn to an extremely introverted girl, Qi Luo.  He has a dark and violent side, but she invokes a protective instinct, in him.  Another girl, much more aggressive than Qi Luo, has noticed Ling’s interest in her and is jealous. 

One day, coming into class, Ling leaves the other girl, to come sit next to Qi Luo, who is so painfully shy, she’s busy avoiding his attentions.  She occupies herself sharpening an art pencil with an Exacto knife.  The other girl comes walking behind her, intentionally knocking her in the back of the head, and Qi Luo slips and slits her finger open.  Without a second’s hesitation, Ling takes her finger into his mouth, to nurse the cut.  She tugs her finger out of his mouth, startled.  The look on his face is one so natural, surprised at having been interrupted, and still in a certain state of mind.  That look of doing something instinctual.  I swear, the actor’s eyes are dilated.

I find that so touching and so intimate and so very exciting.  It doesn’t take much, I think.  Just the right context, the right feeling, the right intentions, an intimate connection.

And they show that little moment, as part of a montage, at the beginning of every episode. 


"Drink from me and live forever."
 
- Camui Gackt, from the song, "Transylvania"



ArgoGeorgia -> RE: How do you feel about BLOOD? (3/1/2007 11:26:26 AM)

Blood doesn't bother me.  I was a medic in the army, saw quite a bit of nastiness.  At the same time, it doesn't get my rocks off.  I doubt I would want to ingest any, but then again, there are many things I do now that I've never thought about doing in the past. 

My lack of aversion to blood does open up possibilities as far as knife and needle play, though, which many can't because of their blood squick factor.  So, yea for me!



FiretheAngel -> RE: How do you feel about BLOOD? (3/1/2007 12:12:30 PM)

I've read the books on vampires, some of Anne Rice, and all of that is romantic and all, but let's be real here. As Riptide said, I don't think vampires really exist. However, if someone wants to drink someone else's blood because they get pleasure out of it, then I think they have every right to do it, as long as their partner agrees. We all have to think about STDs and whatnot, so I would hope whoever is engaging in this activity is doing that as well.  Whatever lifts your skirt, puts some motion in your ocean.
And so forth.



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