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Have to move - anyone need a live-in sub? - 11/22/2010 9:56:26 AM   
Creatively


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Status: offline 		Ugh, have to move at the end of the month.  Need a cheap place with some storage for my apartment of stuff.  Would love to be someone's sub/slave, to earn my keep.  Could be a guy or a t-gurl maid.  Prefer Nashua area, but flexible for right sitch.
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RE: Have to move - anyone need a live-in sub? - 11/22/2010 10:20:29 AM   
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Status: offline 		Or, I could just go down to My local homeless shelter and ask somebody to move into My house that I don't know.

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RE: Have to move - anyone need a live-in sub? - 11/22/2010 10:35:24 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Or, I could just go down to My local homeless shelter and ask somebody to move into My house that I don't know.


This.  What the OP is suggesting is way, WAY unrealistic.  Kink doesn't make this kind of situation with a stranger any better or less risky, and it's more likely to make it worse with uglier drama potential if things go wrong.


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RE: Have to move - anyone need a live-in sub? - 11/22/2010 10:43:08 AM   
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Status: offline 		You might be able to move into this guy's house.

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RE: Have to move - anyone need a live-in sub? - 11/22/2010 10:46:50 AM   
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Status: offline 		Take that fucking rolling screen shot of you off... you aren't doing yourself any favors and it fucking pisses me off that you did that. I wouldn't have you any where near any of my family. 

< Message edited by Lockit -- 11/22/2010 10:47:16 AM >

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RE: Have to move - anyone need a live-in sub? - 11/22/2010 10:48:16 AM   
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RE: Have to move - anyone need a live-in sub? - 11/22/2010 2:54:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		Earn your keep? I'm such a lousy Dom that I need to pay someone to submit to me? You didn't score any points with that one.

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RE: Have to move - anyone need a live-in sub? - 11/22/2010 8:27:35 PM   
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RE: Have to move - anyone need a live-in sub? - 11/23/2010 12:29:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		Wow, such vile bile.  i didn't SAY i was looking for free or sight unseen.  People DO place ads looking for places to live and on short notice.  This just had an added facet of our lifestyle as well.  Maybe i should have said 'added benefit' i can earn my keep.  See how much i can learn about each of You in a short time?  Phew.

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RE: Have to move - anyone need a live-in sub? - 11/23/2010 12:44:45 PM   
AlwaysLisa


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Status: offline 		Lifestyle aside...do you understand the possible dangers to both yourself and the person opening up their home?   

Why would you even consider someone from an online message forum, even if you do meet them once or twice?  Take care of you, try homeless shelters, or the local church if your unable to rent an apartment.  If time is the only issue, stay at Motel 6 until you can find a place.  



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RE: Have to move - anyone need a live-in sub? - 11/23/2010 8:43:52 PM   
Creatively


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Status: offline 		While i appreciate the sentiment, at least from the last person who hadn't malice laced in :-), subtract the fetish angle and its exactly what people have to do all the time in the rental world.  Maybe You all have houses and fences and hedges to keep others away so You are in full control of Your environment and no one will ever do to you [what someone else aparrently already DID do to you].  Might also explain why You have to be Dommes, to be so in control. 

In the real world, away from  this fantasy here, where so many talk and so rarely ever actually meet, You have to interact with others, make judgements, take chances.  Especially when things are down, You might have to take more risks than usual, from lack of choice, to make more choice.  But do it with eyes and senses open.  i never said i wouldn't. 

But that aside, like I said, minus the fetish angle, people decide to 'take a room' or an apartment all the time with NO knowledge of who or what is next to them, fetish or not.  Though one might say its the closeted ones who don't admit it, that are the MOST dangerous.  So someone here might be a far BETTER risk, since they ADMIT what they do.  Don't You feel that about Yourself, being here? 

Since they screwed up this thread somehow and I can't remove it, i figured i'd keep discussing.  though i do have to get back to packing.

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RE: Have to move - anyone need a live-in sub? - 11/24/2010 8:11:12 AM   
AlwaysLisa


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While i appreciate the sentiment, at least from the last person who hadn't malice laced in :-), subtract the fetish angle and its exactly what people have to do all the time in the rental world.  Maybe You all have houses and fences and hedges to keep others away so You are in full control of Your environment and no one will ever do to you [what someone else aparrently already DID do to you].  Might also explain why You have to be Dommes, to be so in control. 


I've never been in the situation where I was forced to move in with a stranger, so I don't understand your need.  Nor am I a Domme, so again...don't get it.    What has control got to do with this?   People rent apartments all the time, lifestyle and sexual preference has nothing to do with it...unless you make it so.   Keeping it safe for you, is my primary concern :)

In the real world, away from  this fantasy here, where so many talk and so rarely ever actually meet, You have to interact with others, make judgements, take chances.  Especially when things are down, You might have to take more risks than usual, from lack of choice, to make more choice.  But do it with eyes and senses open.  i never said i wouldn't. 

Such is reality. I am here, online, the same as offline...the only "chance" I take is the occassional bet on a horse. 
 
But that aside, like I said, minus the fetish angle, people decide to 'take a room' or an apartment all the time with NO knowledge of who or what is next to them, fetish or not.  Though one might say its the closeted ones who don't admit it, that are the MOST dangerous.  So someone here might be a far BETTER risk, since they ADMIT what they do.  Don't You feel that about Yourself, being here? 

I don't "do" anything, so Im not the right one to ask.  :)   Good luck on your search, hopefully everything will work out for you.

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RE: Have to move - anyone need a live-in sub? - 11/24/2010 11:54:10 AM   
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Status: offline 		The Sought or for Sale forum is not a discussion forum. This thread will be locked and those that have a legitimate response to the OP can use email.

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